TTC after Miscarriage part 4

[Ella31]

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

@Ella31 I'm sorry AF reared her ugly head.ninknow today was hard enough for you as it was. How have you and hubby been today? I'm ok, 4dpo today. Only did it twice in the "fertile window" so not holding out much hope this month to be honest. Had a little cramping today on the right but not worthy of noting.

Where is everyone else cycle wise? I out synced with the ladies I was syncing with before my chemical. Xxxx

I’m sorry @Ella31 it’s just so gutting.

I’ve not felt great today. Was posting in a Facebook group about molar pregnancies, and it didn’t really cross my mind that even if I’m negative on urine tests, I can still be positive on a blood test for weeks after. I’m due to do my blood test on 4th July. Was hoping I’d get discharged then. But now realise it could go on for weeks later due to the levels potentially not decreasing in the blood

@Ella31 I’m sorry AF arrived today. Mine did too, confirms that the test was dodgy last week. fertile week next cycle should land while we’re on holiday

@Ella31 im sorry AF arrived. Hopefully your cycles will regulate for you going forward x

I hope you are feeling better this week @Ncl31 . I'm ready to face the next cycle if you are 🥰

That's so hard @Figtree11 excuse my ignorance. Do molar pregnancies cause hcg to stay longer in the blood? Hopefully it won't for you.

There's every chance if one gets in 🤣 I'll be crossing my fingers this week for you.

Thank you, glad today is over. I've cleared out all my supplements. Threw out the ton of opks that I don't use. There's now a box of folic acid, and easy at home tests waiting for month 7 after period ends and we'll see where I go.

I'm sorry @Ella31 . Everything crossed for you next month!

Also sorry you're feeling down @Figtree11 . I hope the July 4 blood test means you can be discharged.

I'm confused.

I got a positive, solid smiley on Clearblue on Friday 14th June. Kept testing Easy at Home, all negative. But my temp has gone up now over 4 days.

I had a lot of EWCM. Still some but perhaps going creamy, not sure.

I do usually get positive on Clearblue, then positive on Easy at Home a few days later, so I assumed we were waiting for that. Charts attached from month we conceived, and this month. Ignore 'Cycle Days' and period predictor etc, it's all out of sync after miscarriage. I did test LH on Easy at Home on 13th, but was negative so didn't record it.

Did I ovulate or not?! I guess really it's a case of "who knows" and wait and see.

@Ella31 yeah from what I’ve read online it takes longer for it to come down. No idea why! Think it said on average around 9 weeks.

@Ncl31 so sorry AF has arrived. It’s so cruel that tests can be false like that

@ExTriTrying thank you x

That's something I didn't know. What I will say is with my two mc before my boys, it took 8 weeks to ovulate anyway. And I was early. 8 weeks and a chemical respectively.

But I know you are just trying to get things back to normal and clear your worries. Hopefully those stories are just on the later side of peoples experiences.

Thats good to know - after my first MC it also took 8 weeks for my period to arrive. I feel like I just read about peoples cycles coming back quickly.

Yeah I am hoping I am just reading about the worst case scenarios, but I guess I can lower my expectations & hope for the best. Thank you ☺️

Absolutely. You've been through a lot. I think your are doing brilliantly

Thanks @Ella31 right back at you xxx

@Ella31 I'm sorry to hear AF arrived 🙁

I've been MIA the last few days, no news to update. Still getting negatives on OPK's so I think it may be next month before we start to be able to try again.

possible positive?
What do we think? I did a Clear blue FMU this morning and no line but couldn't shake being able to see a shadow- even DH agreed. Just done this with second urine and 2hr + hold.
It came up in the time and I'd say definitely has colour in real life.
I wouldn't normally test so early but I've started taking norethisterone in readiness for IVF in July. I obviously want to stop taking it ASAP if that's a positive but equally don't want to mess up a July cycle if it isn't! Xx

@Onthedouble123 I can definitely see something 🤞

@donb
@DonnaWhat God, I really hope this is the one 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
I know I just have to wait and test again but I cannot concentrate on anything at all. It's the first sniff of a positive we've had since our loss in November. Desperately want to fast forward time! Xx

I wonder is this my ovulation coming back, it’s still reading as low but it’s a definite spike on the chart.

@Onthedouble123 i can definitely see a feint line there 🤞

@Lovedatforme I'm no expert but that looks like it's spiking toward a peak in next couple of days! 🤞🏻 Xx

@Onthedouble123 I have everything crossed for you. How many dpo are you? Will you be doing a digital in a few days? I'm really happy for you both ☺️ 😊

@DonnaWhat Im 9dpo according to the app so very much early days. Trying not to get ahead of myself too much! 🙈 Xx

I see it ❤️❤️

It’s gone even darker tonight so maybe I do have a chance this month 🤞 BD today so hopefully I’m not too late. With the MMC last month it was hard to tell and I only stopped bleeding 2 days ago!