TTC after Miscarriage part 4

[Ella31]

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

@ExTriTrying

Thanks @Ella31 xx

Thanks @Ella31. How are you getting on? When are you planning on testing?

Friday but worrying a bit. I use a core vaginal temp sensor and it looks like I ovulated on June 8th but I only dtd 4,5,6 and 7. Not 8. Sigh.

@Ella31 with my last pregnancy I didn't dtd on ovulation day and still get pregnant. It's better that you did it before! Hope it's your month.

Same to you @jellyfish2 it's hard month after month isn't it? Where are you cycle wise?

@Ella31 it really is. I'm due to ovulate probably on Friday. We won't get a chance to dtd then either but will do so tonight and tomorrow so hopefully that's enough to cover it.

Thanks @Ella31

How is everyone today?

Finally got a negative test after my MMC, so hoping so start trying soon. Never thought I'd be happy to see a negative test 🙃

Glad to hear that. I'm doing ok. Stressing a bit about going into month 7 if this month doesn't work.

Hi ladies…. In 12DPO today.
this morning I got a second line on my test. Although I’ve stupidly retested this afternoon with a 4 hour hold and it’s whiter than white. I was already feeling anxious about it but now I’m just thinking I’ve had a dodgy test or something. I’ve included a pic of this mornings test.

Hey @ThelastRolo20 I've been off and on the last few days, have you had your scan yet?

@Ella31 no it's tomorrow. Trying to stay calm about the whole thing, two weeks ago everything was fine so hoping the odds are in my favour.

I saw your message about ovulation, the day before, and even the day before that, is statistically a better chance of conceiving than ovulation day itself. I had sex one and three days before ovulation this time so I have everything crossed for you 🤞🏻 are you testing at the weekend? Xx

I'm going to be thinking of you the whole day. Let's us know you get on, if you want to of course 🥰 I know you'll be fine.

Thank you, so you had it on the day and three days before is it?

@Ncl31 you are probably just very early and aren't diluted enough. Xxx

Could you get a proper test like clearblue or boots?

@Ncl31 I don't want to get your hopes up but maybe the strips aren't sensitive enough? have you tried something like first response or CB? I imagine the wait must be killing you but maybe try again tomorrow or the day after? Fingers crossed for your 🌈

@ThelastRolo20 hope your scan goes well tomorrow 💕

Posting here too as the previous thread is almost full... for those on CoQ10, what brand and dosage are you taking? Did you get medical advice?

@ThelastRolo20 i hope everything goes well for you tomorrow, I’ll be thinking about you.

@Ella31 @MisssMarion i done a boots one this afternoon too, no idea why.

it’s just caused me more anxiety. I just keep telling myself to calm down and see what happens.
12DPO according to my OPKs and Premom…. 10DPO according to OvuSense and BBT. So yes I could just be very early which is what I’m hoping.

Was the boots negative @Ncl31 I've every hope it's just early. If you can wait till tomorrow do, otherwise you'll torture yourself.

You poor thing. Definitely put those tests away xxx rant away here if you need to distract yourself xx

Yes the boots was negative I think, I thought I saw a faint line but at 5 minutes it all disappeared.

I still think it's early days. Stay strong. See what tomorrow morning brings xxx

Keeping my fingers crossed for you. My first baby it took 8 months so I get the feeling, hopefully this will be your month 💞

It's tough. I've always been fast. First two mc's were really quick like month 1 and second was month 3. My beautiful late twins I fell month 4 but I wonder is my body still off because I gave birth to them at 29 weeks 7 months ago. Maybe it's still recovering and not getting why there's no babies here though.

@Ella31 thank you lovely ! I’m 8dpo today! Let the testing commence haha. Having all the signs as my last pregnancy except we dtd 3/4 days before OV so don’t think it worked but you never know!
how are you? Xx

I'm 2 days behind you. That's a great sign. Apparently sperm can survive 5 days so there's every chance. When will you test?