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TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)

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VP91x · 14/10/2020 07:46

Morning all xx

BFPs as I know you all check in and I love updates 💕

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I don't think I have everyone tagged so please pop yourselves in.

Anyone else that would also like to join please do, we are a supportive bunch💜xx

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Runnergirl1 · 14/10/2020 08:10

@VP91x thank you for the new thread. Cd15 for me and eventually got my flashing smilie. Let’s hope it turns static soon or its going to be another long cycle. DTD last night will go again tomorrow. Hoping this is the month 🤞🏻

chloedancer897 · 14/10/2020 08:18

Thanks for new thread @VP91x CD11 today so starting my OPKs 🤞

susiebluebell · 14/10/2020 08:29

Thanks for the new thread @VP91x!

2020wish · 14/10/2020 08:35

Thanks for the new thread x

MichT4 · 14/10/2020 09:11

Thank you lovely @VP91x

Hope everyone is doing well xx

MRJ86 · 14/10/2020 09:28

Thanks for the new threat @VP91x

I did another test this morning - this time a CB one and it came back positive really quickly and clearly. So I'm super happy and super anxious at the same time. Thank you so much for everyone's kind messages. I am terrified of another MC but going to just take it easy and do everything I can. I feel bad as I thought it wasn't likely this month and drank quite a lot over the weekend.

Thanks for all the positive words and support! X

susiebluebell · 14/10/2020 10:10

@MRJ86 the baby isn't receiving food directly from you yet! Still from the yolk. So there's nothing to worry about 😊❤️

I'm procrastinating on getting through the mountain of dishes I need to do so there's space to start working, ugh...

MinnieMouse4 · 14/10/2020 10:35

@VP91x thanks for the new thread x

@MRJ86 that’s fantastic! Congratulations! So pleased for you! Xx

Hope everyone else is doing well xxx

1990EM · 14/10/2020 11:22

@VP91x thanks for the new thread and continuing to include me! Still check here every day. Congrats to those who have recently got BFPs and hope they get stronger and that your little babies grow strong and healthy.
For those who have had a rough week or month and have had confusing results/ diagnoses and uncaring doctors, I'm with you and know what it's like. Just hope that instead of making it feel more unfair I can give a little bit of hope. I know some may remember my story but I have severe PCOS and basically only have a period every few months. Tracking ovulation felt like an absolute impossibility and i have never even got a fully positive ovulation test once in my life so I didn't even know if it was happening or not. I'm now pregnant with baby number 3 after a MC earlier this year. Currently 22 weeks along and grateful for every day I am pregnant, I remember the days where i thought it would never happen. Sending so much love and hope to you all ❤

northerngal20 · 14/10/2020 11:24

thanks for the new thread @VP91x :)

woohoo @MRJ86 that's great news! congratulations!! don't worry about the drinking, i did the same thing this weekend and i think this early it's not going to have an impact (i hope!)

i double checked mine yesterday as i was really worried i was just seeing evap lines, and got this on a rapid result test (i ordered the wrong one that's supposed to be from the day of the missed period so still a bit early) i'm starting to think this could be it now - but still terrified of things going wrong so still not letting myself get excited just yet

TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)
MaiTaku · 14/10/2020 11:40

Hi All. Firstly, congrats to all those with their BFP. Trying for number 3. I have a 14yr old and 2yr old. Took us 8yrs to finally conceive number 2. Have had 2 Miscarriages in 2014 and 2019. 12DPO today and BFN. Been cramping for a week now. With my 2nd Child I had severe cramps every night between wk4 and wk8 as I also have fibroids. Just joining this group be with people in similar situations.

MRJ86 · 14/10/2020 11:55

@northerngal20 remind me what DPO you are? I think I'm around 10/11DPO but no idea when AF would arrive anyway as not had a cycle since MC. It is nervewracking but fingers crossed. I'm super happy for you!

@MaiTakuWhen is AF due? If it sounds like a similat symptom to your 2nd child then you ever know! Did you do an early test? I used FRER in the first instance - seems to be the best one.

I hope everyone is ok - I'll not post much as I don't want to be insensitive but Thank you for all of your support and i wish you all BPFs super soon. X

MinnieMouse4 · 14/10/2020 11:56

@northerngal20 wow that’s such a strong BFP. How many dpo are you? Congratulations xx

@MaiTaku welcome. Sorry to hear of your losses but the ladies on here are super knowledgeable and supportive! Xx

2alreadywantanother · 14/10/2020 12:21

Congrats @northerngal20 and @mrj86 that's fantastic news girls. That happened really quick @mrj86. I'm hoping for the same outcome.
Did pregnancy test last wk and got a neg. Started doing opks last wk. Every 1 of them were stark white and today I got this. Would you guys call this a high or peak? I've started having CM too which I'm hoping is a good sign. Gona have a nice relaxing bath later tonight and pop into something sexy and get the mood going lol hes in for some bonkfest over the next few days 🙈🤣

TTC after MC - October 2020 (Thread 14)
re6ecca · 14/10/2020 12:41

@2alreadywantanother that looks high not peak to me!

northerngal20 · 14/10/2020 12:46

thanks @MRJ86 @MinnieMouse4!!! I think i'm around 14/15dpo, but this was the first full cycle so it's complete guess work! i'm just hoping it sticks :)

@MaiTaku welcome - so sorry for your losses but fingers crossed for you this time! xx

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Tink20058 · 14/10/2020 13:06

@VP91x thanks for new thread I check to keep up with everyone’s journeys, congratulations to all those with bfp’s hoping it won’t be long for you all xxxx

2alreadywantanother · 14/10/2020 13:20

@re6ecca just realised that box is near out of date so gona try a new batch later. I'll try both batches see if any different

re6ecca · 14/10/2020 13:30

@2alreadywantanother good plan! I'm just waiting & going mad

2alreadywantanother · 14/10/2020 13:33

Same @re6ecca. I'm 2.5 wks after D&c and would love to get bfp rather then af. The thoughts of waiting around for that 😥 my friend is 5wks waiting so far. Its shit

re6ecca · 14/10/2020 13:41

@2alreadywantanother that sounds good to me too! I've been waiting since Feb for my man to decide he was ready to try & i know its unlikely in my first month but fingers crossed 🤞

2alreadywantanother · 14/10/2020 14:06

U never know. We decided mid june to try and got my bfp at the start of aug. Think we started mid fw and missed ov in June

MaiTaku · 14/10/2020 14:13

@MRJ86, I used a clear blue test this morning and yes AF is due today or tomorrow. I get severe ovulation pain every month and this month it was 2nd October.

MaiTaku · 14/10/2020 14:20

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Thank you also for the warm welcome.

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