herecomesthsun congratulations, I do hope all will continue well. 
Tank wonderful news, so glad for you.
Hippy all the very best. 
with your boobs and all 
Tina yes, DD was conceived by IUI. Ask any questions you like.
Lol let me tell you a little story - DH and I met when we were both in our 30s. I knew almost immediately he was the one for me but DH was very slow at deciding what to do! After a year or about 18 months I said if you can't decide to marry me then lets slit up and we (in the words of Ross and Rachael) went 'on a break' for about a month or two. I dated other guys (dating agencies). We had a holiday booked and after a month or two we went on the holiday and were re-united. We started going out together again but after another year (Yes, I know) we were no closer to getting married! So I said I want to split up. I love you but I want someone who will marry me. And we went our separate ways, but his birthday was looming and having spent the last 4 birthday (2 each) together we made plans for a meal. My mum asked me what I was doing going out with him and I just said I wanted to have a meal with him. When we met again I felt so excited to see him. I was blind dating again but no one made me feel like him. Anyway, long story short he asked if I would meet him for a chat with a friend and we did. The friend was someone older and wiser and he asked me if Mr Italian asked me to marry him, would I, and I said yes. Later that night the two of us (me and DH not me and the older friend!) went out for dinner and then back to his home - and he popped the question. My view is he needed to know I really wanted him but also he needed to know that if he did not give me what I wanted then I would move on. It was not blackmail, just straight forward being honest! But it took a while for him to get it! Lol I have no idea if that is relevant to your situation but it seems to me you want each other, you care about each other, and yet he can't get over the idea he may not be able to be a dad again. You need to know that he is with you whatever happens but if you want to enjoy a nice weekend away and if it all blossoms into rampant hand-holding then so be it. At the end of the day you both need to make a choice. I feel it is good to be open and honest but also to say 'I have other options, I want you but I don't want to be strung along.' Unlike others I don't want to kick him in the nuts and I don't think he is a terrible person (so please can I come to the wedding - if there is one!) Blessings and at the end of the day - to thine own self be true (Shakespeare was it??).