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largeginandtonic · 07/04/2007 09:48

Morning all, new thread for today.

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AbbyLou · 13/04/2007 10:30

And then I copied it without adding myself - duuhhh!

Skytvaddict- EDD 27 April
ShowOfHands - decided against having a baby, getting a pig instead - Sow (a fat one)
Largegin&tonic - baby no 27
Jessinwa - edd 2nd may
DizzyBrummie - EDD 8th May
AbbyLou - EDD 10th May - surprise
Anneme - EDD 17th May (unless it is a C-S in which case 9 May)
Mrsjaffabiffa _ EDD May 18th UK, 25th France.
Cameroonmama - EDD 19th May C-section around 10th no idea what flavour but hoping for a baby
twelveyeargap - due 19/05 - Girl due 19/05 - Girl
Megglevache - EDD 22nd May
Pebblemum - EDD 23rd May - Girl (i hope!!)
Pinkjenny - EDD 23rd May - Girl (it better be!)
Gingerbear - EDD23 May
madeindevon - EDD 23 may too!! "surprise"
dejags due 24/5 - girl
Scootermum- EDD 24th May - girl MAE
JonahB ? EDD 25th May
Befnal - edd 26 May
MKG - EDD May 26 -boy (although secretly hoping for a girl still)--Will be named Cruz
Cinnamontam - May 27th THE ANTI-MATILDA
jellybellybump May 27th
Juicylucy - EDD May 29th - boy

AbbyLou · 13/04/2007 10:30

And now twice - oh dear, I think I'd better quit while I'm ahead!

twelveyeargap · 13/04/2007 10:35

Don't worry too much Lupins. Your milk supply should catch up today. The supply/ demand reaction is very quick as I remember. Well done for keeping up with it.

LG&T will back me up on this... Kids are great at making you feel guilty. Your DD will feel a little left out right now, but give yourself a break. You can't be in two places at once and frankly, Arlen needs you more than she does at the moment. Facts are facts. Once he's stronger then you can devote tons of time to her. And that will be to ease your conscience, not her feelings - she'll have forgotten all about it! Kids are so resilient to this stuff.
Sorry about your rash. FWIW, my hormones went mad after I had DD and I got boils on my face and all sorts of horrible things. It all settled down within a week. I wouldn't be surprised if your rash is brought on by hormones, BUT obv if it gets any worse you might want to ask a midwife or doctor about it.

Hi Julie. I'm in N10, but will travel...

For the record... In Primark, bought aqua pjs with little hearts on them, pink gingham bottoms with white top/ gingham trim, white lawn cotton short robe and a mint coloured nightshirt which I'm hoping I never have to wear.

MKG - Didn't you tell us that you're over 6ft tall? Surely and 8lb baby wouldn't be unusual for you. DD was 8lb 5oz (her dad was 6ft 4) and I'm only 5ft 3! No tearing, perfectly normal vaginal delivery... Still, I do realise that when you're dealing with medical insurance, you are limited in some ways to what you're covered for. Hopefully he'll be a bit smaller than that anyway.

For any of you trying to shift babies... I bought a nice big beanbag from Tesco direct, just arrived today. £25 inc delivery. They seem to be £40 or £50 everywhere else. It's pretty basic, but if you can stretch to it, they're SO comfy for leaning on as you can rest your belly whilst your bum is in the air. In Active Birth Class, they had us on the floor, cushion under knees and feet, cushion on your calves so you can comfortably lean back again and that makes it comfy to lie on the bean bag with your bum in the air and rest your belly.

twelveyeargap · 13/04/2007 10:46

Hey LG&T - There's just been a thing on Radio 4 Woman's Hour about "bed rest" in pregnancy and them saying that total rest can be bad for the mother. More or less saying "take it easy", but you don't actually have to sit with your feet up - so you've no need to feel guilty about doing stuff unless you've been secretly overdoing it! It's the Woman's Hour podcast for today if you want to listen to it.

cameroonmama · 13/04/2007 10:49

I just updated my stats with my elective cs. Keeping fingers crossed for turning babies..

LG&T still no news from SOH?

Skytvaddict- EDD 27 April
ShowOfHands - decided against having a baby, getting a pig instead - Sow (a fat one)
Largegin&tonic - baby no 27
Jessinwa - edd 2nd may
DizzyBrummie - EDD 8th May
AbbyLou - EDD 10th May - surprise
Cameroonmama - c-section 11th May no idea what flavour
Anneme - EDD 17th May (unless it is a C-S in which case 9 May)
Mrsjaffabiffa _ EDD May 18th UK, 25th France.
twelveyeargap - due 19/05 - Girl due 19/05 - Girl
Megglevache - EDD 22nd May
Pebblemum - EDD 23rd May - Girl (i hope!!)
Pinkjenny - EDD 23rd May - Girl (it better be!)
Gingerbear - EDD23 May
madeindevon - EDD 23 may too!! "surprise"
dejags due 24/5 - girl
Scootermum- EDD 24th May - girl MAE
JonahB ? EDD 25th May
Befnal - edd 26 May
MKG - EDD May 26 -boy (although secretly hoping for a girl still)--Will be named Cruz
Cinnamontam - May 27th THE ANTI-MATILDA
jellybellybump May 27th
Juicylucy - EDD May 29th - boy

SKYTVADDICT · 13/04/2007 11:01

Hi all and welcome Julie.

I am 38 weeks today and was yet again convinced for 4 hours in the night (1 until 5) that early labour had started - only to drop off at about 5 and wake up 2 hours later to pains having stopped! Still having Braxton Hicks today on and off so you never know. I think I've got my hopes up. Just cleaned the bathroom floor on hands and knees so fingers crossed.

DDs and me not dressed today yet! Feeling really lazy but need to go into town after lunch for verucca stuff for DD2 and maybe more library books - going through them like mad.

twelveyeargap · 13/04/2007 11:11

Glad it's not just me not dressed yet. I can't get motivated at all!

largeginandtonic · 13/04/2007 11:56

HA! I knew i was doing the right thing all along TYG >

Kids are shallow creatures Lupin, buy her a peppa pig and she will forget all about the neglect Mine know that mummy is busy growing a baby know it's hard work. Those that are too young to know that (hugs) are easily placated by others xxxx

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InTheseShoes · 13/04/2007 12:24

Morning! (Afternoon??)

Up bright and early to buy ds new school shoes, as realised he hadn't had a new pair since September... he has gone up two sizes, oops! Also bought his new school shorts and some t-shirts, and some birthday presents from Toys R Us - home for 10.20am, and ds and I have been doing housework on a new "pocket money for chores regime" and written a card for his grandma as part of an "improve ds's handwriting regime". Long may it last. Ds has a little friend coming for a couple of hours this afternoon, so all should be well.

I feel massive today, it will be interesting to see what my Mum and dsis think when I see them tomorrow.

SkyTV, sounds very promising, fingers crossed for you! G and T, sorry that it sounds like things aren't going quite how you wanted, I really bounced back from a c-section with lots of arnica and gentle activity. You can drive before six weeks if you get a Doctor's note and you can do an emergency stop. Best of luck love.

Lupins/Aprilmeadow, I'm sure you already know, bur just in case, Mothercare have some really small baby stuff that is gorgeous, saw it whilst in Clarks in Mothercare this morning, and thought of you. Hope all's going well

Skytvaddict- EDD 27 April
ShowOfHands - decided against having a baby, getting a pig instead - Sow (a fat one)
Largegin&tonic - baby no 27
Jessinwa - edd 2nd may
DizzyBrummie - EDD 8th May
AbbyLou - EDD 10th May - surprise
Anneme - EDD 17th May (unless it is a C-S in which case 9 May)
Mrsjaffabiffa _ EDD May 18th UK, 25th France.
Cameroonmama - EDD 19th May C-section around 10th no idea what flavour but hoping for a baby
twelveyeargap - due 19/05 - Girl due 19/05 - Girl
Megglevache - EDD 22nd May
Pebblemum - EDD 23rd May - Girl (i hope!!)
Pinkjenny - EDD 23rd May - Girl (it better be!)
Gingerbear - EDD23 May
madeindevon - EDD 23 may too!! "surprise"
InTheseShoes - EDD 23 May - boy or girl please
dejags due 24/5 - girl
Scootermum- EDD 24th May - girl MAE
JonahB ? EDD 25th May
Befnal - edd 26 May
MKG - EDD May 26 -boy (although secretly hoping for a girl still)--Will be named Cruz
Cinnamontam - May 27th THE ANTI-MATILDA
jellybellybump May 27th
Juicylucy - EDD May 29th - boy

ShowOfHands · 13/04/2007 13:48

Good afternoon all! Got back at 2am this morning, bit tired still but I'm home.

Haven't had chance to properly read the thread but have managed to gather that AM's Ella well and truly jumped the queue. Congratulations, very speedy and I bet she's beautiful.

Well, well, well, the big question, am I still pregnant or am I not?

Yeah, still pregnant!

Had a bit of a scare in the Tower of London, was happily staring at the Crown Jewels (!!porn innuendo alert!!) and wondering how much of a chav the Queen must be with such over the top bling and had what was most definitely a contraction. Then another. And another. Then a show. Then a panic that I was going to give birth on the very spot Ann Boleyn had her head lopped off. Or in a toilet. Or horror of horrors, anywhere in London. You know the rest. She's still in there, fully engaged and trying to be born bit by bit. I have lost the ability to walk like a normal person and am still having irregular contractions but while there's no dilation and the water is intact I can do what I please. Sort of. Just can't choose walking, bending or behaving in a ladylike fashion.

TYG, I gather you tried to text (you were right, I don't have a mobile, it's DH's). The mobile is useless, won't accept messages from people you haven't saved as a contact so I'm sorry. Have now got your number and will add you accordingly. Still intend to meet up with you, you haven't escaped the inevitable. May have to meet halfway in Cambridge though as there's no way I am ever going back to that place. If Mathilda wants to see London she can look at pictures in a book. It's the oddest, noisiest, dirtiest, most inconsistent person stew that I have ever seen.

Top 5 gripes were:

  1. What is the black stuff? You know, the smoggy black stuff that comes out of your nose at the end of the day by the truckload. How dirty is the air in London?
  1. The tube. Or as it should be called the place where I might have died, where nobody stands up for a pregnant woman (until you faint) and where people with serious and unresolved hygiene issues invade your personal space.
  1. What are those adverts? The ones in phoneboxes and shop windows? You know 'Genuine 40DD, call number for service'. Are they offering some sort of handyman service? DH said it's more like an odd job woman. I can't imagine what he means.
  1. The price of everything. It's £12.50 to go to the cinema. Each. In Norfolk you can go to the cinema, eat out, see a show and get a tractor home for tuppence ha'penny. And nothing's better, just bigger so what is it you're paying for?
  1. The lost, dazed look in the eyes of souless children who are crying out for some grass and clean air.

Obviously I am jesting somewhat so to even the balance I will add five good things about London:

  1. The M11 gets you right out of there

OK, seriously....

  1. The parks. Regents Park, Hyde Park, Kensington etc. Lovely. Like being in, well, a park.
  1. The zoo. I saw a turtle called Matilda.
  1. A shop that sells only profiteroles.
  1. The zoo. I saw a Eurasian Eagle Owl called Max.
  1. Covent Garden.

It was like high school. I didn't fit in (granted I spent 95% of the time wearing the biggest straw hat you have every seen- with shells on- a hemp embroidered jacket and big ethnic earrings). I think they thought I was a street performer.

The biggest casualty of the week (apart from DH and his farking man flu) were my feet which are officially mince. Walking the streets of London has killed them. They swelled up quite badly on day one and haven't recovered. Arches have completely collapsed and my shoes don't fit. Painful.

Anyway, picked up our free car at some ridiculous hour last night, took ages to get home because of some numpty playing 'bounce your car off the central reservation and cause a jam' and finally made it in at 2am. Proud of DH who has only driven one car for a month round Norfolk getting us out of the Big Smoggy Smoke and home to sanity again.

Have missed you all something chronic. Accidentally went to Bethnal btw, wondered if JL or Befnal were loitering nearby. Were you the two drunk men fighting and vomitting?

Mrsjaffabiffa · 13/04/2007 16:04

Yey for SOH, glad Mathilda is still in utro. PMSL at your thoughts of London, you crack me up the way you write.

MKG · 13/04/2007 16:10

Hi everyone, still here, still pregnant and looking for someone to take over for me.

My fanjo feels better today, after spending the whole day in pain yesterday. You how some people can do an internal and you feel nothing after and some people can do it and it hurts for days, (Look how I use people, like I spread my fanjo for innocent bystanders to check out). I will never allow that doctor near my fanjo again.

Juicylucytoo · 13/04/2007 16:25

Glad you're back safe and sound SOH. Could that be my doormen you're slagging off

London is a fab place and I will hear nothing against it (unless of course I'm the one slagging it off

You need to have a quiet word with Matilda and tell her she's not allowed out into the big bad world until May - No more April bustouts on the Maythread!!

aprilmeadow · 13/04/2007 16:26

Hi there, have just uploaded a pic of Ella in my profile. Boobs are on fire as the milk is well and truely there, not that Ella is complaining. Feeding brilliantly (totally different experience to ds) every 3 hours for half an hour at a time. Took her shopping this morning as i had a whole load of birthday cards i needed to buy - dont have time to make them like i had planned.

SOH glad to read that you are still pg! Love your post it had me laughing out loud!!

I am sending lots of positive baby turning vibes to all you breechies and also nice labour vibes to all of you who wish to have your bodies back sooner rather than later.

Got myself on the scales today... and only have 12lbs to lose before i am back to pre preg weight. But really want to lose about 19lbs tobe back to my pre children weight. That way my wardrobe choices will double!

Pebblemum · 13/04/2007 16:48

Afternoon all

Welcome back SOH and im glad you are still pregnant even if it is only just

Well i woke up all happy and full of energy today, ds2 decided to climb in bed with us at 8 and we all slept in until 10am, first lie-in ive had for ages, ds1 made the most of it too by getting up and watching football in peace

I felt so refreshed i decided to go into Town and get ds2 some new trainers, ds1 went out with his friend and her mum for a picnic so didnt have to worry about him. I was full of energy when we left but it was so hectic everywhere and nowehere had what i wanted in his size so i then had to try another shopping centre which proved to be even busier. We had to park 20min walk away because the mulit-storey car park was full and had a big queue outside, it took us ages to find what we wanted and then we had to wait 30min to be served. By this time all my energy and patience had gone and i just wanted to get home and sit down.

I normally love shopping but today it was horrible, i felt huge, the baby was pressing on my bladder and i kept getting braxton hicks.

Ds1 has just returned from his picnic, it seems they walked miles and miles (before having to retrace their steps because ds1 left his jacket on a seat). I think they will all sleep well tonight judging by the way they are flaked out on the grass outside

Pebblemum · 13/04/2007 16:51

AM what a lovely pic, Ella is gorgeous!!

Its not fair i want mine (although not until she's turned lol)

BefnalBub · 13/04/2007 17:21

Awww - April - great photo! want mine now . well, not NOW now, but you know what i mean!

MKG · 13/04/2007 17:28

April,
Ella looks so cuuuuute!!

SKYTVADDICT · 13/04/2007 18:10

AM - Ella is beautiful, congrats.

A question - how do you use a birth ball properly? Have just blown one up and now not sure what to do with it!!

Still have a really bad back and have had a few Braxton Hicks contractions as the day wore on but nothing else so I think we will be waiting a while yet!

MKG · 13/04/2007 18:31

skytv. You sit on the birth ball. Your knees should be at a 90 degree angle.It takes some practice but soon you'll feel normal. You can sit on it and lean forward on something else like the bed. That way you are still upright like squating, but you are supported.

largeginandtonic · 13/04/2007 18:53

Glad you are home safe SOH, have been fretting about you.

I love London for a visit, you feel so annonymous there and i really like that. The tubes scare me a bit though When i go and stay with TYG she's gonna have to rescue me and the baby from Victoria, there is no way i would attempt the tube on my own. I have done it before with dd, we went to Harrods. I was very scared though.

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Juicylucytoo · 13/04/2007 19:24

AM - Ella is gorgeous. I want replica birth and baby to you, but only in about 7 weeks

Bensonbluebird · 13/04/2007 20:11

Aw, baby Ella! she's so cute. Just been looking at the calender and scaring myself with how close I am - 36 weeks today. Glad all those other babies are staying put for now.

I did something so stupid yesterday, I was glueing the little plastic things that stop the kitchen cupboard doors and drawfronts from banging, only the top of the superglue was stuck up and the glue was squeezing out of the side of the tube. I managed to stick my left thumb to the draw front and my right forefinger to the tube. I called DP for help and he started to unstick me with nail varnish remover, then spilled some on our brand new floor where it made a mark. In the panic that followed I managed to unstick my right hand then immediately stuck my right little finger to the tube again. We finally managed to get me unstuck and get the worst of the mark off about 1/2hr later.

scootermum · 13/04/2007 20:18

Evening all,

Lovely pic April!Shes a beaut!

SOH You are so funny...You are right about the black stuff though-I forgot how when you arent used to it you get quite freaked out by the soot that comes out of your nose when you blow it..It does make you wonder what on earth you are breathing..Glad Matilda still on board though!You can put me down for a Cambridge meet up as well-but on no account are we going on a punt-Im not delivering Matilda for you in the middle of the Cam!

Largegandt-its here!It came at 5 to 3!Its gorgeous!You werent kidding re the tape though lady!It took me an age to get through it all!Anyway DD and I put the wheels on it at once and took it for its inaugural spin up the lane and off road through the fields and it went like a dream-plus dd loved it-so thankyou so much!Cheque should be there or there tomorrow I think-dh posted yesterday..

TYG-You have reminded me that I need a night shirt or something as Pj's wont do will they for labour?-will have to go back to Primark again-or just snaffle something of DH's..Have started packing bags today and realised I dont have anything except two pairs of PJ's and some net pants..

Anemne-your poor DS..It sounds odd but when Ive a bad bruise I apply olbas oil-but usually for ski ing bruises on legs-may not be so nice on a face-and obviously not before the cut has healed up-that would certainly come a bit keen..

Well done on keeping up with the milking Lupins-dont know how you do it what with being sore from the section etc..Im wussing out on the feeding all together as was not much cop at it last time and will always be in awe of people that can do it!Glad Arlen is doing so well..

How are you enjoying your new kitchen by the way Befnal?Bet its lovely now its all done..

Bless mothers-mine is coming next week just to mind dd as I will need to work late after all the time I missed last week-not so bothered as its only 4 more days..(plus am still planning on taking Monday aft off to meet TYG if we're still on for that?).Im secretly hoping she will wash all dds newborn clothes for Mae and cook alot of nice meals for the freezer whilst I am at work-but this may just be asking a bit much..
Am planning on going back to Chesterfield the week after actually Drp-if you fancy a meet up-will certainly want to go into Sheffield or Meadowhall at some point anyway...

DH is watching Sheffield Wednesday on telly-honestly there is no point in trying to communicate with the man when there is any kind of sport on, but when its Wednesday its particularly hopeless!

twelveyeargap · 13/04/2007 20:33

Yawn! Have just spent 3 hours sorting through the ginormous piles of correspondance we have accumulated since we moved in in January. It's now April... Oh dear. Lots of stuff that should have been attended to months ago, like changing the address on the car insurance etc. Woops. SO boring though.

SOH, so glad all is ok and Mathilda still on board. I'm usually up for travelling about so whenever youse are all going to meet up in Cambridge I'll try to be there too.

Scoot - text me on Mon to let me know if you're still on for meeting in Is. I'll assume you are until then. How is your tummy.

Better go and make some dinner I suppose. It is rather late now...

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