friendly I think that was me with the not worrying post. The way I see it is that I can't do anything to change the outcome except try and keep healthy, and worrying about it won't make a miscarriage less likely so I'm just going to try and enjoy it.
Definitely easier said than done though! Im not being complacent, and I'm very aware that I'm not out the woods yet, and that even after the first trimester things can still go wrong (a friend of mine's baby died at 39 weeks, for no discernible reason, which is just awful), but I don't think worrying about this stuff would prepare me if the worst did happen, so I'm going to relax about it and deal with it if it happens rather than waste energy now. I do like to read up on everything though, so I know what signs to look out for that might suggest that things are not going well, so I'm not just burying my head in the sand!
I'm lucky that my first pregnancy was uncomplicated, and that I conceived easily both times, so I guess I'm carrying no residual anxiety from TTC or previous mc, and I'm sure I'd be much, much more worried if things had been different first time round, so I'm not trying to dismiss anyone's else's concern, as others on this thread have been through a lot and I'm sure I'd be the same in those circumstances. Just trying to offer my perspective I guess, in case it's helpful!