My working week is done 
and DP has just gone to get us a chinease 
DS has had a seemingly good day at nursery and will probably eat some chinease ( which tickles me as its grown up food and im sad!!), the weekend has begun again!
Thanks for the advice re when to tell, been asking RL opinions too, one v good friend said recently "your problem isnt staying pregnant its getting there in the first place" which seems to sum up how i feel
i think i will see how I feel at the scan but in all likelihood will tell wed or mon, my reasoning being like kayz my role does have a few risks which i can better avoid if they know, plus I wouldn't abort for Downs or much else that i can imagine, so not concerned as to the results, and think it will be a weight off my mind to tell.. As i am so tired, absent minded and 
at the moment that I'm making silly mistakes... Being newish to the role id rather have some reason known than them thinking I'm useless. Also being more than a little pathetic, ive waited so long I want to know i can tell people.
Feelings may change of course but i think I will tell sooner than later, ive always been pants with a secret 