hi all, sorry for the long silence, been a bit of a crappy time recently... Too tired to do a proper catch up - but glad everyone is doing well!
Have to say though that Lilly was absolutely gorgeous! As was Bun's DS - really adorable! 
And Bun herself looked very happy and well and remarkably un-tired!!
So, why i've been MIA again... In short (I started writing it all out properly but it's too long and depressing); they've found a secondary cancer in MiLs lungs (she had bowel cancer last year - think I mentioned it in a previous thread), so we're facing chemo and surgery for her, which means us probably moving back to where she lives (or rather, DP to her house for overnights, while I stay with my Dad as I'm allergic to her cat / there's no spare room, only an inflatable bed in the dining room) with a newly born fuzzy and me caring for her & fuzzy by myself during the day as DP and his brother work full time (and his brother is less than no help), her dementia is progressing and she's being put on meds to try and slow it, the dementia is causing problems as she (for example) went to A&E on Sunday after bashing her head (she can't really remember how, but won't admit it - we think she may have had a TIA) didn't take anyone with her, didn't give a proper medical history (as she can't remember all her health issues) and consequently didn't get properly evaluated and was prescribed drugs that could interact with her arthritis meds and kill her... :( we eventually found out on Sunday evening (she was trying to avoid telling us), very late, and ended up driving to my dad's that night to stay there so I could be at her house for 8am the next day (when her other son left for work) as she wasn't supposed to be alone for 24 hours. I ended up going to her doctors to get different meds prescribed, then had to take her with me to my scan/BP check/blood test down in brighton then bring her back up to Surrey where she lives. Was a knackering day. Spent nearly 5 hours in the car all in all, plus hours sat in waiting rooms in various medical establishments. :( All because she "didn't want to worry us" by telling us she'd hurt herself / letting us come to A&E with her. This isn't the first time something like this has happened and we're getting close to the point where we may have to look at getting a welfare power of attorney put in place... 
Then to top it all off we had fuzzy's scan on Monday and he's HUGE. Like, worryingly huge. 6lbs 8oz at 34+5 days, with an abdominal circumference that is literally off the top end of the centile scale... I am having the GTT tomorrow, but chances are this means my obst is going to be pushing even harder for an early induction. I have another scan in 2 weeks so am hoping he measures more in range then (this weeks sonographer was crap, so i'm not totally confident of the figures she's recorded) but if he genuinely is getting that big already, I shall probably have to agree to an induction; i'm pretty petite and really need to try and avoid forceps/c-section as they would be disastrous for my own health (which with me needed to care for MiL is even more important)...
So all in all it's been a thoroughly crap week. I'm trying really hard to not get down about it all and just focus on getting through it. But if i'm honest I'm absolutely gutted at losing my newborn stage at home with fuzzy; this is so not how I wanted it to be. I know it's worse for MiL, but that really isn't any consolation. And I'm really worried for fuzzy that I might have gestational diabetes/something might be wrong - I so wanted him to have a good 40 weeks gestation and come out healthy.
We're seeing the specialist oncologist next week, so we'll know more then about what treatment/when for MiL, and we're just hoping that they want to wait a few months, monitor the tumour (it's currently really small) and try and buff her health up a bit (she's really run down) before attempting chemo. Then we could at least have fuzzy and spend a little bit of time at home with him, establish breastfeeding/a routine of sorts before moving away from home for months and having to spend our nights apart.
Sorry for the long/depressing update - just needed to vent a bit... :(