I got in contact with the PPW trust at first because I didn't want to get it wrong with my dd, but they assigned a therapist to me as well. Would have been lost without them. I asked them why they were still available to us and they said in the last stages, the support shifts to more about the living and less about the dying. They are helping us with our grief and to find our 'new' normal.
Widowed and young, not sure if I am classed as that. It's complicated, technically married, but we informally separated very amicably a few years back, we never got around to making it legal as everyone was happy. He got a wonderful new gf, they were cute together, like two peas in a pod and crazy in love. I had a bf. He is more a brother to me after all these years, affectionately loved and a genuine promise we would always be there for each other, and we were.
I'm kind of in no man's land when it comes to what I am to strangers, family and friends knew our dynamic but it's maybe unusual and difficult for others to understand. Might even upset folk. So I keep my feelings for the therapist and amongst ourselves usually and rarely share.
I hope you had an easy day and tomorrow is good one too.