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Husband went to the gym on Christmas Day?

360 replies

pineofcone · 27/12/2024 13:51

We did Christmas just the two of us. We don’t have children and our families live in different countries.

We did presents, watched a film, cooked dinner and then he said he was off to the gym. He is very much into the gym, goes pretty much every day.

He couldn’t understand why I was annoyed that he couldn’t just miss one day. Aibu?

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rubyslippers · 27/12/2024 13:51

surprised the gym was open on Xmas day

DrMaxwell · 27/12/2024 13:52

Um, my first thought is are you sure he went to the gym? Sorry

TwinkleLights24 · 27/12/2024 13:53

Im surprised they were open Christmas Day. I don’t think it’s too bad considering you did all of the other bits of Christmas too.

Ablondiebutagoody · 27/12/2024 13:53

Yeah, right

TwentyTwentyFive · 27/12/2024 13:53

Was the gym actually open, I find that very hard to believe and as per the previous poster I would think he went elsewhere.

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 27/12/2024 13:53

I was just going to say I'm surprised the gym was open. Even the 24/7 one near us wasn't open on Christmas Day.

I would wonder why he had to go too.

Elasticatedtrousers · 27/12/2024 13:53

That sounds like a lie!

Iwishiwasagiraffe · 27/12/2024 13:53

I’m amazed it was open

doodleygirl · 27/12/2024 13:53

I went for a run on Xmas day, didnt for one minute think I shouldn’t.

ElangaScores · 27/12/2024 13:53

If it was just me and DH at home on Xmas day, I’d go to the gym too.

Hercisback1 · 27/12/2024 13:53

"gym" aye..

TwinkleLights24 · 27/12/2024 13:54

I’d be checking their Christmas opening hours.

devildeepbluesea · 27/12/2024 13:54

Anytime Fitness gyms are open 24/7, so I can well believe it’s true. Also it doesn’t sound like he missed much?

Sarahconnor1 · 27/12/2024 13:54

Some gyms were definitely open Xmas day, mine was

GCAcademic · 27/12/2024 13:54

Which gym opens on Christmas day? Because none that I know of does.

TwinklyAmberOrca · 27/12/2024 13:55

Well you don't need to be by each others sides the entire day so sounds like a good idea!

Hope you enjoyed your free couple of hours to relax!

Bewareofthisonetoo · 27/12/2024 13:55

Gyms are open!

pineofcone · 27/12/2024 13:55

It was definitely open.

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ForeverPombear · 27/12/2024 13:55

I think the PureGym near me were open Christmas day. OP I'd be checking to see if the gym he uses was open.

Icanttakethisanymore · 27/12/2024 13:55

I went for a run on Christmas Day which took about an hour. My DP went out on his bike for about 90 mins. I don’t think going to the gym is unreasonable unless he’s there for hours on end.

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 27/12/2024 13:56

If it was definitely open maybe he was bored being stuck at home.

Strikeoutnow · 27/12/2024 13:56

Someone will be along soon to tell you they did an Ironman in the morning & a triathlon after dinner. Gym is just part of their routine.

Globules · 27/12/2024 13:56

Our council run gym was open 10am-4pm on Christmas Day.

I went for a 90 mins run Christmas morning.

You're right to be annoyed OP if you had other things planned for that time. If the alternative was vegging on the sofa, why would you be upset he did something he wanted to do with his Christmas?

And for all those insinuating he went somewhere that wasn't the gym, why on earth would you jump to "he's having an affair" because he went to the gym on Christmas day?!

MemorableTrenchcoat · 27/12/2024 13:56

I saw a few people out jogging and cycling on Christmas Day. Good on them, I thought.

Anywherebuthere · 27/12/2024 13:57

How long does he spend there? If it's just an hour or two what's wrong with that?(If he was actually at the gym )

You don't have to be glued to the hip for the whole day.

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