or just naive to think that women wouldn't stoop so low as to offer their dh a blow job in exchange for a new pair of shoes.

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Cod claims they do

I can't believe it

That would be akin to being a prozzer

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No bloody way. Never ever would I offer sex as a bargaining tool for getting material goods.

why don't they just buy the shoes?
I can't believe people would demean themselves like that....

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I think it's reasonable currency in some marriages.

Not chez squonk of course, I just sulk till he gives in and gives me whatever I want

NO I haven't seen them

HA!! I mis-read the title and I thought someone had offered YOUR dh a blow-job for a pair of shoes

hy do these women have to 'bagain' at all? why don't they have acess to money?

is this in a jokey manner? as some sort of roleplay thing?

(I would want more than a pair of shoes anyhoo)

Why is it stooping low to perform sex acts with your husband?

Something he likes, something you like, everyone's a winner. I think it's quite funny.

It's just a form of negotiation really, surely?

why would you need to? all the married folk, I would imagine, are giving bj's anyway and why couldn't the woman just buy the shoes? or does the man say "if you want some now shoes, you're gonna 'av t get ya laffin gear raund that luv"

??confused lol

Cod, how are you? is puffiness going at all?

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I don't think it is reasonable currency at all!!
What kind of marriages do these people have?
I really don't know anyone that would do that, or any husband that would suggest it other than the creepiest misogynist

Obv it is not stooping low to have sex with your husband!

It is using it to get things that i think is abhorrent

I mean do you have a price list by the bed

1 blow job = new shoes
1 shag = new coat
1 shag up the arse = new car

etc

I don't think tis stooping low to give a blow job. I just feel that to give one in return, however jokingly, for stuff you want like shoes is repellant.

I have seen threads where it has been suggested too.

The suggestion was that the woman instigated it

not the man
i think

I'm assuming, btw, that it is all done in fun and jollity - if the bloke is insisting and she doesn't want to do it, but only is doing it for the shoes, then that's different..

blowjobs are not a treat in this house. Why would someone not buy their DW shoes if there was no financial issue?

Yes quite
since when is a blow job a "treat"

ffs

That's nothing - a good friend had to give her dh one for him to give her a lift to meet up with us

Women use bj's to blackmail their dh's?? I can well believe it but surely it's cutting off your nose to spite your face.

God how demeaning
I would walk rather than do that

I need to see these threads to see what manner it is used in

jokey way, ok, only way of getting shoes, baaaaaaad