I think this is a very emotive subject for you and don't wish to compound your upset by heaping more on you.
However, Hamas are a terrorist organisation and understandably the Palestinian people are scared of them!
And I don't doubt for one moment that Hamas would happily, and cheerfully, brutalise and murder anyone who disagrees/opposes them, regardless of religion, skin colour, political ideology, etc.
And it's the same for all terrorists!
The IRA murdered Irish people. They planted car bombs and didn't knock on all the doors to see if Irish people lived nearby. Hitler murdered Germans who disagreed with him! As well as Jews, Muslims, Romani people, Jehovah's Witnesses, black people etc. ISIS, Al-Qaeda, Taliban, all blew up planes, planted bombs, etc., that also killed Muslims as well as everyone else.
That's because that's what terrorists do! They want to get whatever sick message they have out there in the public domain.
When a NZ man murdered Muslims, the then NZ PM, Jacinta Arden banned his name from being spoken or published in NZ. She said she wouldn't give him, and his terrorist actions, an outlet because that's what he wanted. He wanted everyone to know his name and why he killed those Muslims.
But it doesn't matter why.
There is no good reason.
Just as there is no good reason for the Shoah, or 9/11, 7/7, or for what Hamas did.
Because murder is wrong.
Terrorism is wrong.
And the Israeli government will be wrong if they continue with these attacks. Yes, they want to wipe Hamas off the face of the earth, and who can blame them?
But they also want to wipe out the Palestinians as well.
You only have to see how the Israeli government have allowed Israelis to occupy land that is supposed to be for the Palestinians to see that for the Israeli government, a big problem will be solved if the Palestinians are gone!
The other thing to bear in mind is that Hamas might have been telling the Palestinians not to leave, not to use them as human shields (although probably that too), but because once the Palestinians leave, the Israeli government won't let them return.
Plus of course the logistics of moving so many people and where would they go?
Giving a 1 million people population 24 hours notice of airstrikes, when that population has nowhere to go, only one exit out and also has frail, sick, elderly and young children/babies ro evacuate, is just lip service. So that the Israeli government can say "but we warned them".
I think you're either trying to be very clever with your replies, or you're being disingenuous and naïve. The Israeli government don't have to explicitly state that it's a genocide or that they want all the Palestinians dead - it will be a genocide and it will be wrong.