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Partner doesn't know where he was ??

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Lauryn95 · 10/10/2023 08:56

What would you do if your partner went out to the pub then it progressed to going to town as in late bars and clubs and then you woke up in the morning and he didn't come home ,then he didn't come home til noon the following day and "couldn't remember" where he stayed

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Martin83 · 11/10/2023 06:30

Sometimes when you have too much the memory goes. When he said he can't remember he is probably telling the truth.

horseyhorsey17 · 11/10/2023 10:39

Martin83 · 11/10/2023 06:30

Sometimes when you have too much the memory goes. When he said he can't remember he is probably telling the truth.

Don't be silly. As someone who has got wasted plenty of times - your memory never goes THAT much. Unless he's drinking meths in a park - and even then, he'd know where he woke up - he is lying.

Mydogmybestfriend · 11/10/2023 11:15

My ex used to do this and he even got his mum to lie before. He was cheating ...I honestly wish he left me for one of those women he was such a useless human being in my life

Mother87 · 11/10/2023 16:38

newamsterdam · 10/10/2023 08:57

He knows exactly where he was. He just doesn't know you to know where he was.

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Fionaville · 11/10/2023 16:42

He doesn't even know where he woke up? He's definitely cheated! Don't let him make up some fairytale now he's had time to think.

FrancesInWonderland · 11/10/2023 16:44

My previous partner would do this, and I found out he was heavily using cocaine. It spiralled and from there I found out he was regularly cheating. No explanation is not good enough. I hope you are ok ❤️

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