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Daughter complains about guests

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user1255467 · 25/08/2023 23:40

I live in a small flat with my Dd who is 23. She works till 3.30pm and my sister and her husband have started visiting unexpectedly a couple of times a week at around 3.45 pm just as Dd arrives home and staying till around 5.30pm
Dd is complaining to me that she is tired after work and just wants to come home and relax, her bedroom is off from the lounge so she can hear us talking. My sister and her husband are both retired so can visit at any time but always come either when Dd has just finished work or on her days off.
Is dd been unreasonable?

OP posts:
Crunchymum · 29/08/2023 17:25

user1255467 · 25/08/2023 23:54

She starts work at 9, she use to work till 6 but had to go part time due to health problems. I think this is why it is annoying her because she cut her hours to finish early to rest when she got home.
She pays rent and does her fair share of jobs around the flat.

Well haven't you answered your question there? Your Daughter had to cut her hours due to ill health and needing to rest? I mean surely you can see her issue here.

Get your visitors to come for brunch or go and visit them or arrange to meet up out of the house.

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