"You are looking well"

[Nevermay]

I can't stand this, I get it constantly from stupid ignorant pricks who have no idea what they are talking about and it is so upsetting that I am becoming a recluse just to keep away from them.

No, being bloated out by steroids does not mean I am "well". It means I need massive doses of strong medication to counteract the terrible side effects of chemotherapy taken because of devastating cancer.

Don't bloody tell me I look "well". Don't bloody say anything at all

Yes agree that it means ‘you look fat’, one particular person always says this to me and I’m very certain he knows what he’s doing.

People should just say, Hi how are you? So we can say yeah good, fine thanks and you? all it is really is just a greeting

When you lose weight people tend to blurt it out, wow you’ve lost so much weight you look amazing, even if you are gaunt, hair falling out. so when they say you look well maybe they mean not ill or chubbier