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camelhoe · 10/07/2023 09:11

triggering post and I'm sorry-but this isn't going away and should be exposed.

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Housekeeperbatcocoa · 10/07/2023 09:12

What is it? I'm not clicking on a random link with no context!

AutumnCrow · 10/07/2023 09:15

What is it? What ‘should be exposed’? It’s a random link with no description.

buckingfitch · 10/07/2023 09:16

I did see a thread on this with the bf tweet which was sickening enough but hadn't seen the nipple clamp pictures. Fucking disgusting. I hope that poor bby gets taken off him

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 10/07/2023 09:16

@camelhoe Triggering? You'll need to be a bit more specific than that. You've posted a link with no information, it could be anything

MsPrism · 10/07/2023 09:17

I’m not clicking either

buckingfitch · 10/07/2023 09:18

It's a video calling out a trans man who "breastfeeds" his baby and also posts photos of himself with nipple clamps on so clearly a fetish for him

C1N1C · 10/07/2023 09:19

I've clicked.

[Spoilers]
Riley Gaines calling out a trans individual for breastfeeding, but also obtaining sexual gratification from nipple clamps.

eandz13 · 10/07/2023 09:19

I've seen this! Absolutely vile.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/07/2023 09:21

buckingfitch · 10/07/2023 09:18

It's a video calling out a trans man who "breastfeeds" his baby and also posts photos of himself with nipple clamps on so clearly a fetish for him

You mean trans-identifying male, or transwoman. Transman is a word used for trans-identifying females.

PinkyU · 10/07/2023 09:21

Stop the presses!!!!!!!!

Consenting adult who breastfeeds also likes nipple play(!).

buckingfitch · 10/07/2023 09:22

@Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g thank you but idc it's all fucking nonsense

camelhoe · 10/07/2023 09:22

The Breastfeeding Man -Nipple Fetish'Breastfeeding' man has previous social posts with him in nipple clamps.

https://twitter.com/theparasiteguy/status/1676617960939462656?s=48&t=husuKrLrJtz6omRqRlVU5Q

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Sapphire387 · 10/07/2023 09:22

PinkyU · 10/07/2023 09:21

Stop the presses!!!!!!!!

Consenting adult who breastfeeds also likes nipple play(!).

Does this trans person have milk in there for the baby?

MistyGreenAndBlue · 10/07/2023 09:23

It's very clearly a link to Twitter not some random website.

I think this has been on the Feminism board, I've seen it before somewhere anyway. And yes, it's very clearly a fetish and child abuse.

MoggyP · 10/07/2023 09:24

I've just looked at his account on twitter, and he's ex military, in the US, who retweets a lot of missing children appeals (including commenting positively on arrests of those who abuse children. Also follows a number of US political parody/satire sites.

There is one tweet I can't see (as I have some content blocked) so presumably that's the one where he mocks and wears a nipple clamp? If I hadn't read that description here, I'd never have guessed anything about what you say is his preferred sexual gratification, as it's not apparent in other tweets

GSDmom · 10/07/2023 09:27

buckingfitch · 10/07/2023 09:22

@Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g thank you but idc it's all fucking nonsense

Okay I get the breastfeeding individual is in a league if it's own. But there isn't any need to be like that, the majority of trans individuals just want to live their lives without judgment.

Mustardseed86 · 10/07/2023 09:28

Definitely a fetish. Also what are they actually feeding the baby? I assume hormones and whatever has been used to induce some sort of lactation are not nutritionally appropriate for an infant?

MistyGreenAndBlue · 10/07/2023 09:28

Sapphire387 · 10/07/2023 09:22

Does this trans person have milk in there for the baby?

No. He'll be on medication to induce lactation but it wont be the same as the mother's breast milk and there won't be enough to properly feed a child.

Mustardseed86 · 10/07/2023 09:29

PinkyU · 10/07/2023 09:21

Stop the presses!!!!!!!!

Consenting adult who breastfeeds also likes nipple play(!).

Seriously? You don't see a problem with this?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 10/07/2023 09:29

buckingfitch · 10/07/2023 09:22

@Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g thank you but idc it's all fucking nonsense

One of the things that makes it so difficult to talk about this is people not using plain English. Transwoman sounds like a word indicating a female. It's been cleverly invented for exactly that reason. Once people grasp that we're talking about males who haven't had genital surgery they tend to react differently to all aspects of this vexed issue. No male can breastfeed a baby in the way that a woman can, nor should they even attempt it. It's not in the baby's interests.

ShirleyPhallus · 10/07/2023 09:30

PinkyU · 10/07/2023 09:21

Stop the presses!!!!!!!!

Consenting adult who breastfeeds also likes nipple play(!).

Consenting adult?

What about the baby, do they consent to being fed hormonal nipple discharge?

GSDmom · 10/07/2023 09:30

@Sapphire387
Yes, they are given medication that triggers milk production. Usually the same meds they give women who have low milk supply. However there is also a huge issue surrounding this drug in that lactating mothers tend to struggle to get it prescribed by consultants and usually it's prescribed at too low a dose to actually help. Whereas Transwomen apparently can get it prescribed fairly easily.

buckingfitch · 10/07/2023 09:31

@GSDmom do trans people ever call this shit out? I've never seen any

PinkyU · 10/07/2023 09:31

Mustardseed86 · 10/07/2023 09:29

Seriously? You don't see a problem with this?

Induced lactation - nope

Breastfeeding - nope

Engaging In consenting adult sexual activity - nope.

Putting it on social media - absolutely I see an issue.