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Original poster

Dh said I'm ridiculous

372 replies

pjclown · 07/04/2023 06:53

For going out the front of a premiere inn, in my plad pjs ! Am I really ?! There was no1 around, I put a long cardigan over the top of them!

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Isitoknow · 07/04/2023 06:54

Nipping to the car in the middle of the night? Or starting your day? Context if everything.

thegrain · 07/04/2023 06:55

He's ridiculous

PissTakeSubstitution · 07/04/2023 06:56

Same set you slept in? YABU.

dietcokelime · 07/04/2023 06:57

I mean personally I wouldn't be leaving a hotel room or going outside of it in my nightwear - but ridiculous is a strong word!

Why did you go outside? Was it the dead of winter? Etc

I mean yes you'd be ridiculous to go outside in pjs if it was the middle of the night and raining. Less so if you needed to grab something from the car.

KatherineJaneway · 07/04/2023 06:57

Why did you go out the front?

SunUp · 07/04/2023 06:57

Were you nipping out for a fag with your brew? Not ridiculous.
Wombling round the car park admiring the shrubbery might raise a few eyebrows though.

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pjclown · 07/04/2023 06:57

Nipping out for a vape, 6.30am nobody around. And yeah I didn't put fresh pjs on to go outside lol

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Testina · 07/04/2023 06:59

Well I’d judge someone vaping at 06:30 outside a Travelodge in their PJs. Not for wearing the PJs as such, but for being so desperate to vape that it couldn’t wait until they were dressed.

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pjclown · 07/04/2023 07:00

Testina · 07/04/2023 06:59

Well I’d judge someone vaping at 06:30 outside a Travelodge in their PJs. Not for wearing the PJs as such, but for being so desperate to vape that it couldn’t wait until they were dressed.

I was waiting for this response 😆 we all have our vices.

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thegrain · 07/04/2023 07:02

pjclown · 07/04/2023 06:57

Nipping out for a vape, 6.30am nobody around. And yeah I didn't put fresh pjs on to go outside lol

Was he just finding it amusing or having a go at you?

Ducksinthebath · 07/04/2023 07:02

What are plad pjs? Typo for old? Definitely YABU if they were old and holey. But otherwise fine.

thegrain · 07/04/2023 07:03

Ducksinthebath · 07/04/2023 07:02

What are plad pjs? Typo for old? Definitely YABU if they were old and holey. But otherwise fine.

What's wrong with holes? Who is going to be looking at her that closely!

Testina · 07/04/2023 07:03

It’s not so much the vice (though yes - not keen on vaping at all) but the desperation to do it that you slip out before you’re even dressed!

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pjclown · 07/04/2023 07:03

Oh no it was a very much you're an embarrassment type thing - which is quite unusual for him to be that way actually !
And I mean checked, is this the same as plad? Not old and holey, actually Harry Potter ones 🤣

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Phoebo · 07/04/2023 07:03

pjclown · 07/04/2023 06:57

Nipping out for a vape, 6.30am nobody around. And yeah I didn't put fresh pjs on to go outside lol

YANBU you'd be silly to get dressed!!

Savoretti · 07/04/2023 07:04

Plaid

Testina · 07/04/2023 07:05

pjclown · 07/04/2023 07:03

Oh no it was a very much you're an embarrassment type thing - which is quite unusual for him to be that way actually !
And I mean checked, is this the same as plad? Not old and holey, actually Harry Potter ones 🤣

I knew what you meant (checked) but it’s plaid not plad.

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pjclown · 07/04/2023 07:05

Oh plaid then lol

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Denise82 · 07/04/2023 07:05

Do you have to go outside to vape? Like with cigarettes? Sorry I have no idea about vaping, I thought it was something you could do indoors and wouldn't smell or discolour things like cigarettes do.

Yellowrosesmakemehappy · 07/04/2023 07:05

pjclown · 07/04/2023 07:03

Oh no it was a very much you're an embarrassment type thing - which is quite unusual for him to be that way actually !
And I mean checked, is this the same as plad? Not old and holey, actually Harry Potter ones 🤣

Happy Potter? It gets worse 😂😂

ThankmelaterOkay · 07/04/2023 07:06

He’s BU. Presume he also vapes?

I applaud people like you, the more middle aged vapers the better, and at 6:30am outside a travel lodge. Maybe some teens on their way back from a night out would have seen this - not so cool anymore is it!

If the middle aged can destroy vaping for teenagers like they destroyed Facebook, then I am all for this kind of behaviour.

lipikar · 07/04/2023 07:06

You could have easily vaped in your room. No one would know

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pjclown · 07/04/2023 07:06

Denise82 · 07/04/2023 07:05

Do you have to go outside to vape? Like with cigarettes? Sorry I have no idea about vaping, I thought it was something you could do indoors and wouldn't smell or discolour things like cigarettes do.

Yeah you have to go outside the same as a cigarette, which is fine obviously as it's still other people breathing it in etc, but apparently not acceptable in my pjs!

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AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair · 07/04/2023 07:07

Ducksinthebath · 07/04/2023 07:02

What are plad pjs? Typo for old? Definitely YABU if they were old and holey. But otherwise fine.

I read it as a mis spelling of plaid but maybe that's not right as the desigm uwold be irrelevant to the question

Id judge anuone out in public in their nightwear but I dont think ridiculous is the right word

lipikar · 07/04/2023 07:07

ThankmelaterOkay · 07/04/2023 07:06

He’s BU. Presume he also vapes?

I applaud people like you, the more middle aged vapers the better, and at 6:30am outside a travel lodge. Maybe some teens on their way back from a night out would have seen this - not so cool anymore is it!

If the middle aged can destroy vaping for teenagers like they destroyed Facebook, then I am all for this kind of behaviour.

Haha amazing point