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Original poster

Dh said I'm ridiculous

372 replies

pjclown · 07/04/2023 06:53

For going out the front of a premiere inn, in my plad pjs ! Am I really ?! There was no1 around, I put a long cardigan over the top of them!

OP posts:
Hamsterrace · 07/04/2023 08:02

Standard zoot suit round here.

Original poster
pjclown · 07/04/2023 08:02

I was not going back to bed, I have children to look after. Cue more judgement !! 😮
I am an early riser anyways but obviously kids make it earlier.

OP posts:
AnonymousA1 · 07/04/2023 08:02

@pjclown i went out for a fag in my over sized football shirt I used for pjs in a posh hotel in Marbella. My dad was mortified … I on the other hand couldn’t give a shit and neither should you x

MaltedCow · 07/04/2023 08:02

Ahhh the expected Mumsnet responses. Nope no judgment here, I'm not a smoker nor a vaper but it's 6am not 1pm. You were outside a few minutes not running around Tesco in your pyjamas and it's the Premier Inn not the flaming Mandarin Oriental.

Climbles · 07/04/2023 08:03

As long as he was being lighthearted and he wasn’t actually annoyed about it then I agree with him.

toomuchlaundry · 07/04/2023 08:06

If you weren’t going back to bed why didn’t you change first?

And people who vape in the bedrooms doesn’t that stink the room out?

Pubesofsoberness · 07/04/2023 08:07

I'd do the same, I don't have any Harry Potter pj's though, I'll join you in my lady and the tramp ones

Cherryblossoms85 · 07/04/2023 08:11

Who cares, it's a Premier Inn.

Snowpatrolling · 07/04/2023 08:13

not Ridiculous and people saying they’d judge. They are ridiculous. How are you hurting them in anyway shape or form? If people mind their own business they wouldn’t be so offended!

SunUp · 07/04/2023 08:14

If you're still there tomorrow morning op, I'd just vape in the bathroom with the door closed.
After all, who is going to know whether the mango cloud is actually a vape or your shower gel 😉

BeautifulWar · 07/04/2023 08:14

What are plad pjs?

It's spelt plaid. Americans use it for check but pronounce it plad.

inappropriateraspberry · 07/04/2023 08:14

Same as seeing someone outside in their PJs smoking. I'd judge. It looks desperate, sad and it's still a nasty habit.

QuizzlyBears · 07/04/2023 08:17

Vaping feels to me like a bunch of adults just sucking on adult versions of dummies. I’d judge, but I’m a snob about vaping and the picture you’ve painted is less than classy.

HAF1119 · 07/04/2023 08:19

I wouldn't judge at all :) I would get dressed personally but being outside having a vape wouldn't even think about it if I saw someone

If you was having your brekkie or going to the shops maybe a little ;)

PaigeMatthews · 07/04/2023 08:20

Cherryblossoms85 · 07/04/2023 08:11

Who cares, it's a Premier Inn.

amazing way to sound so judgemental when seemingly making an non-judgemental statement 😂

JeannieAlogy · 07/04/2023 08:21

SunUp · 07/04/2023 08:14

If you're still there tomorrow morning op, I'd just vape in the bathroom with the door closed.
After all, who is going to know whether the mango cloud is actually a vape or your shower gel 😉

The fire alarm might?

mewkins · 07/04/2023 08:22

ThankmelaterOkay · 07/04/2023 07:16

Strange. I thought vaping was reserved for the under 20s and over 40s.

I’d judge anyone in between no matter what time of day it was and whatever attire they were in.

Are people in their 30s excluded? 😁

ThankmelaterOkay · 07/04/2023 08:23

JeannieAlogy · 07/04/2023 08:21

The fire alarm might?

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Problem fucking solved.

Everyone will be out front at 6:30am in their PJs. Judge me now assholes.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 07/04/2023 08:24

Golly. This is precy why I only ever stay at the Ritz.

NEmama · 07/04/2023 08:25

@pjclown honestly it's a bit chavvy.

LyndaSnellsSniff · 07/04/2023 08:25

precisely.

The combined horror of vaping and Harry Potter tartan pyjamas has broken my ability to spell.

ThankmelaterOkay · 07/04/2023 08:26

LyndaSnellsSniff · 07/04/2023 08:24

Golly. This is precy why I only ever stay at the Ritz.

They let you vape in the room?

Personyouneedisnannymcphee · 07/04/2023 08:27

OP this is MN where they’re mostly all clutching their pearls over their breakfast reading this. Ignore the comments about classy etc who cares

PS- I vape too and would do the same

toomuchlaundry · 07/04/2023 08:28

Many schools are getting vape detectors now for their toilet blocks, wonder if hotels will do the same for their rooms

Norriscolesbag · 07/04/2023 08:30

I presume you are a long way from home OP- one of the delights of this is that you can do what you want (within reason) as you will likely never see those people again. So do what you wish.

I will say though that this anecdote totally blows holes in the argument that vaping is ‘totally safe and not addictive’. They are the new cigarettes.

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