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Can’t stop crying - our cat has been killed just before Christmas

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Brighton5555 · 14/12/2022 19:03

Not that there is any good time to be hit by a car and lay overnight on the freezing road but this morning I got a call telling me my cat had been killed on the road I live on and someone was kind enough to pick her up and take her to the vet who scanned her and call me ..

she was 18 months old. I got to speak to the lady who found her and she informed me she literally found her dead outside my house on the road and now I’m haunted she nearly made it home .

I’ve cried on and off the whole day. Can’t bear to be in the house .

Can’t stop crying - our cat has been killed just before Christmas
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kilos · 14/12/2022 19:04

Oh I'm really sorry, this is awful. I'm glad someone kind picked her up and you found out.
Thinking of you.

Wildernesstips · 14/12/2022 19:04

I’m so, so sorry. Beautiful cat x

KeeefBurtain · 14/12/2022 19:05

I’m so sorry.

Wdib78 · 14/12/2022 19:05

I feel for you, we had to have our 18 year old cat pts day before Xmas eve a few years ago, it's heartbreaking.

Sending hugs ❤

Emmalou0607 · 14/12/2022 19:05

What a beautiful kitty. I'm so sorry for your loss 🤍🤍

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 14/12/2022 19:05

I'm so sorry, how incredibly sad. She was so young 💐

SaveMeCheezus · 14/12/2022 19:06

I'm so sorry OP x

stealthninjamum · 14/12/2022 19:06

I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending hugs.

TaysideTeuchter · 14/12/2022 19:06

That’s horrendous - I’m so sorry OP Flowers

Americano75 · 14/12/2022 19:06

Ah, she's beautiful, I'm so, so sorry. Sending you a massive hug love. What is her name?

WhatTheFlap · 14/12/2022 19:06

I’m so so sorry, I just have no words. Sending so much love x

Villagetoraiseachild · 14/12/2022 19:07

So sorry for your loss. There are no words for the loss of a beloved.

Yiayoula · 14/12/2022 19:08

What a gorgeous girl . I’m so sorry. xx

Emdubz · 14/12/2022 19:08

So upsetting for you, I’m so sorry xx

Tundrawave · 14/12/2022 19:09

This is why many cat lovers from outside the UK struggle to understand the culture of letting them free roam.

So sorry for your loss OP

Floralnomad · 14/12/2022 19:09

Sorry for your loss 💐

Syrax · 14/12/2022 19:09

I’m so sorry - I know exactly how you feel.

We lost one on a road 6 months after rescuing him, and another (different house, bought in part because the roads were quiet!) at 7 months old, just a couple of weeks after letting him out for the very first time.

It’s absolutely devastating, and the only time I’ve seen DH cry.

There’s nothing that will help except time… but I feel for you so much. It’s just horrific.

Flowerfairy101 · 14/12/2022 19:10

So sorry for your loss. We lost one of ours outside our house at exactly the same age, I found her Sad its such a shame to lose them so young and in such a sudden way. Flowers

Killingmytime · 14/12/2022 19:10

I’m sorry op. I’ve been there. It’s hard breaking knowing they were just there. Mine was right outside my door Sad

Iamwhatiam52 · 14/12/2022 19:10

I'm so sorry for your loss. It is heartbreaking when they die but as a result of RTA; that's so sad 😔 💐

Hardtoknowwhat · 14/12/2022 19:11

So sorry you've lost your beautiful girl. Thinking of you. x

MilkyYay · 14/12/2022 19:11

Oh op. So sad. Beautiful kitty cat x

Munchyseeds2 · 14/12/2022 19:12

I'm so sorry x

Igmum · 14/12/2022 19:12

So so sorry. Sending love. She is so beautiful ❤️

Loafbeginsat60 · 14/12/2022 19:12

Oh she was beautiful I am so sorry.