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Can’t stop crying - our cat has been killed just before Christmas

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Brighton5555 · 14/12/2022 19:03

Not that there is any good time to be hit by a car and lay overnight on the freezing road but this morning I got a call telling me my cat had been killed on the road I live on and someone was kind enough to pick her up and take her to the vet who scanned her and call me ..

she was 18 months old. I got to speak to the lady who found her and she informed me she literally found her dead outside my house on the road and now I’m haunted she nearly made it home .

I’ve cried on and off the whole day. Can’t bear to be in the house .

Can’t stop crying - our cat has been killed just before Christmas
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ALongHardWinter · 15/12/2022 18:41

Aw OP I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending you hugs.

user1471538283 · 15/12/2022 18:46

How awful. I'm so sorry.

She was beautiful.

lolly07766 · 15/12/2022 19:12

So sorry OP
You must be devastated, what a beautiful cat Flowers

imSatanhonest · 15/12/2022 19:31

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful kitty.

Take comfort in the fact she will have known love all her life from you and your family.Flowers

Brighton5555 · 15/12/2022 19:37

Thanks everyone .

we collected her from the vets this morning and she’s now buried in the back garden … so sad to see my little boy standing there talking to her after school but something so comforting about having her home.

When I hear cars going by the house I keep thinking about the fact she as hit by one on this very road and it’s so sad, I don’t regret Letting her be a outdoor animal it’s my own belief cats should not be kept as indoor pets their whole life .

I wish I wish I wish she had got more cat years than she did but I don’t regret having her even for just a short time .

Her name was Esma

Can’t stop crying - our cat has been killed just before Christmas
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Justonecat · 15/12/2022 19:44

Beautiful beautiful Esma. ❤️

LizzieW1969 · 15/12/2022 20:40

I’m so sorry, OP. She looks so beautiful, you must be devastated.

I’ve been there many years ago, when I was a teenager, my family lost 2 cats on the road within 2 months of each other. One was 6 years old and my younger DSis’s beloved companion, the other was only 7 months old.

We lived by a very busy road, so it was sadly a tragedy waiting to happen.

Americano75 · 15/12/2022 20:43

Beautiful name for a beautiful girl.

MissPiggysPinkDress · 15/12/2022 21:26

So sorry OP. we lost a cat by the road, he had been missing a few days and I found him tucked up under some bushes, he was already gone. I’m just relieved I found out what happened to him, the not knowing was awful.

it hurts now, but soon you will think of her and they will be happy memories of all her silly little ways

wherethewildthingis · 15/12/2022 21:27

Esma was a beautiful cat. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Fernticket · 16/12/2022 17:50

melcalfe · 15/12/2022 01:52

That just made me cry in a cafe, how utterly horrific I'm so sorry.

I'm sorry for your loss also OP. What a beautiful cat. Flowers

Brought back memories of a St Bernard puppy I lost at just 10 months. I was 7 years old and the emotional pain was horrific.

So so sorry for your losses,as well as all the others on here. I have had cats run over and I now do not let my current (17 year old ) cat out any more. I do feel guilty, but at least she is safe💐💐💐

happydaze22 · 16/12/2022 17:57

I’m so sorry for your loss . We lost our little one on Sept 15 . She was found opposite our house and was only 18 months too . X

Can’t stop crying - our cat has been killed just before Christmas
I8toys · 16/12/2022 18:03

Such beautiful cats. So sorry to everyone whose lost a pet this way.

HowSadSteps · 16/12/2022 18:06

So sorry OP. There are many rescue cats looking for a loving home. I hope in time you find another cat that needs your love

happydaze22 · 16/12/2022 18:10

Omg I’m so sorry …. Wrong cat ! Her brother is almost identical to her . This was my little girl ….

Can’t stop crying - our cat has been killed just before Christmas
Choccyoclocky · 16/12/2022 18:14

Oh my goodness, what a beautiful cat. I'm so sorry for you and your family!

When I was 9 years old, my 6m old kitten was hit by a car (4 days before christmas) and 20 years later, I still remember holding his body and crying my eyes out.

A kind gentleman scooped him up and placed him on some grass before knocking on all of the doors to find out who he belonged to.

We buried him in his favourite blanket with the Christmas stocking I had got for him. He was my best friend, I wouldn't even go to bed without him so it was really difficult.

Sapphire387 · 16/12/2022 18:15

So sorry 😞

Benny350 · 16/12/2022 18:24

I’m sorry to hear this :-( they’re part of the family and loss is always so hard. I don’t know if anyone has mentioned but some charities now offer free support for this. Know pet charities Blue Cross and I think cats protection too have people you can talk to on email or phone or chat online with if needed. Really thoughtful service for people who have lost a pet or whose pet is missing 💐

schnowball · 16/12/2022 18:48

I'm so sorry OP. She was absolutely gorgeous. We lost our dog at only four and a half very suddenly in early November (on my birthday, no less....). He became extremely ill very quickly and deteriorated rapidly overnight. We rushed him back into the vets in the early hours and he pretty much died in my husband's arms.

I know the pain is absolutely indescribable - I still cry every day and anything sets me off. I just can't believe how young he was. One thing that really comforted me was something my friend said - animals don't know how long they're meant to live, and all they know is how great their lives were and how much they were loved, and loved you in return. Thinking of you.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 16/12/2022 19:10

I’m So sorry for your loss. I can still remember sobbing my heart out when my hamster passed away.
She’s such little beauty. Would you like to tell us about her. What was her name. Did you get her as little baby

TheRealHousewife · 16/12/2022 19:57

💔💔💔

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