He had fun in the shower ...

[clawflirt]

And was vocal about it all.... right after an argument with me.
When he finished and came out of the bathroom and when he saw me in the bedroom he immediately reverted back to being stony faced and the argument continued.

I cannot get over the hurt I feel, especially as we had not been intimate the night before or that morning.

AIBU.

Of course you're being unreasonable. What he does in the shower is none of your business.

I don’t think there’s enough information in this post.

What was he doing in the shower? Singing Abba songs loudly?

🙄

Sounds really odd!

What? You're hurt that he did what? Had a wank? Why is that any of your business?

I understand that what he does is his business but he was so vocal, he wanted me to hear , like a punishment of sorts.

Rage wank?

Oh let him get on with it sex would properly be crap with him if he’s in a mood why get upset.

How’s it a punishment? Was he making horrific noises or something?

He had a loud wank instead of having sex with you? Is that why you’re upset?

What was the argument about?

He was in a rage before the shower but magically changed from that to carefree and very happy in a minute , then turned on me again.

Lol he sounds like an idiot. He’s entitled to a wank in the shower but making a concert out of it to make you mad is bizarre.

He is an idiot and an ex.

Weird situation! Are they normally noisy? 😆

Never heard him before !

Good for him.

From the bedroom I mean !
I am hurt because I feel like it was a massive ' fuck you' .
Anyway we're over. He spent the rest of the day punishing me and giving me the silent treatment.
Dick.

“I cannot get over the hurt I feel, especially as we had not been intimate the night before or that morning.”

This sounds like a man writing what he thinks a woman would say…

If he's an ex does the noisey rage wank in the shower even matter? Or is he an ex because of the rage wank? So much to upick here 😂

Yep.

Well it was a passive aggressive show wank wasn't it. He sounds like an utter tit OP.

There really is nothing to unpick.
He had a walk, was very and
Unusually vocal.
He went in for a shower like a dog with me and came out ten mins later , still being a prick .
It's like he had a quick change of personality for those ten minutes.

Whistling away to himself afterwards in the bathroom while drying himself and then straight into rage again when he came back into bedroom to me.

When did he become an ex?

Sounds like it's all over so his performance wank is really not your problem any more.