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To pull my cleaner up on this?
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Trendytrousers · 31/07/2022 18:47

I have a TikTok account but don’t post on it, just watch other videos!

Like instagram TikTok pushes accounts linked to phone contacts to your home page.

Scrolling yesterday, I’ve been astounded to find multiple videos posted by my cleaner dancing, singing and wearing accessories (hat and sunglasses) in my bedroom on her account. She’s done this many times as she has different outfits on in each. She’s sat on my bed, dancing in my mirror and posing with my hat (left out on a hanger) and sunglasses taken from my bedside table.

She cleans once every two weeks for 2 hours and I leave her alone for one hour so she can get my office done as I WFH. I have found her so far trustworthy although she’s damaged a few things I’ve mentioned to her.

Her cleaning is good but I find her a bit strange and blunt but thought that’s a language barrier thing (she’s asked a few times how I can afford to live alone in my flat)

I want to raise it with her- but am I overreacting?

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Am I being unreasonable?

AIBU

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luxxlisbon · 31/07/2022 18:48

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inmyslippers · 31/07/2022 18:49

So she's posted your home on tick-tock when she should be working? I'd let her go. That feels such a huge invasion of privacy

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AlisonDonut · 31/07/2022 18:50

If this happened she wouldn't be my cleaner any more that's for damn sure.

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MalbecandToast · 31/07/2022 18:50

We've deleted this post for troll hunting

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Canyoudigityesyoucan · 31/07/2022 18:50

Yep it absolutely did. Not a reverse. Three videos found after the first one was randomly suggested to me on my home page

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Ciela · 31/07/2022 18:51

That is a huge abuse of trust of course you should mention it to her. If she works for an agency I would tell them too as it’s likely not just your home she does that in.

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Canyoudigityesyoucan · 31/07/2022 18:51

@MalbecandToast @luxxlisbon I’ll happily send you the videos if you’d like a look!

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CPL593H · 31/07/2022 18:51

Canyoudigityesyoucan · 31/07/2022 18:50

Yep it absolutely did. Not a reverse. Three videos found after the first one was randomly suggested to me on my home page

Namechange fail OP

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SweatyLaBetty · 31/07/2022 18:52

I'd find that a huge breach of trust and I would find another cleaner.

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JorisBonson · 31/07/2022 18:52

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MermaidSwimming · 31/07/2022 18:53

If it's true I would let her go immediately and tell her why

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TheStarsDontShine · 31/07/2022 18:53

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acuteanxiety · 31/07/2022 18:54

So rude

Fire

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Canyoudigityesyoucan · 31/07/2022 18:54

Honestly, I have no reason to lie. None at all! I have the videos and if someone would like to see them I’m happy to DM an example.

She’s not through an agency but was recommended by the flat block I live in, but not sure who else is using her.

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KyaClark · 31/07/2022 18:55

I wanna see!

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Jigglybellywoes · 31/07/2022 18:55

I would love to see a video
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JimmiChoux · 31/07/2022 18:55

Video or it didn't happen 😄

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Canyoudigityesyoucan · 31/07/2022 18:55

There also seem to be other houses on her account, in some shes lying on beds, lying on sofas with her feet up, and playing with soft toys (really!)

I’ve put a post on my local flat WhatsApp group to see if anyone else uses her

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RenegadeMatron · 31/07/2022 18:56

Canyoudigityesyoucan · 31/07/2022 18:50

Yep it absolutely did. Not a reverse. Three videos found after the first one was randomly suggested to me on my home page

why name change to post about it, then?

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MissAmbrosia · 31/07/2022 18:57

😆

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Cam22 · 31/07/2022 18:57

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Soubriquet · 31/07/2022 18:58

Name change fail

If this did happen, then yes let her go

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Cam22 · 31/07/2022 18:58

Ah.

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Canyoudigityesyoucan · 31/07/2022 18:58

@RenegadeMatron because I had posted something about asking for advice on a sensitive subject and didn’t want the two linked

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ReallyIrish · 31/07/2022 18:59

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