To pull my cleaner up on this?

[Trendytrousers]

I have a TikTok account but don’t post on it, just watch other videos!

Like instagram TikTok pushes accounts linked to phone contacts to your home page.

Scrolling yesterday, I’ve been astounded to find multiple videos posted by my cleaner dancing, singing and wearing accessories (hat and sunglasses) in my bedroom on her account. She’s done this many times as she has different outfits on in each. She’s sat on my bed, dancing in my mirror and posing with my hat (left out on a hanger) and sunglasses taken from my bedside table.

She cleans once every two weeks for 2 hours and I leave her alone for one hour so she can get my office done as I WFH. I have found her so far trustworthy although she’s damaged a few things I’ve mentioned to her.

Her cleaning is good but I find her a bit strange and blunt but thought that’s a language barrier thing (she’s asked a few times how I can afford to live alone in my flat)

I want to raise it with her- but am I overreacting?

[inmyslippers]

So she's posted your home on tick-tock when she should be working? I'd let her go. That feels such a huge invasion of privacy

[AlisonDonut]

If this happened she wouldn't be my cleaner any more that's for damn sure.

[Canyoudigityesyoucan]

Yep it absolutely did. Not a reverse. Three videos found after the first one was randomly suggested to me on my home page

[Ciela]

That is a huge abuse of trust of course you should mention it to her. If she works for an agency I would tell them too as it’s likely not just your home she does that in.

[CPL593H]

@Canyoudigityesyoucan

Yep it absolutely did. Not a reverse. Three videos found after the first one was randomly suggested to me on my home page

Namechange fail OP

[Canyoudigityesyoucan]

@MalbecandToast @luxxlisbon I’ll happily send you the videos if you’d like a look!

[SweatyLaBetty]

I'd find that a huge breach of trust and I would find another cleaner.

[MermaidSwimming]

If it's true I would let her go immediately and tell her why

[acuteanxiety]

So rude

Fire

[Canyoudigityesyoucan]

Honestly, I have no reason to lie. None at all! I have the videos and if someone would like to see them I’m happy to DM an example.

She’s not through an agency but was recommended by the flat block I live in, but not sure who else is using her.

[KyaClark]

I wanna see!

[Jigglybellywoes]

I would love to see a video
please

[JimmiChoux]

Video or it didn't happen 😄

[Canyoudigityesyoucan]

There also seem to be other houses on her account, in some shes lying on beds, lying on sofas with her feet up, and playing with soft toys (really!)

I’ve put a post on my local flat WhatsApp group to see if anyone else uses her

[RenegadeMatron]

@Canyoudigityesyoucan

Yep it absolutely did. Not a reverse. Three videos found after the first one was randomly suggested to me on my home page

why name change to post about it, then?

[MissAmbrosia]

😆

[Soubriquet]

Name change fail

If this did happen, then yes let her go

[Cam22]

Ah.

[Canyoudigityesyoucan]

@RenegadeMatron because I had posted something about asking for advice on a sensitive subject and didn’t want the two linked