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Partner just pissed on the kitchen floor

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fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 03:39

We have a downstairs toilet, it was less than 3 steps away. He's fucking pissed on the kitchen floor. Now he's trying to sleep on the sofa while I pacify his daughter (who ou love dearly!) because he put her to bed at 5.

Keep getting "why you being mardy"

"Babe what's up"

"Why you being off with me?"

Well perhaps it's because I'm parenting tour child while you claim exhaustion b the sofa. And to think this moron is begging me to have a baby with him 😂 give me strength!!!!!!!!!!

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flatlife · 05/09/2020 03:40

oh my god was he pissed?!

Anordinarymum · 05/09/2020 03:40

Is he pissed ?

fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 03:40

Excuse my dreadful spelling, multitasking etc

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fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 03:41

Yes he's pissed

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Anordinarymum · 05/09/2020 03:41

Oh dear

fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 03:42

Anyone else living with a toss pot m?

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QueenOfPain · 05/09/2020 03:43

Did he put her to bed at 5pm to facilitate his drinking session?

XXX5 · 05/09/2020 03:43

How old is the daughter?

Anordinarymum · 05/09/2020 03:44

Op are you pissed off or is it a one off

RomeoLikedCapuletGirls · 05/09/2020 03:44

How frustrating for you Angry

fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 03:44

@QueenOfPain I don't know. Perhaps. Just nipped to the loo, he's sparko'd, she's watching his phone on the lounge floor. Just annoys me, I don't understand how men become so pathetic, it angers me!

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fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 03:45

Just lately he pisses me off all the time. She's almost 4.

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ChanceChanceChance · 05/09/2020 03:45

That wouldn't encourage me to want to have a baby with him tbh!

fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 03:46

@ChanceChanceChance exactly my reason for saying absolutely fucking not!

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ChanceChanceChance · 05/09/2020 03:46

[quote fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits]@QueenOfPain I don't know. Perhaps. Just nipped to the loo, he's sparko'd, she's watching his phone on the lounge floor. Just annoys me, I don't understand how men become so pathetic, it angers me![/quote]
This isn't a good update, sorry. I think you're right to be pissed off.

flatlife · 05/09/2020 03:49

my dad and my boyfriend have both done the same thing when pissed up.
give him hell and make him clean it up!

fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 03:49

She now won't settle for her dad, just me, I'm trying to wake him up to tell him to pull his act together, he's just fast asleep. Makes me feel sick

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QueenOfPain · 05/09/2020 03:52

Just get yourself and DSD to bed and leave the useless twat where he is.

I would be seriously considering my options going forward. Certainly don’t procreate with him.

Anordinarymum · 05/09/2020 03:57

If it's a one off then bollock him tomorrow and make him clean it up (even if you already have)

If it's not a one off then you know the answer already

Lochroy · 05/09/2020 04:01

Has this happened before? Can you take her to bed and leave him where he is?

fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 04:01

He's useless. He can't even wake up for the food I've ordered. Hoping little one settles, but even she just wants me, says it all about him

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fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 04:02

@Lochroy I will be taking her to bed with me in a moment.

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Terrace58 · 05/09/2020 04:03

If her mother is involved, I might start keeping a log for her in case she needs to challenge custody.

fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits · 05/09/2020 04:05

I don't mind looking after her, but she absolutely should not be wide awake right now! He's out cold

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meadowmom · 05/09/2020 04:08

Where’s the mother? Is this a one off? What you should do depends on the answers to those questions

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