Partner just pissed on the kitchen floor

[fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits]

We have a downstairs toilet, it was less than 3 steps away. He's fucking pissed on the kitchen floor. Now he's trying to sleep on the sofa while I pacify his daughter (who ou love dearly!) because he put her to bed at 5.

Keep getting "why you being mardy"

"Babe what's up"

"Why you being off with me?"

Well perhaps it's because I'm parenting tour child while you claim exhaustion b the sofa. And to think this moron is begging me to have a baby with him 😂 give me strength!!!!!!!!!!

LTB

how many threads till you take the advice on them to tell him to fuck the fuck off to fuckoff town??!! Stop giving a shit about how sad he'll be/that he'll spiral if you leave him and start thinking how about having this useless POS around your own kids is going to effect them. And tell his kids mother to stop sending his daughter round as he's not fit to care for gnat.

@Charley50

My ex pissed in my best friend's fridge at a party.

😳😳😳😳😳

I have also just read your other threads.

Why are you still doing this to yourself???

He is revolting.

Kick him out.

I wouldn't even expect a dog to piss on the kitchen floor.

He might if he'd been at the pub half the night.

@SheSellSeaShells

how many threads till you take the advice on them to tell him to fuck the fuck off to fuckoff town??!! Stop giving a shit about how sad he'll be/that he'll spiral if you leave him and start thinking how about having this useless POS around your own kids is going to effect them. And tell his kids mother to stop sending his daughter round as he's not fit to care for gnat.

because some people secretly love the drama / venting on here and getting sympathy and advice they know they won't take /'because i love him and he needs me' whine. so called nt men like this need to be packed off and learn to grow up and be fully functioning adults before they are allowed to procreate but having said that there will always be a woman stupid enough to think they can 'fix them' and a baby will help. poor kid then ends up with a whinging mother ansd a dead beat sperm donor and so the cycle repeats.

Omg your first thread OP. He sounds horrific. Please chuck him out and this time don’t let him back.

Have you been drinking too op? Why are you letting the 4 year old play on her dad's phone at 4am and ordering a takeaway? Unless you aren't in the UK??

Either way. This guy is revolting and an abusive father. You are enabling him. You should be calling the girls mother and telling her exactly what's going on.

What stay with someone who behaves so appallingly? Leave!

@GreyishDays thanks...yes, that's where I lost sense of time...along with the 4 year old sat on the floor with the phone 🤦‍♀️ None of it made much sense to be fair 🤷‍♀️ In any event, the man is a complete twat and the OP needs to rethink her living arrangements!

@fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits is this your life plan? Keep putting up with this then posting on MN then disappearing to post another day, about another awful situation?

I dont get why some women put up with this sort of thing in relationships.

Presumably the OP is asleep now.

Reading the whole thread, I don’t get any sense that she is anything other than mildly irritated by it all. She seems to enjoy the drama and is relishing telling us all the gory details and venting but will do nothing to change her lot. She doesn’t engage with posters, avoids answering questions, it’s just a rant. She’ll spend today telling her friends about her exasperating man and what a martyr she is and all about the child who will only settle for her. Ah, isn’t that sweet?

If she does come back, she’ll tell us he’s a good man really, a lovely father (when he’s sober) and wouldn’t cope without her.

Enjoy your bed OP. At least you’re saving some other poor doormat from having to shackle herself to your beloved dickhead.

If you are living with someone with whom you would not wish to reproduce then you are living with the wrong man.

Not that reproduction is the be all and end all, but if that person is so unsatisfactory that having children with him is not something you could countenance, then he needs to leave - or you do.

I feel sorry for the child and the child's mother.

OP, this child has a mother, call the mother, tell her what her child is witnessing and allow her to make an informed decision about her own child. Why are you co sleeping with your boyfriend's toddler? That's not appropriate, this isn't your child. Don't get pregnant to this abusive waster.

Leave while you still can.

@Kittykat93

Have you been drinking too op? Why are you letting the 4 year old play on her dad's phone at 4am and ordering a takeaway? Unless you aren't in the UK??

Either way. This guy is revolting and an abusive father. You are enabling him. You should be calling the girls mother and telling her exactly what's going on.

I thought that too @Kittykat93

Omg OP I dont know how you can even laugh he pissed on your floor. He sounds absolutely vile I would not have a man who is so drunk he pisses on the floor in my home near my child. No way.

Please inform the mother and protect those girls he sounds awful.

Oh wow just read the child is not even yours!!! That child should not be in that mans care. Send the poor thing back to her mummy. Tell her he gets so drunk when he has her he sends her to bed at 5, pisses on the floor and then shes up until 4am abd you look after her as he is too drunk (just what you said here). Dont wreck that poor child, just tell her mum.

What a horrible childhood for that little girl. Please do the right thing for her. This man is not fit to be around children. I am heartbroken for her.

Your poor children.
At least his daughter has another parent who can hopefully protect her from this situation.
Unfortunately yours don’t.

How much more shit are you going to put up with op? I mean come on, you keep leaving and taking him back, then you come on here again and get the same advice to ltb because he's an abusive prick. You don't even fancy him or want to have sex with him.

And what about your children? Can't be good for them either.

No one can help you op except yourself, but you can't seem to accept it.

Reading your thread where you talk about him burning your crotch with a lighter is horrific.

He is abusive. His daughter and your children are witnessing abusive behaviour. It's your house, throw him out. What he does after that isn't your problem.

Disgusting. Inform child's mother about his behaviour around the child and leave him.

LTB