Partner just pissed on the kitchen floor

[fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits]

We have a downstairs toilet, it was less than 3 steps away. He's fucking pissed on the kitchen floor. Now he's trying to sleep on the sofa while I pacify his daughter (who ou love dearly!) because he put her to bed at 5.

Keep getting "why you being mardy"

"Babe what's up"

"Why you being off with me?"

Well perhaps it's because I'm parenting tour child while you claim exhaustion b the sofa. And to think this moron is begging me to have a baby with him 😂 give me strength!!!!!!!!!!

Are you thinking of leaving him?

It's really sad his DD has to see him like this.
Call the Mum to pick her up.
When he eventually wakes and gives you hell about it tell him a few home truths and kick him out. What a loser.

I don't understand how men become so pathetic, it angers me!

None of the men I know behave like this. Please don't assume they're all like your partner.

And please stop having someone like this around your dcs.

I used to try and wake him but one time he got really angry and smashed the door so I stopped. He had no memory of any of it the next day even though his eyes were open. I hated it so much but he used to say it wasn't his fault as he was asleep. Luckily he hasn't got drunk for ages so it's not happened for a while.

That’s awful! Why are you with him?
There’s so many truly shit men out there and women just accept it all, come on now it’s 2020 time to raise the bar or just stay single....

Hope you leave him OP, sounds like a nasty, pathetic waste of space.

Hang on, you ordered takeaway at 4?

But yes absolutely ltb

This is not good. He doesn’t even want to parent his child a couple of days a week. Poor wee mite needs to go home to her mummy.

@frolicmum

Yeah, this used to happen loads in our house. He couldn't really control it seemed to think the floor was the toilet when pissed.

It's an accident, I didn't really mind and thought it's more funny than anything else and it's a brilliant story later on. We now have a DS and a second on the way - it hasn't happened ever since DS had arrived 💜

Not sure it's a brilliant story. It's one to keep to yourself I'd imagine.

It's an accident, I didn't really mind and thought it's more funny than anything else and it's a brilliant story later on

What the actual fuck?????

Hahaha remember that time you put your kid to bed at 5 in the afternoon so you could go out and get pissed 😂😂😂, then you came home at 3am and pissed all over the kitchen floor 🤣🤣🤣, you woke your 4 year old up 😆😆😆 so I let her play on my phone till all hours while you called me all the names under the sun 😂😂😂 hahaha #makingmemories.

Sorry frolic, if you think that's funny, I really pity you. You LTB too.

Not sure it's a brilliant story. It's one to keep to yourself I'd imagine.

My thoughts exactly.

" Remember that time you got so rat arsed you pisssed on the floor- how we laughed"

I hope you make bed him into your house and can move him out again.
I would wish there was a way you can let the child's mum know she is not safe alone with her dad.

Have also just read some of your other threads op. You feel zero physical attraction to this man, he's always pestering you for sex, he rips your clothes off you, you think he may become violent and "he creeps you out"?

And you're still with him because .....?

Ew. That's grim. Really grim.

Use his favourite item of clothing to mop up the excess wee. He can wash the floor properly when he sobers up

Do you want the children of the household to think this is normal and acceptable?

You do know if the DSD tells your children and they tell your EX you could end up with social services being involved in your life.

Ex DH used to regularly get drunk and wer himself.
We are divorced now and my life is back to lovely again.

You mustn't clean it up for him. He has to see what he's done.

My ex pissed in my best friend's fridge at a party.

WTF

It's not "an accident" and it's really not funny. You can't let this man around your children. What message does it send them?

She needs to go home to her Mother. I’d be horrified if my ex husband was in a state where he was so drunk that he urinated on the floor, and I’d expect any person who witnessed that to prioritise safeguarding my child.

It’s not normal. It’s neglect. You need to do something about this or you’re facilitating his negligence.

Get rid of the loser.
You must be drunk yourself to put up with this.
That poor child shouldn't have to be put to bed at 5pm so he can get drunk and piss on the floor.
Tell the mother what he's doing.
Just terrible.

@fuckthisforabarrelofbiscuits

In my annoyance I've just said "and to this you want me to have a child with you" and how he's calling me all the disgusting shits under the sun. Me and DSD have gone to bed. No doubt he will be up in a minute

You know the solution to this, don't you? As soon as he wakes up, you walk out the door and you don't come back, ever.

Maybe his DD woke up after nearly 12 hours as she was hungry!

What do you get from this relationship? A relationship should work for both parties, not just one person.

So not facilitate his bad behaviour any longer. For your sake, your dc and his. Time to put an end to it.