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Meghan Markle story time

325 replies

Mummylovesbags · 06/05/2020 17:44

Posting here for the traffic and so this is read by a diverse pool of people - not just royal fans...

I really like Meghan Markle and I admire her for carving her own way and being a feminist in her choices. I like that she waited after the birth for photos and spoke up about the metoo movement etc.

As much as I like Duchess of Cambridge, I don’t think she does anything to advance women. She seems to do what is expected of her which people love but which I find awful. She has a responsibility as a role model for young women but yet Seems to be the perfect, painfully thin, upper class wife that does as she is told, rarely speaks and is every sexist, wealthy, white man’s dream.

I’m a little lost as to why people seem to be pro Kate and anti Meghan. Is it because Kate is what all middle class women aspire to be in England. Doing as one is told ? Being a softly spoken English lady that wears tweed and frolics in the country while her husband is on a boys ski trip etc etc

Have we all forgot about feminism ?

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cinammonbuns · 06/05/2020 17:45

YABU because you know the type of people this thread will attract. It’s truly pathetic they way people fish so she can get bashed.

cinammonbuns · 06/05/2020 17:46

^ I’m talking about Meghan by the way.

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DanielRicciardosSmile · 06/05/2020 17:47

Oh yaya, another Meghan and Kate thread.... Hmm

cinammonbuns · 06/05/2020 17:47

@heartsonacake ding ding! We have a winner. And what exactly does Kate do?

Mummylovesbags · 06/05/2020 17:47

I genuinely want to have a conversation about feminism in the UK and how the royal family, the media and the public expect and treat the Princesses.

I don’t think it is Their fault. Kate Middleton is trying to be part of a family that expects a lot.

I just wonder if British women stop to question whether the British royal family is a sexist institution.

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BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 06/05/2020 17:48

Oh I had hoped this was just a simple discussion about the Story time video.

Not yet another opportunity for pitching women against others or bashing Royals.

cinammonbuns · 06/05/2020 17:49

@Mummylovesbags if you want a genuine conversation about feminism then put it on the feminist boards. Instead of AIBU where a bunch of racists do nothings will attack Meghan.

You aren’t genuine at all. I’m reporting the thread so it gets put into feminism.

HavartitoMeetYou · 06/05/2020 17:49

God do we need 800 threads about what an evil narc whore she is? You know by page 12 people will be screaming about nail varnish, scented candles at the church, no friends at the wedding, and all the other claptrap that’s been thrown around for the past couple of years.

Meghan’s been demonised so much, the gang who are obsessed with her no longer see her as a human being at all but a target that has to be destroyed no matter what. It’s like 1984: the daily Hate as a bonding ritual. It’s pure target practise.

SpencerReidsMistress · 06/05/2020 17:49

YABU to even start this thread.

QueenOfWinterfell · 06/05/2020 17:49

Exactly what are you hoping to achieve by starting this thread OP?

Mummylovesbags · 06/05/2020 17:50

@cinnamonbuns I think Meghan Markle. I’m wondering exactly that, why do people bash her and hero worship Kate for doing the right thing and being obedient. Do they not realise how absurd that is after sexism and treatment of Di.

I think we’ll all reflect and applaud Meghan for taking a stand against media and moving her family to where they aRe happier

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Sparklingbrook · 06/05/2020 17:50

YABU

mrscampbellblackagain · 06/05/2020 17:50

You lost me and your feminist credentials by putting Kate down to praise Meghan.

Why do people have to constantly pitch the two women against each other it is tiresome.

CelestialSpanking · 06/05/2020 17:50

I’m a little lost as to why people seem to be pro Kate and anti Meghan.

And yet here you are, starting a thread where you slate Meghan Confused

Fuelling shite like this She’s an attention seeking, do-nothing, whining problem, and she lacks so much self awareness it’s unbelievable. Hmm

CelestialSpanking · 06/05/2020 17:51

And putting Kate down too. 2 for the price of 1.

Mummylovesbags · 06/05/2020 17:51

I didn’t realise freedom of speech was against the law in the UK.

I think people bash Meghan Markle because they’re racist and classist and prejudice and it’s as simple as that.

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Boogiewoogietoo · 06/05/2020 17:52

is every sexist, wealthy, white man’s dream.

So non white men don’t find the Duchess of Cambridge (or those like her) attractive? Perhaps you think they like portly common women!

YABU and racist AF!

mrscampbellblackagain · 06/05/2020 17:52

The Royal Family is totally irrelevant - all of them are there by birth or marrying in.

I prefer to admire people who have achieved something themselves through hard work.

Notmyrealname855 · 06/05/2020 17:52

Wow another thread pitting two women against each other, original Envy (not envy!)

cinammonbuns · 06/05/2020 17:52

@Mummylovesbags well if you like Meghan so much you would know that AIBU is the worst place to start a thread about her. So why don’t you delete it before it descends into the thinly veiled racist comments which are so famous on MN.

MouthBreathingRage · 06/05/2020 17:52

Is that a dog-whistle I hear? Always seems to start going off at the name Meghan....

cinammonbuns · 06/05/2020 17:53

@Boogiewoogietoo hook line and sink you fell for the bait Hmm

Nikhedonia · 06/05/2020 17:54

Meghan, is that you?

LaurieMarlow · 06/05/2020 17:54

This thread isn’t going to end well OP.

However, it’s a valid point you’re making. What people want from royal wives is what Kate delivers. Someone who’ll push out babies, look good in clothes, smile, keep her mouth shut and do as she’s told.

The assertive, mixed race American didn’t stand a chance.

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