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Men are finding this isolation/social distancing harder than women

203 replies

justasking111 · 21/03/2020 13:16

I am finding it harder to keep OH occupied than any child I have had. Having raised three being housebound through their illnesses plus one six week illness of my own. I am finding it more challenging to keep OH on an even keel, he had a mini explosion last night over something minor. He is champing at the bit to be out and about.

I cannot entertain him with puzzles, games, BBC learning unfortunately. Grin

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cavabiensepasser · 21/03/2020 13:18

How is it your responsibility to keep an adult man occupied? Do you wipe his bum as well?

Hopeisnotastrategy · 21/03/2020 13:18

YABU to humour him. There is no reason it should be any harder for a man than a woman.

dejavuAgain · 21/03/2020 13:19

There are plenty or reasons that men may find this harder than women.

Feminism doesn't trump millions of years of evolutionary biology.

rottiemum88 · 21/03/2020 13:19

Confused Leave him be, he's an adult. Life is going to become incredibly tedious incredibly quickly if you continue to pander to him

ShiveringCoyote · 21/03/2020 13:20

Tell him to suck it up buttercup.

PositiveVibez · 21/03/2020 13:21

Yabu because it's not your job. He isn't your child.

He needs to get a fucking grip and sort himself out and you need to stop pandering to him

conduitoffortune · 21/03/2020 13:21

There are plenty or reasons that men may find this harder than women.

Please do expand on this.

JuanSheetIsPlenty · 21/03/2020 13:22

I am finding it harder to keep OH occupied than any child I have had.

What’s he doing to keep you occupied?

PositiveVibez · 21/03/2020 13:23

*There are plenty or reasons that men may find this harder than women"

Feminism doesn't trump millions of years of evolutionary biology

Or being a grumpy, pathetic twat, apparently.

Feminism is not the reason a grown man doesn't know how to keep himself entertained ffs 🙄

nitgel · 21/03/2020 13:23

No football doesn't help Wink

JuanSheetIsPlenty · 21/03/2020 13:23

There are plenty or reasons that men may find this harder than women.

Can you post the list please.

Polkadotpjs · 21/03/2020 13:23

I agree. The kids are behaving much better then the husband!! He has always been someone who needs space though

Hingeandbracket · 21/03/2020 13:24

There are plenty or reasons that men may find this harder than women

What a load of wank.

dejavuAgain · 21/03/2020 13:24

@conduitoffortune

it's easier to answer specific questions than keep typing and hope I cover your specific area.

minipie · 21/03/2020 13:25

Send him for a run then tell him to get on with it.

TheFaerieQueene · 21/03/2020 13:25

I don’t think I’ve ever read anything so bloody ridiculous.

justasking111 · 21/03/2020 13:27

He has walked the dogs in the hills this morning, been to Tesco, pressure washed half the drive, now he is bored gawd....

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ukgift2016 · 21/03/2020 13:31

You are ridiculous.

JuanSheetIsPlenty · 21/03/2020 13:33

pressure washed half the drive, now he is bored

Well he can do the other half of the drive for starters! Grin

Seriously though. Leave him to it. Not your job to keep him busy. Just like it’s not his job to keep you busy.

JaneJeffer · 21/03/2020 13:34

Stick on Gold. Only Fools and Horses is on all day. No man can resist.

TheNavigator · 21/03/2020 13:34

What a Stepford Wife you sound, fretting about how to appease the big important manly man who is too manly to be constrained.

justasking111 · 21/03/2020 13:36

So pleased all detractors are married to happy clappy men quite happy to be at home, however, not all are perhaps.

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userabcname · 21/03/2020 13:37

Tell him to get a fucking grip.

Candyfloss99 · 21/03/2020 13:37

How does it even cross your mind that you need to entertain him? The world really has gone mad.

Candyfloss99 · 21/03/2020 13:38

Most people don't think it's their responsibility to entertain a man though whether he's happy to be at home or not.