To object to an 11yr old girl sharing a bedroom with a 16yr old boy?

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Looking for opinions please!

Is it ever OK for a 16yr old boy (man?) to share a room with an 11yr old girl?

They are not blood relatives.

No , not ok x

No. Never. The mind boggles at the things that could potentially go wrong.

Nope. No way.

Not appropriate

No not a good idea

Definitely not

Absolutely not. Siblings, yes, but unrelated teenage boy and preteen girl? Never.

Yes a few. Like when hiding from the Nazis fi. Not generally unless brother and sister on holiday.

Never

No

And it's a no from me too.

Oh god no!

Why do you ask ?

Imagining being that 11 year old just no

Why are you asking OP? Has this happened?

No not ok.

Even siblings of the opposite sex shouldn't be sharing a room at that age.

No, I would not be happy with my 11yo dd sharing with a 16yo boy.

Unanimous. No, not on.

No.

Absolutely no

There must be an alternative, someone sharing with same sex parent, even friend, or use living room. Very unwise

A little detail might help.

Thanks for all of your response, you have helped clarify that AIBU

Unfortunately I have just been made aware that this has happened when my DD has been with my EX husband at the weekend.

He has taken her to stay at his girlfriends house and when there she has had to share a room with his girlfriends 16 yr old son.

This is not the first time it has happened and I have told him this i am unwilling to allow it to happen again. This has led to all sorts of abuse tonight from my EXhusband and his partner.