Is it me or is it getting worse??
I may accidentally miss an update if the thread is really long --quite often because there's too many comments that haven't read the full thread.
But if you can't take the time to read the whole thread (you can clearly see how long it is before posting), then wait to comment until you can!
The thread gets annoying to read because it's full of irrelevant comments.
Also, just commenting without reading as a matter of course can sometimes be upsetting to an op who's in more delicate situation.
Eg "I think my husband's cheating should I check his phone?" Then getting pages of 'yes check his phone" by people that think they don't need to waste time reading the thread, they'd rather hear the sound of their own voice. When it's actually moved on that the husband got caught out and moved out to be with the other woman last week and poor op is having to deal with 'yes check his phone' again and again.
Honestly, sometimes it's not like a discussion forum it's like an echo chamber for poster's opinions.
Gah. Sorry. Rant over.
Watch me accidentally not rtft in the near future. 