I'm your daddy

[Boundaries]

I have n/c for this.

AIBU to think that an adult man saying "I'm your daddy/who's your daddy/tell my I'm your daddy" during sex is just downright weird?

*I think it's about 'whose in charge!?' Rather than 'think of your father'!

Well then they should say 'Who's your team leader?'*

This just made me laugh so hard I had to explain myself...

Definately a turn off for me, although I might try the whose your team leader line

This is the funniest damn thing I've ever seen. Just the thought of it makes my fanjo snap shut and dehumidify

I think it's meant to be a whose in charge thing.

But that in itself is a turn off because it's referencing patriarchal family structures where fathers are the ultimate authority.

Why would that be attractive?

Interesting the many different interpretations of "daddy" when used during sex.

I think it only serves to underline how important it is to talk about anything slightly off road before the event!

Whilst the very thought of this is nauseating , this thread has kept me entertained for quite some time now! You are all fabulous and hilarious ! Good move though to kick him into touch.

You don't talk about it before the event though do you? Or I never have. If someone gave me a list of rules before sex I'd be deciding I wasn't that bothered.
I would have asked him to stop with the daddy stuff when he first used it. I'd probably have started laughing and told him I thought it sounded a bit sick and pervy.
Sex talk of any description just makes me laugh though. I like men to just use their mouth for kissing. They can tell me I'm wonderful/ beautiful etc that's OK, but not too much or it sounds false. Staying quiet and just kissing is safest.

Theo Clearly my knowledge of saved by the bell is shamefully poor . I will, as you suggest, come back and post on mn at some future date when I feel able to put my shame behind me and face the world again.

Meanwhile, all I know is someone called someone something like mama and I thought it sounded odd on a kids' tv show, given that she clearly wasn't his mother.

Ihatewankers isn't that a thread you posted yesterday, word for word?

IHateWankers - wrong thread but wanking is fine, it doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you.
This thread - personally i think he meant nothing more sinister than copying a popular saying 'whos the daddy'