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I'm your daddy

209 replies

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 14:50

I have n/c for this.

AIBU to think that an adult man saying "I'm your daddy/who's your daddy/tell my I'm your daddy" during sex is just downright weird?

Blush Sad Hmm

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timelytess · 29/08/2016 15:07

But just in case anyone asks, I would call Clint Eastwood 'Daddy' anytime, and relish every moment. Clint Eastwood! Ha! Dirty old bugger.

TheoGB · 29/08/2016 15:07

Ah, helmet beat me to it.

MitzyLeFrouf · 29/08/2016 15:07

Oh I know timely. It's a vagina shrivelling prospect isn't it?

MangoMoon · 29/08/2016 15:08

Just the thought of it makes my fanjo snap shut and dehumidify.

Pinkerbeller GrinGrin

Petal40 · 29/08/2016 15:09

What about that sugar daddie web site....maybe he was meaning daddy in that sense...perhaps he wants to buy you gifts

AtSea1979 · 29/08/2016 15:09

OP is your DP American?
Even then...no and erm..no

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:10

Yes, Pepsi it was Blush

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Helmetbymidnight · 29/08/2016 15:11

I don't think it's too terrible - I think it's about 'whose in charge!?' Rather than 'think of your father'!
But then I called my dad 'dad' and always found 'daddy' a bit eeww even in (blasphemes) the railway children.

MitzyLeFrouf · 29/08/2016 15:12

I think it's about 'whose in charge!?' Rather than 'think of your father'!

Well then they should say 'Who's your team leader?'

Leave dads out of the sack.

Helmetbymidnight · 29/08/2016 15:12

Actually no, 'I'm your daddy' IS terrible! Grin

Ilovetorrentialrain · 29/08/2016 15:12

That would put me right off! What does it actually mean? Hmm whether to tell him or not... I'd be tempted myself just to make absolutely sure he knew it was weird - but if you never plan to see him again perhaps not.

This is fabulous: Just the thought of it makes my fanjo snap shut and dehumidify.

LikeDylanInTheMovies · 29/08/2016 15:12

Boundaries Good grief.

Words fail me. In a 17 year old whose only previous experience of adult sexual relations was a bad porno, it might have been forgivable, but in a fully grown adult??? Surely other partners would have mentioned that it was a bit weird and deeply unarousing?

PinkyOfPie · 29/08/2016 15:12

Creepy as Rick and most certainly my would be a deal breaker for me

PinkyOfPie · 29/08/2016 15:13

That should have said "creepy as fuck" - I have nothin against people called Rick

Ilovetorrentialrain · 29/08/2016 15:14

Ah x post - it means 'in charge' rather than anything to do with fathers. OK not quite so bad but really pretty much ANY other way of saying it would be better.

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:14

The idea of someone panting "who's your team leader" mid performance has made me grin, Mitzy

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Snowshimmer · 29/08/2016 15:14

Can you imagine asking your partner "who's your mummy" during sex. Eeeewwww

Helmetbymidnight · 29/08/2016 15:14

'Hey,,,I'm your assistant director of this office' 'you're in the junior management team....'

Mmm sexy

timelytess · 29/08/2016 15:18

Was it on MN that I read that submissives often call their dominant partner (excuse me, I don't know the jargon) 'Daddy'? I don't think I'd have been reading such things anywhere else...

LemonySmithit · 29/08/2016 15:19

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timelytess · 29/08/2016 15:19

Can you imagine asking your partner "who's your mummy" during sex. Eeeewwww
It's not uncommon for men to request their partners to be 'auntie', though.

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Helmetbymidnight · 29/08/2016 15:21

Where did you meet him op?

It wasn't on that davinia and Nicky Campbell show was it?

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:21

A couple of you have mentioned porn. Is it a porn thing?

I've always avoided porn on ethical grounds, but if that happens too, I might avoid it on weird grounds.

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thecatsarecrazy · 29/08/2016 15:21

Ha this.....
m.youtube.com/watch?v=jqZipxN9N0g

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