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I'm your daddy

209 replies

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 14:50

I have n/c for this.

AIBU to think that an adult man saying "I'm your daddy/who's your daddy/tell my I'm your daddy" during sex is just downright weird?

Blush Sad Hmm

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Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:22

Helmet I don't know the show you mean. Although it doesn't matter because I didn't meet him on tv. He was off the internet.

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WankingMonkey · 29/08/2016 15:26

Very weird, but in my experience surprisingly common. Maybe I just attract the weirdos.

Puddington · 29/08/2016 15:26

Yes like Lemony said there is a specific kink/culture for the Daddy/Daughter relationship (I've only ever really come across it on the internet -- not even porn sites but places like tumblr have a big community for it) where it is sometimes confined to the bedroom and sometimes acted out more consistently, but, essentially, it does refer to the "sub" partner being "a little" and the "dom" being "Daddy" (or "Mummy", I suppose). It's not something that's to my taste though I must admit...

MangoMoon · 29/08/2016 15:26

I'm totally going to yell 'who's your team leader' next time I'm mid shag.

Thanks Mitzy!

toldmywrath · 29/08/2016 15:26

timelytess -"TimelyTess! What do you think you are doing with that man! You're a disgrace to the family! Go to your room!" I'm 58
This has made me laugh (& the dehumidified fanjo comment Pinkerbeller )

Helmetbymidnight · 29/08/2016 15:28

Ah, I was being silly op. It's a show called 'long lost family'...

VioletBam · 29/08/2016 15:28

It's come from the term which American prostitutes use for their pimps though. It doesn't mean Daddy literally in general.

Not that this makes it any better of course!

toldmywrath · 29/08/2016 15:28

Bleurgh re the daddy comment OP. I much prefer I'm your team leader Wink

PepsiPenguin · 29/08/2016 15:28

whos your team leader well I just nearly spat out my Pepsi-Max!

It's not meant or at least you would hope in most cases as a father/daughter thing though, it is very much a refernce to "me man you woman" the modern day equivalent of banging your head with a club I suppose... I've seen it in films, and usually said by an American pimp...

Was he nice otherwise? If this was his only flaw could it work? I seriously don't think I could do it again with someone who said that, it's a bit like the MN who said someone whispered the sexy words "penetration"

Nope my legs are now firmly closed too 😬 It's all so wrong, so sorry OP.

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:29

Oh god this gets worse. It's a prostitute thing?

Oh, Helmet, the family tree one Grin

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TroysMammy · 29/08/2016 15:30

Totally creepy. As bad as someone saying to me during sex "you're just like a school girl". I was not dressed up as one and I was 34. I dumped him shortly afterwards.

PepsiPenguin · 29/08/2016 15:30

I don't think he thought you were a prostitue

He proberly thought he was cool, and a bit of a stud

Snowshimmer · 29/08/2016 15:30

It's not uncommon for men to request their partners to be 'auntie', though.
What!
This thread is making my fanjo not only dry up but retreatup into my body somewhere.

PepsiPenguin · 29/08/2016 15:32

Also hear "baby daddy" on the American Jermey Kyle, I'm sure it's an American "I'm a stud" thing too...

Was he American?

Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:33

Cool and a bit of a stud, Pepsi? I think I need to tell him, don't I?

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Boundaries · 29/08/2016 15:33

He was not American.

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JellyBelli · 29/08/2016 15:34

Its eeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

thecatsarecrazy beat me to it!
Show me....show me...show me where your mother lives!

Sparklesilverglitter · 29/08/2016 15:35

"Baby daddy" now there is a term that makes me Absouletly cringe whenever I hear it.

I have been lucky no man has ever asked me to call him daddy. It would creep me out to be honest Envy

PinkyOfPie · 29/08/2016 15:35

Pepsi baby daddy refers to the man who is father to your baby.

Who the frig wants to call their partner auntie in the bedroom?!

This reminds me of the SATC episode where Samantha sleeps with a man who talks baby talk and says "titty witties" Grin

pigsDOfly · 29/08/2016 15:35

Anyone remember 'Saved by the Bell' a teenagers' tv show set in high school from America. Think it was on tv here in the late 90s as my DD used to watch it.

There was a teenage couple on it and the boy always used to call the girl, his girlfriend, Mamma, or something similar. I found that very odd in a kids' show.

BuonoEstente · 29/08/2016 15:35

Baby daddy means he's my babies dad.

PinkyOfPie · 29/08/2016 15:36

pigs was it Screech who used to say that? Vaguely rings a bell!

Sparklesilverglitter · 29/08/2016 15:37

I know what baby daddy means it still makes me Absouletly cringe I afraid

Why did people start saying it? Where the hell did it come from?

MitzyLeFrouf · 29/08/2016 15:38

'Auntie' makes me picture someone like Thora Hird!

No idea why. I'm an auntie and don't look like Thora.

MitzyLeFrouf · 29/08/2016 15:38

'baby daddy' is African American slang that's filtered across.