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To think this is not an erotic thing to do during sex?

243 replies

Lottieandmia · 28/09/2014 10:13

Ok, I've not name changed for this because I suspected that people would think I was a troll.

Anyway, recently I slept with someone new and he spat in my mouth. Apparently he thinks this is erotic? Hmm

Personally I think it's a sad reflection of how people these days watch way too much porn. Does anyone actually like this and am I severely out of touch? I'm generally quite open about new things. But I don't think spitting in someone's mouth can do much to heighten sensation. I was left wondering just why?

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5madthings · 28/09/2014 10:14

That is fucking rank.

catgirl1976 · 28/09/2014 10:15

Yikes

God no. Not erotic. I have seen spitting in porn. It's vile. Does nothing for me.

I think you're right about it being a sad indictment of the pornification of sex. I'm a bit amazed someone would think this so normal they would do it on a "first time" with someone.

:(

bumpiesonamission · 28/09/2014 10:15

Eeeeeeeew

Paraibalove · 28/09/2014 10:15

I really hope you stopped him right there and went home.

What a vile man.

evelynj · 28/09/2014 10:15

Eewww, did he ask first? Not sure Id want to be with anyone who would make this sort of assumption. And no I wouldn't find it erotic!

MrsPresley · 28/09/2014 10:15

God that is disgusting!

DefiniteMaybe · 28/09/2014 10:15

I'd have been sick all over him. Just the thought of that makes me gag.
That's vile, definitely not erotic.

fairgame · 28/09/2014 10:15

I'm quite kinky but that is fucking rank

Groovee · 28/09/2014 10:15

OMG I would have thrown up! More gagging than erotic.

LeftRightCentre · 28/09/2014 10:15

I hope you immediately kicked him out. Porn-addicted, woman-hating cock.

CheesyBadger · 28/09/2014 10:17

Oh god, absolutely vile!

Damnautocorrect · 28/09/2014 10:17

Ewwwwwww spitting on the street is grim enough let alone someone your meant to like

Revenant · 28/09/2014 10:19

That's nasty, I would have been appalled. Plus it doesn't bode well in terms of consideration for your enjoyment. Did you ask him what he thought he was doing?

Lottieandmia · 28/09/2014 10:19

He wanted me to spit on him too and it's just alien to me, totally alien so I didn't do it.

I'm so glad it's not just me! He is younger than me. I think porn is damaging young people's sexuality.

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Kundry · 28/09/2014 10:19

Eeeewww Angry

It may be erotic for him but it had clearly escaped him that you have sex with another person and it's supposed to be erotic for both of you? Bet he wouldn't find you spitting in his mouth erotic.

Kundry · 28/09/2014 10:21

OK cross posted, So he's marginally less vile as happy to receive as well as give Shock

But still, it is supposed to be erotic for BOTH of you. Maybe not something to try out on a first encounter Confused

furcoatbigknickers · 28/09/2014 10:21

If he asked you and it floated your boat ok but otherwise not on. Not for me.

Lottieandmia · 28/09/2014 10:21

He wanted me to as well Kundry!

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Dinnaeknowshitfromclay · 28/09/2014 10:21

Boak! Shock

Lottieandmia · 28/09/2014 10:22

X post

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gamerchick · 28/09/2014 10:24

That actually made me do the scrunch up face thing. Utterly vile. Is that what porn is all about now? I haven't seen any in years.

StickEm · 28/09/2014 10:25

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Only1scoop · 28/09/2014 10:27

Lottie I feel your pain having come across not one ....but two 'spitters'
Confused

Fairylea · 28/09/2014 10:28

Absolutely disgusting. Is that even a porn thing?? I've seen a fair bit of porn and I've never ever seen that! Gross.

Sicaq · 28/09/2014 10:28

Aaaaassh I was eating breakfast as I read that Confused

Revolting ...

Gah

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