To think this is not an erotic thing to do during sex?

[Lottieandmia]

Ok, I've not name changed for this because I suspected that people would think I was a troll.

Anyway, recently I slept with someone new and he spat in my mouth. Apparently he thinks this is erotic?

Personally I think it's a sad reflection of how people these days watch way too much porn. Does anyone actually like this and am I severely out of touch? I'm generally quite open about new things. But I don't think spitting in someone's mouth can do much to heighten sensation. I was left wondering just why?

Can't believe this one is a year old either!
Agree with another post about all the kink shaming though!
I'm not into it but if others are there is nothing wrong with it, except not something you should do with a casual fling( unless discussed before hand!!).
As for him being a woman hater? really?
I also can't say i have ever seen any porn where they spit in each others mouths,that i'm glad about.

I just googled this and it seems pretty common.

Ewwwwwww. YNBU. How disgusting. I can't abide spit.. Why did I open this thread. What possessed me. I feel all vomity, now.
Put it this way that would be our first and last shag.

Oh this is a zombie, created a year ago today incidentally. Happy 1st birthday, thread.

So funny that this thread was resurrected by a poster that had already commented on it a year ago.

I have to ask with all the porn references... Is this a British porn thing?

I've never seen anyone spitting into each other's mouths with American porn. Don't get me wrong, we have our own special flavor of fuck ups, but this isn't really one of them.

Senpai I haven't seen it in any so god knows where it's comes from!

Bloody hell. That is not only disgusting but massively disrespectful. Unless it was some sort of mutual fetish thing that was agreed in advance (and even then, WTF? ) I'd have kicked him straight out of bed and out o the house. If you did nothing to imply that you would welcome it then it is practically assault.

Urrgh. Horrible horrible horrible. God alone knows what kind of porn he's been watching, but it's warped.

Oh. Zombie thread.

Senpai think it might have started in Japanese porn.
And it isn't neccesarily male to female as some people seem to think. It could be the other way round, or mutual.

LeaveMyWingsBehindMe - just because it's not for you doesn't make it a "WTF". That's a horrible and disrespectful attitude to have. Everyone has a "thing" that gets them off, and that's a good thing, nobody should be ashamed of having a kink.

I 100% agree that it absolutely must be discussed between mature and consenting adults first, but there's nothing inherently wrong with having a kink.

beefthief
LeaveMyWingsBehindMe - just because it's not for you doesn't make it a "WTF". That's a horrible and disrespectful attitude to have. Everyone has a "thing" that gets them off, and that's a good thing, nobody should be ashamed of having a kink.

You're kidding, right? it is most definitely a WTF situation and spitting in someone's mouth is horrible and disrespectful. To hell with him having a kink - the minimum he should have done was to ask in advance.

Someone having a kink doesn't override respect and good manners. Very weird attitude.

Re-read exactly what I wrote. This bit: I 100% agree that it absolutely must be discussed between mature and consenting adults first.

Nothing should be off-bounds between consenting adults, just because an internet stranger finds the idea a bit icky.

Even if the thread is a year old today.

I've seen spiting cocks and fannys in porn, or fingers, never in someone's mouth.

I think that's grim all around,the disrespect of doing without asking is very disgusting. One of my kinks is to finger but I never did it on an unsuspecting person!

silveroldie it's not 'horrible and disrespectful' if the person who is receiving wants to do it.
Some people enjoy sharing their partners bodily fluids, or they might enjoy being submissive, or just enjoy it because their partner enjoys it.
Just because you might not like something doesn't mean no one else should.

Threads like this need to stay buried in archives.... The thought of my DH, who I love to bits, spitting in my mouth makes me want to puke, let alone a new partner. VOM!

Or start a new thread in the shiny new Sex Topic?