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to think there's a lot of patronizing snobbery here with regards the netmums site.

191 replies

ssd · 08/10/2013 22:06

it's as posters on mumsnet are somehow superior to anyone who posts on netmums...

I mean, whats that all about?

OP posts:
sydlexic · 08/10/2013 22:07

It's what we do best.

Mintyy · 08/10/2013 22:08

I'm not sure patronising is the right word?

fairy1303 · 08/10/2013 22:08

ah hun soz to c ur upset but you no MN is SOOO much defo beta that Nethuns babez no?

LOOOOLLLLL

XOXOXOXOX

Sparklingbrook · 08/10/2013 22:08

I don't like NetMums because the tickers and general loudness doesn't agree with me.

fairy1303 · 08/10/2013 22:09

P.s YABU to post this on MUMSNET - the best place in the world.

Sparklingbrook · 08/10/2013 22:10

Oh forgot to add 122640 hours since bubba 1 was born.

NaturalBaby · 08/10/2013 22:10

YANBU to think so.

UriGHOULer · 08/10/2013 22:10

Yes.

Mintyy · 08/10/2013 22:10

I would say mainly good humoured, slightly tongue in cheek ... ?

But then again there have been some Mumsnetters who have been treated appallingly over there. So I expect they post them in an angry or frustrated manner (rather than patronisingly).

UriGHOULer · 08/10/2013 22:11

Superior, I mean.

Yes.

MellowandFruitfulSnazzy · 08/10/2013 22:11

YANBU. Though you have just incited more of it. People find it hilarious for some reason. Though suggest that anyone giving their kids Red Bull is wrong and people will be calling you a snob fast enough.

Minnieisthedevilmouse · 08/10/2013 22:11

I joined it. I read it quickly. Never felt a need to return. I don't hate it. Just didn't get it.
This site is like totes amaze balls by comparison! :)

LoopThePoop · 08/10/2013 22:12

Aww Hun, are you having a visit from Aunt Flo?
Chocs and hugs xxx

Sparklingbrook · 08/10/2013 22:12

Anyway there is something else to compare to MN now Here.

Zoe567 · 08/10/2013 22:12

I agree! Whenever I read something snide about netmums I think 'oh jump on the bandwagon there'. I've never been to that site, I've no idea what they're like and I wouldn't want to judge a bunch of total strangers.

BlackeyedSusan · 08/10/2013 22:14

red bull has a calming effect on children with adhd.

BranchingOut · 08/10/2013 22:14

Netmums, Mumsnet, Babycentre...
What's the big deal?

Yes, the social demographics of each site is a bit different, but each site has pros and cons.

I used to quite like the WYOO board of Babycentre (What's Your Opinion On...?) as it enabled people to gather opinions without descending into some of the hostile behaviour that can sometimes be seen on AIBU.

TheInquisitor · 08/10/2013 22:14

I don't hold with snobbery towards netmums, I use both sites. Although Netmums is where I started out, I do tend to use here more now.
I love both in equal measures. Grin
sorry, love was a very netmums word to use wasn't it Grin

Bogeyface · 08/10/2013 22:14

it's as posters on mumsnet are somehow superior to anyone who posts on netmums...

Yeah, and? Wink

I got banned for telling a BF "counsellor" that I was disgusted when she said that anyone who didnt BF were neglecting their DC and in her opinion were abusers. I didnt even fucking swear! Fuckers.

Sparklingbrook · 08/10/2013 22:14

It's just the site layout for me. Very busy/colourful. No idea what the people are like.

Bogeyface · 08/10/2013 22:17

Yeah, the site layout is hard to view. Their forum set up isnt very user friendly either imo, I like MN because it caters to the lowest common denominator......me!

wigglesrock · 08/10/2013 22:18

I'm a member of both, it's alright - it does some bits and pieces way better than here but mostly its just not as good as MN. But yes I remember last year, it may have been longer a poster started a thread on MN in disbelief that Netmums had a politics section Hmm

You know you can hide the tickers/ banners etc?

fairy1303 · 08/10/2013 22:19

Bogeyface Maybe if you'd started the message "babez, Since LO has been borned Ive been formula feedin so think your opinion is BULLSHIT xoxox" you would have been allowed to stay?

MurderOfBanshees · 08/10/2013 22:20

Hang on.. you mean we're not better?! Shock Wink

MissBattleaxe · 08/10/2013 22:20

It's friendly rivalry. Most people on Mumsnet prefer Mumsnet, just as most Netmums users prefer Netmums.

You want a bunfight don't you? It's late. We're tired.