Had a date today AIBU?

[DrPolidori]

had a date, lovely day, really liked him. Really fancied him...had some quite steamy snogs...

Anyway. Got home, found I had a message from an old friend on the same site found date in saying, hey good to see you, fancy a drink some time?

To which I said yeah! Would be nice to catch up and have a chuckle about bumping into each other on a dating site.


Have just talked to today's date who has reacted really weirdly, saying, you are going on a date with another man.....Can't believe it etc ...after our lovely afternoon etc. In which we had agreed to just date each other for a bit.

AIBU to think this is a complete overreaction and rings massive alarm bells?

Or does he have a point?

Very interested in your views.

[NoseyNooNoo]

SO what happened with you and the Italian Stallion in the end?

[DrPolidori]

Ah. He turned out to be a bit psycho.

What a surprise!

Oh, and old mate was cadging for a date. So wrong on both counts.

[NoseyNooNoo]

Shame about the Italian. I did think he was right about old friend wanting a date.

Sorry it didn't work out.

[sausagesandmarmelade]

I think you have rung alarm bells with him......

He met you, he liked you and is now wondering if you are interested in this other guy.

He feels hurt!

[DrPolidori]

well, in my defense, on the second date, he complained about having to buy me dinner (after I had travelled to oxford to meet him again) and then threatened to punch a taxi driver's lights out for having dared to "look at my tits" AHEM.


This on top of such cliched beauties as " I don't trust women" "women speak two languages, one verbal" I could go on for hours.

I did wonder which century we were in .

I made my excuses and left.

[NoseyNooNoo]

Oh dear - best out of that one!

[DrPolidori]

Indeedy. And I got the women speak two languages in response to my very lovely email saying I felt we really werent suited,

I got a bit MN on his ass and said indeed it was all about him, he was dull, aggressive, a crap shag, lived in another century and tight.

And then blocked him. Oh the joy!

[Whatmeworry]

a crap shag

Everything else is negotiable - but that is unforgiveable :o.

[DrPolidori]

So right Whatme!