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AIBU?

Had a date today AIBU?

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DrPolidori · 07/08/2011 20:57

had a date, lovely day, really liked him. Really fancied him...had some quite steamy snogs...

Anyway. Got home, found I had a message from an old friend on the same site found date in saying, hey good to see you, fancy a drink some time?

To which I said yeah! Would be nice to catch up and have a chuckle about bumping into each other on a dating site.


Have just talked to today's date who has reacted really weirdly, saying, you are going on a date with another man.....Can't believe it etc ...after our lovely afternoon etc. In which we had agreed to just date each other for a bit.

AIBU to think this is a complete overreaction and rings massive alarm bells?

Or does he have a point?

Very interested in your views.

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jasper · 08/08/2011 00:15

my lips are sealed. But I still think old Justapal might secretly be up for a rematch Grin

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:15

tighty wighties?

Agent Provacteur all the way dear gal, and nobody, NOBODY gets to mess with my expensive undies...

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AnyFucker · 08/08/2011 00:16

so, Mr BuffaloMozzarella is looking decidedly boring right now...

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:16

Your phrase Very Different Things.

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:17

You know what AF, he is looking Decidely Unsophisticated...And I am NOT talking sexy stuff////

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:19

I'm guessing it's after midnight Grin

So, do tell more about your diverting afternoon? with Mr S. Where did your public snogfest take place?

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:20

Is he a tall hunk from northern Italy or from the shorter stature south?

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xylophone · 08/08/2011 00:22

Wait, sorry to trample in with my own agenda, but I am in communications with a man who's dating profile says in the 'looking for' section, "someone with great elbows". Now I just dismissed this as idle attempt at humour/ a film reference that I don't get... does this in fact mean something rather more? What have I let myself in for?? Jeremyvile?

Op - I agree, you're better off out of there.

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:22

You're a gal after my own heart - they don't get to mess with my costly frillies even if they buy them for me unless I'm wearing them.

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:23

Well, we arranged to meet at an Art Gallery in a public park in London. Neither of us being aware there was a trialthon taking place there. Cue about an hour trying to find each other/jump over barriers. Wandered around park. Clearly wildly attracted to each other. Snogs. Then talk about snogs not being right. the more snogs. Then it rained badly. Then we found his car. A bit of a snog. Then we went for lunch. Calms down a bit then. Then mooch around Marylebone high street, have tea, scones. A bit of a snog. Then both realise we are so distracted by snogging the date is rather passing us by. Decide we are not going to be slappers and shag. Go back to car. have a bit of a snog, and yes, a fumble. I send him on his way (lives out of london) come home.

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:24

He is a short Northerner! Just my height. and 10 years older. He so fucking lucked out with me!

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:24

BJ (before Jeremy) I would have assumed that he was looking for a gal who could elbow her way to the front of wherever xylophone.

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:26

Is that just your height in heels when he's wearing them? Grin

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:26

its like, MN porn, our innocence is lost forever...
Elbows...whoda thought it?

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jasper · 08/08/2011 00:26

sounds great!

(But I still think Old Justapal might want into your knicks given half a chance - which as he sees it, you are giving him)

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AnyFucker · 08/08/2011 00:28

I didn't know you were in the Dating lottery game, DrP

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:29

All that pent-up passion stirred up by sight of fit triathelete bodies in lyrca gone to waste.

Shame you didn't just check into a hotel and had a shag.

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:29

I have a MHR. (minimum height requirement) nothing under my height.
Well, have been so busy with business and stuff, but fancied a bit of lighthearted fun and yes, maybe a summer romance, or more.

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:32

The hotel idea, was, i admit, mooted. I had refused to take him back to mine. for all sorts of reasons. mostly to do with not having cleaned my kitchen in a few days.not back to his because his daughter would be there. And not a hotel cos too expensive.

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:32

To be fair on the too expensive thing, we were lurking around Hyde Park Corner.

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jasper · 08/08/2011 00:35

Do you have a date with New Man lined up?

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:36

A mere stone's throw from the Ritz or the Dorchester... o for what could have been. It rained quite a bit today - a good afternoon to be tucked up in a 5* hotel bed with a view of Hyde Park.

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AnyFucker · 08/08/2011 00:37

they must have quite comfy bus shelters around Hyde Park Corner...

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izzywhizzyletsgetbusy · 08/08/2011 00:38

The next date is with the Old Man jasper.

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DrPolidori · 08/08/2011 00:38

NOoooooooooooooo!

Though he did message me when he is around next week.

I think Triclorevongole bloke is just a bit too high maintenance for me atm. He can't start getting pissy with me so early on. He knows I like him. How insecure do you have to be to not accept my explanation?

But god, he was hot.

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