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What is the hand signal the boys killed on A66 are making?

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Spooll · 23/08/2026 15:25

In the pictures that have been released, four out of five of them are making the same hand gesture. I feel very out of touch, but what is it?

www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cq6151gdp50t

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TheForbiddenMoon · 23/08/2026 16:22

If you cant say anything nice, dont say anything at all.

This thread should be closed.

VeraPetrovnaGorky · 23/08/2026 16:22

Spooll · 23/08/2026 15:56

Yes, I suppose I could guess something like that but what is it supposed to indicate is what I was wondering?

To be in almost all the pictures, and be the ones the families choose to release?

usually heavy metal bands sorta like rock on type meaning or at least thats how i understand it

Backedoffhackedoff · 23/08/2026 16:22

Spooll · 23/08/2026 16:07

It just seemed interesting to me that all the families chose those photos to be released. I've since realised it looks like two of them are from the same photo.

Why do you think the parents chose these photos? Usually the media just scrap social media for photos

RoseField1 · 23/08/2026 16:23

TheForbiddenMoon · 23/08/2026 16:19

This is the second set of young men / children in less than a month.

Cannabis induced psychosis?

Of course not. Nihilism and social media sickness more likely

Arlanymor · 23/08/2026 16:23

Spooll · 23/08/2026 16:21

On the basis no-one here has been able to answer the question, why would I be either?

Why does anyone have to answer the question? Why does it remotely matter in the grand scheme of seven people dying?

Spooll · 23/08/2026 16:24

Backedoffhackedoff · 23/08/2026 16:22

Why do you think the parents chose these photos? Usually the media just scrap social media for photos

I didn't realise that. I'd thought someone like the BBC would use official photos, with permission in these circumstances.

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OonaStubbs · 23/08/2026 16:24

They are idiots and the world is a better place with them not in it. It's a crying shame that two police officers had to die to make it happen though.

Gibstub · 23/08/2026 16:25

Yes, I most certainly would be heartbroken but would ask myself where I had gone wrong in his upbringing.

cariadlet · 23/08/2026 16:25

TheForbiddenMoon · 23/08/2026 16:19

This is the second set of young men / children in less than a month.

Cannabis induced psychosis?

3rd set I think. Weren't there 2 recent incidents in Ireland of teenage boys being killed in accidents after driving the wrong way on motorways or dual carriage ways?

Gowlett · 23/08/2026 16:26

RoseField1 · 23/08/2026 15:38

Pretty grim that people are putting tributes out to the young men already. You'd think their loved ones would be too ashamed to grieve publicly like that.

Not really. Mothers have lost sons. It’s a sad loss for everyone involved. Wider discussion will take place, like it has in Ireland, with a similar tragedy. But let them pay tribute for now. It’s a shocking situation…

Spooll · 23/08/2026 16:26

Arlanymor · 23/08/2026 16:23

Why does anyone have to answer the question? Why does it remotely matter in the grand scheme of seven people dying?

It doesn't matter in that context but it's obviously culturally significant (widespread) in some way and I'm trying to enlighten myself.

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Switchnow · 23/08/2026 16:26

Spooll · 23/08/2026 15:56

Yes, I suppose I could guess something like that but what is it supposed to indicate is what I was wondering?

To be in almost all the pictures, and be the ones the families choose to release?

Do you know for sure the families selected these images? It’s common for media to use social media images (maybe the BBC don’t). I agree they seem unusual ones, particularly given they’re all doing it. Seems unlikely to me that all the families would choose the same type of image.

CatLady199 · 23/08/2026 16:26

Spooll · 23/08/2026 15:25

In the pictures that have been released, four out of five of them are making the same hand gesture. I feel very out of touch, but what is it?

www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/cq6151gdp50t

Gangsta 🤦‍♂️😞

Sarah2891 · 23/08/2026 16:27

OonaStubbs · 23/08/2026 16:24

They are idiots and the world is a better place with them not in it. It's a crying shame that two police officers had to die to make it happen though.

This. It's a shame 3 sisters and a 7 year old boy had to be severely injured in the other similar crash too. My thoughts go out to the genuine victims, not the idiots taking part in these tiktok trend car chases.

Arlanymor · 23/08/2026 16:29

Spooll · 23/08/2026 16:26

It doesn't matter in that context but it's obviously culturally significant (widespread) in some way and I'm trying to enlighten myself.

Ok, if you need to know why people pose in a particular way because it will somehow improve your understanding of the world (?!) then have at it, I guess. Culturally significant is stretching it and it is really disingenuous to pretend it's just for improving personal knowledge when we know that cultural significance is fully loaded with class/age/etc.

onedividedbyzero · 23/08/2026 16:29

Arlanymor · 23/08/2026 16:23

Why does anyone have to answer the question? Why does it remotely matter in the grand scheme of seven people dying?

go away

Arlanymor · 23/08/2026 16:29

onedividedbyzero · 23/08/2026 16:29

go away

You first.

cariadlet · 23/08/2026 16:30

TheForbiddenMoon · 23/08/2026 16:22

If you cant say anything nice, dont say anything at all.

This thread should be closed.

Are you seriously saying that people should be respectful to the anti-social yobs who killed 2 innocent men through their reckless behaviour? That we should be considering the feelings of their families?

Fuck that!

Too many innocent people are being put at risk by this kind of behaviour. Some have been injured or killed. Apologies if I've misunderstood your post but I don't think anyone needs to worry about being nice to these mindless idiots.

Fatiguedwithlife · 23/08/2026 16:30

Because their mums are dead proud of them and none of them would ‘harm a fly’ and five will have had a ‘heart of gold and done anything for anyone’ no doubt.
This type of person had a completely fucked moral compass. Like they need congratulating for not beating up grannies. We all know they type

OonaStubbs · 23/08/2026 16:30

You never see kids making the Spock hand signal from Star Trek going joyriding and killing people. I wonder why that is?

Persephonia1966 · 23/08/2026 16:31

Spooll · 23/08/2026 16:09

It's possible to be interested in all sorts of things at once?

Yes, I'm interested in why all the families choose a picture with that gesture and what it indicates.

It really isn't that deep in terms of meaning. Yes there are early "meanings" like it's association with rock music or secretly putting it behind someone elses head in a photo to signify bunny ears/cuckold horns depending on context. On a very basic level its just something to do with their hands that looks (in their eyes) vaguely cool and relaxed. Id say it is associated with cocky body language in a photo but it doesn't have a specific message. It's like people make the "peace" symbol or do a thumbs up or girls making the heart sign with their hands for a photom Obviously those kids aren't going to be making the heart sign etc because they want to look cool so they do the 🤘 instead.

Mycatisreal · 23/08/2026 16:31

BusyBeeBumbling · 23/08/2026 16:08

These boys didn't become like this by accident or despite their parents' best efforts. They were raised this way or left to their own devices from a young age, or probably both.

Maybe the parents should face some sort of charge

Spooll · 23/08/2026 16:31

Arlanymor · 23/08/2026 16:29

Ok, if you need to know why people pose in a particular way because it will somehow improve your understanding of the world (?!) then have at it, I guess. Culturally significant is stretching it and it is really disingenuous to pretend it's just for improving personal knowledge when we know that cultural significance is fully loaded with class/age/etc.

I'm sorry, I'm not understanding why you're offended that I'd like to know what a hand gesture is, even if it is predominantly used by a dufferent age group or class to mine?

Surlely wanting to understand other groups is a good thing? As I said, as those the the pictures (I believed) the familiy had chosen to release, I thought it must have some sort of positive meaning.

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cariadlet · 23/08/2026 16:32

Gowlett · 23/08/2026 16:26

Not really. Mothers have lost sons. It’s a sad loss for everyone involved. Wider discussion will take place, like it has in Ireland, with a similar tragedy. But let them pay tribute for now. It’s a shocking situation…

I disagree.

Of course their families and friends will be grieving. That's only natural. Especially their parents.

But that grief should be in private. I think it's disrespectful to the families of the police officers who were killed for their killers' families to post public tributes.

Arlanymor · 23/08/2026 16:34

Spooll · 23/08/2026 16:31

I'm sorry, I'm not understanding why you're offended that I'd like to know what a hand gesture is, even if it is predominantly used by a dufferent age group or class to mine?

Surlely wanting to understand other groups is a good thing? As I said, as those the the pictures (I believed) the familiy had chosen to release, I thought it must have some sort of positive meaning.

I'm not offended. Not remotely.

And naive it is.