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I think I’m with the rudest family in the world

203 replies

P0loGirl · 13/12/2025 21:48

Not only have they made a family meal and all sat down round the table to eat it whilst ignoring me completely, they are all farting and burping away.

I’ve done the only thing I can and retreated to the sofa that is farthest away from the table. I have not been invited to sit down anywhere or offered a drink.

How do I fucking leave politely???

OP posts:
UxmalFan · 13/12/2025 21:52

Why are you there OP?

Alexadidzammomarryjackie · 13/12/2025 21:52

How did you end up in this situation?

FuzzyWolf · 13/12/2025 21:53

Is this your family?

CoffeeBeansGalore · 13/12/2025 21:53

If they are ignoring you just quietly stand up & leave.

Arlanymor · 13/12/2025 21:53

Why are you there if they are ignoring you?

CapitanSandy · 13/12/2025 21:54

Can you leave?

ResusciAnnie · 13/12/2025 21:54

Wtf? Sounds loud and clear that they want you to have left a couple of hours ago….. are they in your house?!

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 13/12/2025 21:55

Taxi 👋🏼 for @P0loGirl

Ialwaysthoughtitwasadojo · 13/12/2025 21:59

They didn’t invite you to sit down and eat?!

MossAndLeaves · 13/12/2025 22:01

They clearly dont want you there - why are you even visiting?

LiddySmallbury · 13/12/2025 22:12

Why are you concerned about politeness if no one around you is?

DuckyLuck · 13/12/2025 22:16

Have you turned up uninvited?

Daisymay8 · 13/12/2025 22:17

Are you a ghost?

ThisLittlePony · 13/12/2025 22:17

Are you a cat?

mondaytosunday · 13/12/2025 22:18

As soon as it was clear you were not included you should have got your things and left. No need to be polite - just say ‘I’m off’. But you have left out the context of what’s going on here

Moggies3 · 13/12/2025 22:18

Are you at the zoo?

murasaki · 13/12/2025 22:18

A dog, I reckon

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 13/12/2025 22:18

I think it's safe to say you can just leave. Just say 'Right, I'll be off then.'

Clearly they don't really want you there if they didn't invite you to eat with them and are all just ignoring you.

JudgeBread · 13/12/2025 22:19

Why are you there? Who are they to you?

ThisLittlePony · 13/12/2025 22:19

Have you bought something from them on fm marketplace?

AutumnLover1989 · 13/12/2025 22:19

Fake a call and there's an emergency. You have to go. Vile 🤢

mumofoneAloneandwell · 13/12/2025 22:20

Have you posted about this before, op?

Whereismyfleeceblanket · 13/12/2025 22:21

Pop to the loo and go home.

ThisLittlePony · 13/12/2025 22:22

mumofoneAloneandwell · 13/12/2025 22:20

Have you posted about this before, op?

Ooh yes!
@P0loGirl do they know you are there?

CandyCaneKisses · 13/12/2025 22:22

So you haven’t been given food either? I’d just walk out and say nothing since they’re such bad hosts.