Bonnie Blue -sex positivity or old fashioned shame?

[mids2019]

Bonnie Blue.....just why?

I guess we have a woman that has made a lot of money and notoriety out of an act but I really can't see this as being a positive really. I guess it does highlight the age old question whether we should be against at female promiscuity or not be judgemental about how a woman use her body but it does seem rather crass.

Anyway I prefer other world records perosnally.

Part of me feels sorry for her. In the sense that it's sad that she feels her worth is based on the amount of men she's slept with

That's a lot of money she's made. And it seems an easy way of doing it.
Not easy in a real sense, but you don't need to have incredible education or qualifications etc.
A way to make a lot of money quickly is appealing to many young people, what I'm worried about is they will not reap the same results, not even close. Let's face it BB is unusually pretty and has something about her. It feels like a dangerous fad that will be so harmful to some girls that will go down the same path with dangerous consequences.

BB seems ok. Maybe she enjoys it or maybe she's able to deal with it well. It's the girls who are influenced to do the same that I worry for. Who won't be ok.

No way is she 25. I'd say 32 at the very least. Not very bright, but she's making the most of her 15 minutes. I think there are serious mental health issues there, and as for her mother, words fail me. I'm the mother of a 25 year old young woman and the thought of her being involved in something like this turns my stomach.

I think once one accepts that a massive proportion of men, more than we realise, would happily and enthusiastically queue up for 40 seconds of penetration with a female body presented on a literal slab… well there isn’t much to say about them is there?

That’s what is so upsetting about all of this. You like to think women have more respect and are equal to men, but the fact it was so easy for BB to do this stunt suggests we’ve made less progress than I’d like to have believed.

I’ve always thought she looks older than 25.

Sorry, I get that your husband doesn’t agree with it may indicate to you that he is a decent man but I think the language that he has used to describe her and the fact that he had focused on her and not the men shoes that he is in fact not necessarily a “decent man” and is in fact just another man looking down on women. I’d be getting into a serious debate with husband if that was his response

I don't care how many sexual partners anyone of either sex has ,its their choice, but it's the way she's gone about it .
The whole thing is so squalid and dirty - (actual meaning) i don't think i can say immoral as morals are personal to the individual.
I would be feeling the same if this were a 1000 women lining up to be screwed by 1 man, no difference to me .
Just imagining all those smells and fluids and god knows what else blurghhhh.
To me it's about as erotic as a chicken processing factory.
It is of no concern to me if she regrets this further down the line ,i don't care about her enough but i do think of any children she may have reading about her 'escapades' not the kind of parent to look up to .
So its an absolute no to me regarding empowerment etc, i think it might be better if she slinks away into obscurity with her millions, if that's what she's really made.

@SkiingIsHeaven

I asked my husband what he thought about her and he said that he thought she was a repugnant cum bucket. I'm glad that there are still decent men around.

I'm not sure that the definition of a decent man is one who refers to a woman as a repugnant cum bucket, whoever she is. Very much the opposite. Are you being sarcastic here @SkiingIsHeaven

"Little more than a girl" for goodness sake! Can we stop infantalising grown women? First of all, she looks like she's I'm her 30s. I'm not being bitchy but I genuinely think she might be. Secondly, if she is 25 as she says, she is a fully grown woman. I wasn't completely wise at 25 but I certainly knew better than to have sex with 1000 for money and fame.

I’ve heard people try to argue that it’s wrong to liken this to the Gisele Pelicot case, but I disagree.

Fundamentally it’s the same thing - groups of men assembling to take turns at sticking their penis into a woman that’s been made available to them. The fact these porn stars “consent” is irrelevant.

When you think about it in terms of wanking into a human body in the presence of other men, it’s the same thing.

I don't think consent is irrelevant at all.

Yes! This! As he likely consumes porn, probably free porn… so he’s ok with it then? But not when a woman is getting paid?

and what a vile way to describe someone

World record 1,000 fucks in one day

Put aside the sexual aspects of this to admire the true achievement here. Our putative champion must:

• Market and promote the event.
• Recruit staff, draw up contracts and vet/test people for STDs.
• Or hire an agency and liaise with them.
• Choose a suitable venue, get a local authority licence, consult with neighbours/locals; arrange adequate safe parking.
• Insure staff, premises and attendees.
• Provide changing facilities, lockers or tickets to avoid mix-ups.

Crucially, lavatories? If there are toilet queues, some participants may not get their cocks washed, dried and primed for action in time. Will staff separate angry participants arguing? Who will help someone struggling to put on his condom in time for his turn? Will staff be empathetic to ED sufferers? What about LBGT?

Security: will police manage traffic/crowd control? Door staff to check attendees for drugs/weapons/forgetting to bring a condom?

Are observers allowed? Media? Will a licensed bar be provided for the Press?

The big clean up…
Who deals with post-event rubbish collection - mixed bodily fluids, discarded condoms, litter from snacks, drinks, empty vapes, forgotten clothing, used underpants? Who collects, sorts (tries to find owners by DNA testing)?

And then, the main event:
24 hours = 1,440 minutes = 84.4 seconds per fuck

Who co-ordinates order of play, which cocksman goes next? The lady is on her back, or front, or knees, to aid quick in and out, and not paying attention to strict alphabetical order.

This is a staggering achievement. Forget the fucking – a side issue ‘scuse the pun – as a piece of organisation it is awesome.

Come on Starmer, give this woman a job running a Ministry. She can make £3 million out of one day and one fanny. Sorting out our national economic woes would be a doddle to her.

I find the whole think shockingly abhorrent.

The disgusting vile men who queue to have a quick “go” on her. I have no doubt that most of them are incels with very dangerous ideologies around women.

Potentially, there are some younger more naive men who may come to deeply regret their actions and it will have a negative impact on their own mental health.

She claims she is “educating” people about sex. Bullshit. She is sending a message that it is ok for men to use women’s bodies in this way, and that women actually want to be used in this way. She degrades her self by saying things like “use my holes” as if that is all women are.

I find it absolutely repugnant on the back of the news of “grooming gangs” raping year young girls and the Giselle Pelicot case.

i find it terrifying that impressionable young girls may come across her instragram account and think that it’s ok to make money in this way.

I find it terrifying that she’s spreading the same rhetoric as the likes of Andrew Tate to young boys.

She MUST be a sociopath who does not care about what people think. I hope she is, because in that way she will be able to cope. If she is not, she is going to suffer sever mental health difficulties in the future and, like someone said, is likely to live a short life. There is no way she can have any sort of a normal life away from this industry now. She will not be able to have a long term relationship based on trust and respect. It would be incredibly selfish of her to have children now (if she’s already made the decision that she will not do then I would have a modicum of respect).

I am very liberal, if people love sex and want to have lots of it, fine. But I refuse to believe that she enjoys huge numbers of repulsive, desperate, grotesque dregs of society jabbing their vile little penises into her. In which case she is MASSIVELY debasing herself for money and the people around her a filthy leaches. I have a feeling she just gone all in now because she can’t claw it back to a normal life so she may as well just make as much money as she can.

I fear for the youth of today living in a world where this has become mainstream. I fear for my daughter and my sons. Whoever likened it to a Black Mirror episode is absolutely right.

She looks very....butch🤔

Oh yes plenty but the title just alludes to her

I’ve had similar thoughts. Theres obviously differences but also similarities.

Fuck, who needs men when we’ve got women tearing each other down about their appearance. check yourself

it’s one thing to be criticising and commenting on what she represents but then ‘she looks butch’. Got nothing of value to say so you go after the lowest common denominator, criticise her appearance.

regardless of what you think of her (which in my case isn’t very much) objectively she’s quite a pretty young lady, very slim and nowhere in vicinity of ‘butch’

Regarding calling her a cum bucket ,it's a horrible crude description but don't you think that's what she's done ?
she has objectified herself into a vessel , a body part for those men to deposit sperm with no thought that there is a human being attached to the vagina they have just 'used'.
And if this were women lined up instead they would be doing exactly the same thing .
I think most people wouldn't want to get their sexual kicks this way but i think a surprising amount would.
Maybe she doesn't feel that way ,she may not attach importance to all the issues around what she's done the way the majority of society would.
She probably doesn't give a shit what derogatory words are used about her ,too busy thinking about the money.

Well she obviously has no morals /respect for herself so why should I?

@mids2019

"I guess it does highlight the age old question whether we should be against at female promiscuity or not be judgemental about how a woman use her body but it does seem rather crass."

I was thinking about this last night and the issue as I see it is why is there such publicity about this.

Why is it seen in any way as an achievement to have had sex with 1000 men in a day? Aside from the logistics I'm sure that there are many women on MN that could do the same if they so chose to (but don't do so) so it's not like she has say run 10 marathons in 10 days etc.

It's not a particularly difficult achievement - she just has to organise 1000 very creepy men and lie there.

From a feminist perspective I would rather women are judged by the content of their character and achievements than how many men they can have sex with. I also worry about what message this sends to younger girls.

Yes that’s objectively true, but I find the repulsion that a lot of ‘good men’ seem to have for her, quite ironic and a massive red flag in their character as statistics show that the vast majority of men consume porn (likely free porn) so they’re morally ok with in then (when the circumstances are dubious at best) but when the woman is clearly an agent of her own choice who’s getting very well paid then all of a sudden their is a moral problem.

So is this your one contribution to the discussion - a shallow observation?

I think she’s attractive and feminine but I’m not convinced shes 25.