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Bonnie Blue -sex positivity or old fashioned shame?

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mids2019 · 18/01/2025 05:49

Bonnie Blue.....just why?

I guess we have a woman that has made a lot of money and notoriety out of an act but I really can't see this as being a positive really. I guess it does highlight the age old question whether we should be against at female promiscuity or not be judgemental about how a woman use her body but it does seem rather crass.

Anyway I prefer other world records perosnally.

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Applecharm25 · 03/02/2025 19:55

alwaysontheloo · 03/02/2025 19:16

The fifth post on the first page says that BB made 3 million pounds last year 😂😂😂

You really need to get over yourself! 😁

I didn't say on the whole thread.

I said ON THIS PAGE.

Why so aggressive?

And no I'm not a prostitute as you asked me.

I just see the total hypocrisy : of men making and directing way, worse porn and no one gives a shit.

A woman does it, and everyone's shocked.

Applecharm25 · 03/02/2025 20:58

alwaysontheloo · 03/02/2025 18:55

Here's a tip - not everything is about you. I didn't even read your post before I posted so you can chill down.

Where are you getting all this Happy Hooker info from? Are you a prostitute yourself?

In the 90s I used to live next door to a prostitute who made a lot of money. She used to trot out the tropes you're spouting but her life was far from happy and she was very damaged by what she did. Just because someone says they are happy doing that line of work doesn't mean they aren't the lies they tell themselves so they can continue.

Again, just because money is necessary for survival doesn't mean that there aren't a million and one things more important than money.

You also seem to be side stepping the many women who are trafficked and pimped and make no money from it. But hey it's ok because they all love it right?

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Why aren't you out there protesting about all the bad porn directed by men online?

We have gang bangs where women are dominated and hurt physically.
Porn where women are hurt and choked physically.
Porn where women are pushed around roughly and hurt
Porn where men have sex with barely legal teenagers. Some of them are probably underage.

All that porn is out there already.

BigAnne · 03/02/2025 20:58

Applecharm25 · 03/02/2025 19:55

I didn't say on the whole thread.

I said ON THIS PAGE.

Why so aggressive?

And no I'm not a prostitute as you asked me.

I just see the total hypocrisy : of men making and directing way, worse porn and no one gives a shit.

A woman does it, and everyone's shocked.

Have you seen the stuff she's posting on-line?

Applecharm25 · 03/02/2025 21:00

BigAnne · 03/02/2025 20:58

Have you seen the stuff she's posting on-line?

I havent seen every single thing that she has done.

But I know what she has become famous for yes.

Large group sex, and she aimed to break the record for the largest group sex session. 1000 men in a day

BigAnne · 03/02/2025 21:16

Applecharm25 · 03/02/2025 21:00

I havent seen every single thing that she has done.

But I know what she has become famous for yes.

Large group sex, and she aimed to break the record for the largest group sex session. 1000 men in a day

I've seen some of it and it's truly disturbing. There's no way that she's enjoying it, her eyes are dead. She needs saved from herself IMO.

trebubble · 04/02/2025 08:10

@Applecharm25

Why aren't you out there protesting about all the bad porn directed by men online?
We have gang bangs where women are dominated and hurt physically.
Porn where women are hurt and choked physically. Porn where women are pushed around roughly and hurt.
Porn where men have sex with barely legal teenagers. Some of them are probably underage.

I do 'protest' against this kind of porn. I'm disgusted that it's created. The cases against pornhub, the reason so many videos were taken off the site, and the testimony of the people who were there to moderate and deal with reports is horrifying.

Lily Philips cries in the YouTube documentary about her 100 men stunt, describing through tears how she dissociates during, and the experience of feeling violated...then announces her plan to do a more extreme version of the same thing the next day.

It's very easy to find many first-hand accounts from women who intended to have a solo or 'vanilla' onlyfans, but competition meant they felt like they had to engage in acts they didn't want to, because other women were, and they wouldn't earn the "big money" if they didn't. Technically they consented, but this wasn't the choice they would have made if they hadn't felt it was necessary to maintain/increase their earnings.

I think women engaging in these kind of degrading publicity stunts doesn't help, and I believe they are (possibly unknowingly) working on the side of the disgusting men who create the sort of porn you mention. By 'consenting' to be treated like this, the pressure on others in the industry to be ever more extreme is increased, and the idea that women should be okay with this kind of treatment is further normalised. It's not empowering, and it harms all women.

Women can oppose other women doing this, and it doesn't mean they're giving men a free pass.

IDontHateRainbows · 04/02/2025 09:10

As far as I'm concerned she can do what she likes, just as a heroin addict can do what they like or a gambler can do what they like with the provisons that if she one day wants to stop and be supported in that, she works be.

It's not against the law and I don't want to live in a nanny state.

Lampzade · 04/02/2025 09:39

Shame really needs to be brought back in fashion.

Daisychainsforme · 04/02/2025 09:46

@IDontHateRainbows I don't want to live in a nanny state.

I'm sorry to break it to you but you already are.

Labour has plans to roll out breakfast clubs and supervised teeth-brushing sessions. Rolling out a national supervised toothbrushing programme for three to five-year-olds will cost £9m a year.
They have also implemented the 21:00 watershed for junk food advertising on television.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/business/2024/10/31/starmer-plots-nanny-state-crackdown-milkshakes/

So tell me why the state should pick up the slack for poor parenting?

If we want to see a better NHS, we must all do our bit to live our lives a little bit healthier.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 04/02/2025 09:49

Lampzade · 04/02/2025 09:39

Shame really needs to be brought back in fashion.

For men who get off on degrading women? Hell yes! We've somehow ambled into this weird idea that if something makes a man cum, bar actual abuse of prepubescent children, it's ok. Maybe not ok to do in real life but sure as hell ok to act it out on film for wanking over.

IDontHateRainbows · 04/02/2025 11:02

Daisychainsforme · 04/02/2025 09:46

@IDontHateRainbows I don't want to live in a nanny state.

I'm sorry to break it to you but you already are.

Labour has plans to roll out breakfast clubs and supervised teeth-brushing sessions. Rolling out a national supervised toothbrushing programme for three to five-year-olds will cost £9m a year.
They have also implemented the 21:00 watershed for junk food advertising on television.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/business/2024/10/31/starmer-plots-nanny-state-crackdown-milkshakes/

So tell me why the state should pick up the slack for poor parenting?

If we want to see a better NHS, we must all do our bit to live our lives a little bit healthier.

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Well, nanny's do deal with children so I'm not so concerned about children living in a nanny state.
Adults should be able to do what they want unless of course it's a criminal offence
Which porn between consenting adults is not, yet.

Daisychainsforme · 04/02/2025 11:09

@IDontHateRainbows Well, nanny's do deal with children so I'm not so concerned about children living in a nanny state.

So you aren't bothered about stupid parents who can't feed their kids properly or even teach them basic hygiene, meaning everyone else has to pick up the tab for poor parenting?

It seems what you are actually saying is that you don't want any kind of state interference if it impacts your life?

Seems to me you want it both ways. 🙄

IDontHateRainbows · 04/02/2025 11:27

Daisychainsforme · 04/02/2025 11:09

@IDontHateRainbows Well, nanny's do deal with children so I'm not so concerned about children living in a nanny state.

So you aren't bothered about stupid parents who can't feed their kids properly or even teach them basic hygiene, meaning everyone else has to pick up the tab for poor parenting?

It seems what you are actually saying is that you don't want any kind of state interference if it impacts your life?

Seems to me you want it both ways. 🙄

I don't want the state to legislate against bonnie blue and her activities. That would be a step too far.

I'm not a fan of porn myself but I think it would be an over reach of the state to make it illegal ( this kind of line up in a queue gang bang world record stuff)
I'm sure many on here would disagree
That's fine too we don't have to agree on everything

Daisychainsforme · 04/02/2025 11:56

@IDontHateRainbows I don't want the state to legislate against bonnie blue and her activities. That would be a step too far.

There is already legislation in place and Ms Blue has fallen foul of it.

Only Fans has refused to let her upload the video she made of the "1,000 man attempt" because of 'irregularities' to do with age verification and her segment from the Saving Grace podcast USA has been pulled.

It seems to me she is doing everything she can to get herself 'cancelled' because things aren't going her way.

She went Stateside to a porn convention in LA because she had been nominated for an award. Unfortunately it went to Lily Phillips her rival.
In true narcissistic fashion she spat out her dummy and refused to appear on any shows where Lily P had appeared first.
Then it seems she cancelled some arrangements to shoot some porn at a studio because they had already used Lily as a 'model'.

So, having effectively scuppered her employment chances with the porn industry she now having to go solo. Her latest idea is to be filmed giving a BJ while skydiving.
The mind boggles at the logistical arrangements needed to, dare I say it, pull off that one...
Given that the average amount of time to freefall from 15,000 feet is 60 seconds, she'll have to work fast......

IDontHateRainbows · 04/02/2025 13:19

Daisychainsforme · 04/02/2025 11:56

@IDontHateRainbows I don't want the state to legislate against bonnie blue and her activities. That would be a step too far.

There is already legislation in place and Ms Blue has fallen foul of it.

Only Fans has refused to let her upload the video she made of the "1,000 man attempt" because of 'irregularities' to do with age verification and her segment from the Saving Grace podcast USA has been pulled.

It seems to me she is doing everything she can to get herself 'cancelled' because things aren't going her way.

She went Stateside to a porn convention in LA because she had been nominated for an award. Unfortunately it went to Lily Phillips her rival.
In true narcissistic fashion she spat out her dummy and refused to appear on any shows where Lily P had appeared first.
Then it seems she cancelled some arrangements to shoot some porn at a studio because they had already used Lily as a 'model'.

So, having effectively scuppered her employment chances with the porn industry she now having to go solo. Her latest idea is to be filmed giving a BJ while skydiving.
The mind boggles at the logistical arrangements needed to, dare I say it, pull off that one...
Given that the average amount of time to freefall from 15,000 feet is 60 seconds, she'll have to work fast......

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I'm sure she'll manage it. She's up for a challenge for sure.
Oh and I'm nor sure she's broken any actual uk laws. Only fans not being the government, are free to set their own rules.

Yes she's fallen foul of immigration law in Australia but that's for doing economic activity not in line with her tourist visa. An illegal immigrant trying to work in a bar would get refused entry too.

Daisychainsforme · 04/02/2025 13:52

@IDontHateRainbows Only fans not being the government, are free to set their own rules.

That is true but within nations that allow at least some types of pornography, models are often required to be at least a specific age (18 is most common). Various nations have various rules as to how a site must ensure that all porn models featured on it are of age such as strict record-keeping laws.

Only Fans said in a statement re Bonnie Blue's Record attempt, that its services are “designed for creators who have completed our comprehensive onboarding process and choose to monetize their content.”
The statement went on to say that Only Fans verifies the age, identity, and consent of all those featured. That last part is probably where the main issue lies. There is no way for Only Fans to accurately confirm that 1,057 men are who they say they are.

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