Bonnie Blue -sex positivity or old fashioned shame?

[mids2019]

Bonnie Blue.....just why?

I guess we have a woman that has made a lot of money and notoriety out of an act but I really can't see this as being a positive really. I guess it does highlight the age old question whether we should be against at female promiscuity or not be judgemental about how a woman use her body but it does seem rather crass.

Anyway I prefer other world records perosnally.

I mean, I wouldn’t call a man who referred to a woman as a ‘repugnant cum bucket’ a decent man, to be honest, but that’s between you and him.

I feel very concerned that these women’s content is pushed on social media to young teenagers. It worries me what consuming this content, even just to laugh at or be shocked at it rather than sexually titillated by it, is doing to shape the way boys and girls see the world, themselves and each other.

I really hate when people bring up how much money she’s made, as if that makes it ok or understandable or even in a weird way admirable. It feels like we’ve reached some strange late capitalism stage where anything is permissible as long as you can sell it.

It’s dangerous for normal society.
what about all the young men who watch it?
we have teen boys and it’s another uncomfortable explanation about porn, and reality and sex and privacy and respect and intimacy.

And I imagine it’s the same for parents of teen girls.

when you have 17 yr old girls in A&E with prolapsed arseholes because they think anal fucking is expected from them you know something has gone spectacularly wrong.

so Blue and Lily can fuck off with their interpretation of body/sex positivity or empowerment. They can also fuck off with their comments about men straying in a marriage if a woman does put out, trying to prostitute the world?

I don’t think I know one man that is so desperate to stick his dick in someone who would stand in that queue. Sad, failures, excuses of men. Their objectification of women deserves them to spend their lives just watching sex with their flaccid unsucked cock in their hands.

It”s dangerous for society. All of it, all the porn, particularly extreme porn. One or two women earn a huge chunk of money but thousands upon thousands of other men and women suffer. It’s exploitation all round.

You use the word prostitute as an insult, and in a manner that makes me think you’re nailing her occupation with an insult that previous posters wouldn’t have applied to her and will therefore be shocked by the stark reality. I don’t think this is the case at all and also think it’s sad that using the word prostiute is seen as an insult.

@Tomatocutwithazigzagedge not vetted- as you say, I guess if you do something like this you can’t worry about or judge men for being rapsist or abusers. They’re just shoving their cock in for 40 seconds.

also the STI screening appeared to be totally useless

She is a prostitute. She's selling sex for money it's exactly what a prostitute is. There is nothing positive or empowering about selling your body for sex.

Bloody Hell... Sorry to break it to you but your husband sounds awful. That's a highly misogynistic thing to say.

To compare, my partner can't even bear to talk about it because he finds it so disturbing.

I have given further comment on this. Yes bad choice of words but there was more to the conversation.

Yes she is. The word shouldn’t be an insult though it simply- as you say- describes her work.

obviously many women who sell sex are forced into it by circumstance so I don’t think it’s appropriate in 2025 to have it in your list of insults

I assumed the OP is writing an article tbh. Lots of pointed leading questions and frothy language.

Her mum is even worse from what you say 😱

The sad,vile thing is...her parents are her managers 🤢🤮

So her mum is basically her pimp? Nice 🤢🤢🤢

PLEASE!! Do we need to give this woman and Lily P any more publicity?

They have been discussed endless times on here. There have been many threads. This is just feeding into the notoriety / publicity they crave. I really really wish everyone on Mumsnet would just ignore them because starting threads on here about them is going to achieve absolutely zilch.

Do you think it would the same effect if the record was
Woman breaks record for amount of of men who stick their penis in her vagina within the space12 hours.

They didn't actually have sex.

It doesn't really have the same ring to it.

I really hoped she would come out as actually being male at birth, like the one in Australia. That would make me smile!

Why so many threads....that's the nature of fame. It's a strange beast.

What worries me is this is the merging of influencing and pornography. If game is the goals people will do a lot.

Couldn't agree more with every word of that. Really scary world we live in now. I have a 13 year old daughter already living with the effects of it. A boy at school yesterday got suspended for sexual harassment. I'd hate to be a teenage girl now.
Also have an 11 year old son who will be needing those really awkward but important conversations.
I find it really upsetting.

Hope she uses a proof reader for that!

When Andy Peters asked if that was her mum with the sign.... 🤦🤦

It's liberalism gone mad.

No values anymore.

I find these posts really strange. It’s surely not realistic to think, that if people want to discuss something on a discussion forum they should consider that if it will “bring publicity” to someone morally questionable or who is “doing it for the attention” it’s better to simply start quiet, and keep their discussion in their heads?

it’s obvious that people will have either not seen previous threads, maybe don’t engage with the posters on them, or just plain want to continue discussing. Pleading with them to shut up is bizarre

It’s amazing the volume of threads on MN that are alleged to by posted by journalists and yet.,,.. never appear as articles.

MN isn’t actually as vital to British society as some people like to imagine

No article.....many out there already. I think the world is fascinated in a dark way.

This was all consensual. But if your brother, or you father, or your best friend stood in line, waiting to take his turn, in line with another thousand men, to have sex with the same woman, for kicks, for the excitement would you not completely judge them negatively for it? Is it not vile? What kind of message does something like this send out to the boys and men, of the world?. What expectations are they forming in their minds, in regards to what is expected of women?

And the hangers on. Her "team" which includes her parents. The inevitable documentary makers. The newspapers.

I suppose in this case at least they didn't use some unsuspecting Air BNB hosts house as the brothel.

Yes - lots of leading questions and lose hypothesis.