Bonnie Blue -sex positivity or old fashioned shame?

[mids2019]

Bonnie Blue.....just why?

I guess we have a woman that has made a lot of money and notoriety out of an act but I really can't see this as being a positive really. I guess it does highlight the age old question whether we should be against at female promiscuity or not be judgemental about how a woman use her body but it does seem rather crass.

Anyway I prefer other world records perosnally.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14192563/Lily-Phillips-middle-class-schoolgirl-turned-privileged-upbringing-working-class-good-parents-earn-international-notoriety-tawdry-stunts.html

This is a perfect, eloquent summary, and exactly what I believe (but I'd have accidentally written a thesis trying to explain myself)

I honestly don't care what any woman does.

And I know plenty of women that have sex with a different man every weekend

It's not that much different.

Just a higher number in one night .

To be fair I meant in terms of his policies as President, along with his brother.

The liberals of the 60s will be turning in their graves (or ashamed in their old age) at what's happened to their movement.

But by citing JFK as part of your post made as much sense as the previous poster calling her DH decent for labelling the woman as cum bucket. JFK was no better than Trump when it came to attitude toward women.
The one thing that gave women any chance of equality and freedom was the contraceptive pill becoming widely available.
Let's hope these modern women are taking their s faithfully or there will be a lot of DNA tests being ordered.

I suppose the best way to look at it, is to think how you’d feel to hear your daughter done what she did. I would be gutted for her.

Yes we can all do what we want with our own bodies bla bla bla but anyone that thinks what she did was positive needs to give their head a wobble

She has no need to feel ashamed for her sex-stunts though. Why should she?

It isn’t very healthy though, from a physical perspective. Sti’s, UTI’s and raw pain is what I’m expecting her to deal with afterwards, at the very least.
The sperm in the eyes also, stinging. The smell would have made me feel sick very quickly. I just don’t see the point as it really doesn’t come across as an enjoyable experience.

To me it is grim that the guys are lining up like that, but as other posters have pointed out, sex means different things to different people.

It isn’t very healthy though, from a physical perspective. Sti’s, UTI’s and raw pain is what I’m expecting her to deal with afterwards, at the very least.
The sperm in the eyes also, stinging. The smell would have made me feel sick very quickly. I just don’t see the point as it really doesn’t come across as an enjoyable experience. To me it is grim that the guys are lining up like that, but as other posters have pointed out, sex means different things to different people.

All of these are excellent reasons to feel shame.

We have that emotion for very good reasons.

Aside from the morality aspect, she should be ashamed of giving multiple blowies one after the other to random un-condomed dicks, probably unwashed and covered in sweat and other bodily secretions. That's just grim whoever it is. I know this to be what she and lily did and there's footage on reddit, caution eye bleach required but if you're morbidly curious like me it's there to see.

I associate shame with when you have done something wrong towards others. And then you are caught out having done something tou shouldn’t have.
Not sure she has wronged anyone else but herself.

Just bleurgh. The taste and smell of that would have me sick for a week. Or forever.
Then the stamina you’d need.
Jaws of steel and all that.

Shame is far more nuanced than that.

Really? You don't think she wrongs all women by doing this, by reducing herself as an object to be fucked? You don't think the men who watch this kind of thing are impacted by it, and that it effects their view of women generally?

No I don't think she has wronged all women by doing this.

Have the male porn starts who have gang bangs on pornhub -

wronged all men ? No like they haven't.

Men doing it doesn’t make it right either.

She has wronged women. Women have to fight against male violence and being objectified every single day. Men are literally killing women because they see us as objects to be controlled. Is she helping or hindering the cause, do you think?

I hear what you're saying, but men really need to have the intelligence to see that this ridiculous woman doesn't represent all women and that most women would find sleeping with so many men repulsive and distressing. My DH, for example, knows that this woman really is an extreme exception and people (both men and women) find her behaviour unusual and shocking. He has a wife, a daughter, several sisters, a mum, female friends and colleagues. He does not associate Bonnie Blue's behaviour with any of us, because we happen to be female.
Any man who thinks for a second that Bonnie Blue represents us, is a complete moron.

I don't that men see bonnie blue as representing all women.

They see her as being on the extreme end.

She is being extreme to get attention

Maybe we should get men to stop hurting and killing women.

Before we get bonnie blue to stop having sex with men.

Maybe we should do both.

There's a bit in the Mail where some of the men involved have been interviewed, some are wearing balaclavas and some show their faces, it is all so fucking depressing

It's all just so shocking, I just can't articulate how I feel about the whole sorry lot of them, her, Lily, the men, the parents. It's all pretty revolting and base, no one comes out of this looking good do they...

@AquaPeer "I think BB has used this “marketing tool” to create a situation that makes a huge amount of money in a short period of time.
personally, I don’t believe much of her situation- her name, her age, and mainly, I don’t believe 1057 men. Framing it as a “world record” when that’s clearly meaningless in the sense in which we recognise a world record, is part of some pretty clear marketing and rhetoric. In the same way her outrageous comments about other women etc are just click bait."

I agree with your summation.

This is a marketing ploy that has fooled a lot of people and driven them to seek out her OF account.

So much of her marketing has been shown to be misleading, such as using Adult Film Industry actors in one of her clips. She sticks to the same script when interviewed on various platforms and delivers it without emotion.

I think she's a failed porn actress who's being used as a stooge by a porn company to drive traffic their way.🤔

That's why I call BS on this as well.

Well let’s be honest here a “cum bucket” is spot on.
The woman is making her vagina available to as many men as possible for fame and money.

What disturbs me is that before the 'event' started she went down to the queue of men and said that if they wanted they could spit on her and slap her if they wanted.

After the event she showed the fingermarks and bruises on her legs. There was even a bit mark near her groin.
She stated that it turned her on to think they were "putting their mark on her".

To me, this is further proof she has some kind of bizarre mindset and wants to degrade women in men's eyes and encourage sexual abuse of women and girls.

Looking at the demographic of men that attended it seems she is catering to and encouraging a subset of the male population that already thinks white women are 'trash'.