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Bonnie Blue -sex positivity or old fashioned shame?

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mids2019 · 18/01/2025 05:49

Bonnie Blue.....just why?

I guess we have a woman that has made a lot of money and notoriety out of an act but I really can't see this as being a positive really. I guess it does highlight the age old question whether we should be against at female promiscuity or not be judgemental about how a woman use her body but it does seem rather crass.

Anyway I prefer other world records perosnally.

OP posts:
boltt · 18/01/2025 15:18

I don't find it empowering to reduce our standards to male standards.

Would be nice if everyone, male and female, just behaved better

ginasevern · 18/01/2025 15:18

@SkiingIsHeaven

"I asked my husband what he thought about her and he said that he thought she was a repugnant cum bucket."

Apart from the fact that it takes two to tango (or in this case 100), your husband is hardly likely to say to your face that he'd like to pork her himself is he?

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:21

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:14

I think it's good in one way in that she is doing what men have done for a long time.
And she is showing them what it is like.

She does these videos called "barely legal". Where she goes out to look for 18 year old boys to have sex with them

Right it sounds disgusting.

But the porn industry have done it the other way round for ages. There are loads of porn videos showing older men having sex with "barely legal" girls. And we had to just put up with it for ages.

She is swinging the power round to her side in a way.

Two wrongs don't make a right, as they say.

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:25

boltt · 18/01/2025 15:18

I don't find it empowering to reduce our standards to male standards.

Would be nice if everyone, male and female, just behaved better

I'm not saying it's empowering exactly

I'm just saying, she is doing what men have done for years.

And people don't like it. It's causing more of a fuss - because it's a woman doing it

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:27

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:21

Two wrongs don't make a right, as they say.

Yes I see that point

But why are people not shocked at the men shagging ten barely legal teenagers on porn sites in one night.

But now a woman is doing it - it makes the news and its shocking.

Why is bonnie doing it, any worse than the men doing it

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:36

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:27

Yes I see that point

But why are people not shocked at the men shagging ten barely legal teenagers on porn sites in one night.

But now a woman is doing it - it makes the news and its shocking.

Why is bonnie doing it, any worse than the men doing it

Edited

But lots of people do condemn the barely legal type porn. Many people speak out about it.
I think Bonnie Blue is making the news because she slept with over 1000 men. If a man slept with 1000 women in 24 hours I'm pretty sure it would be a big news story.
If Bonnie Blue slept with ten men, it wouldn't be in the news.
It's not a case of "Why is Bonnie doing it worse than men doing it?". The fact is men aren't breaking records for sleeping with over 1000 in one day.

GeneralChaos1 · 18/01/2025 15:36

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:27

Yes I see that point

But why are people not shocked at the men shagging ten barely legal teenagers on porn sites in one night.

But now a woman is doing it - it makes the news and its shocking.

Why is bonnie doing it, any worse than the men doing it

Edited

It is shocking when men do if too. And the young girls that take part. Either way it is shocking.

However - BB is not shagging them. They’re shagging her. She is letting young boys use her “holes” as she puts it. And she is has been on daytime TV, mainstream podcasts, mainstream media and has a following on her Instagram account (which looks fairly innocent and aspirational) and this is dangerous to both young girls and boys. Basically, she does not care about the message she is sending out, the harm she is doing, as long as she keeps getting promotion and £££££££££

if it was just about her and she’s of sound mind then fine. But it is not. It affects and implicates so many others and is a societal problem on a bigger level

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:39

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:36

But lots of people do condemn the barely legal type porn. Many people speak out about it.
I think Bonnie Blue is making the news because she slept with over 1000 men. If a man slept with 1000 women in 24 hours I'm pretty sure it would be a big news story.
If Bonnie Blue slept with ten men, it wouldn't be in the news.
It's not a case of "Why is Bonnie doing it worse than men doing it?". The fact is men aren't breaking records for sleeping with over 1000 in one day.

I haven't looked at the porn sites in depth lately:

but I'm pretty sure there are videos of one man sleeping with a thousand girls in one night.

Bonnie is making the news as it was not previously normal for women to do this. And to brag about it.

The porn industry was all about men controlling women

I feel like she's sticking two fingers up to the porn industry in a way. She's managing herself, doing what she wants and is making money.

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:41

GeneralChaos1 · 18/01/2025 15:36

It is shocking when men do if too. And the young girls that take part. Either way it is shocking.

However - BB is not shagging them. They’re shagging her. She is letting young boys use her “holes” as she puts it. And she is has been on daytime TV, mainstream podcasts, mainstream media and has a following on her Instagram account (which looks fairly innocent and aspirational) and this is dangerous to both young girls and boys. Basically, she does not care about the message she is sending out, the harm she is doing, as long as she keeps getting promotion and £££££££££

if it was just about her and she’s of sound mind then fine. But it is not. It affects and implicates so many others and is a societal problem on a bigger level

But violent dangerous porn of men degrading women has already been out there for a long time, affecting people

So bonnie is not any worse than any of those men.

If we are going to stop bonnie we should also stop all the men doing things on the porn sites

MatriarchalMadness · 18/01/2025 15:41

She's a disgusting, gruesome whore

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:43

MatriarchalMadness · 18/01/2025 15:41

She's a disgusting, gruesome whore

Do you think male pornstars are disgusting too?

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:47

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:39

I haven't looked at the porn sites in depth lately:

but I'm pretty sure there are videos of one man sleeping with a thousand girls in one night.

Bonnie is making the news as it was not previously normal for women to do this. And to brag about it.

The porn industry was all about men controlling women

I feel like she's sticking two fingers up to the porn industry in a way. She's managing herself, doing what she wants and is making money.

I really don't think there are porn videos of men sleeping with 1000 women a night. Don't get me wrong. I'm sure they'd love to do that but it's physically impossible for a man to sleep with that many in one night, or even about 50.

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:49

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:47

I really don't think there are porn videos of men sleeping with 1000 women a night. Don't get me wrong. I'm sure they'd love to do that but it's physically impossible for a man to sleep with that many in one night, or even about 50.

It's not physically impossible with viagara.

I was reading an article written by a male pornstar.

He said that they are given viagara to keep them hard for many hours

iwishihadaname · 18/01/2025 15:51

she Is married her husband is ok with it

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:52

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:49

It's not physically impossible with viagara.

I was reading an article written by a male pornstar.

He said that they are given viagara to keep them hard for many hours

Ok, well, I still don't believe such videos exist. If they did, BB wouldn't be breaking world records. She's doing something groundbreaking, I suppose. Something men haven't done. But whatever, I find it very unpleasant whether men or women do it. It's not something to be celebrated.

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 16:07

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:52

Ok, well, I still don't believe such videos exist. If they did, BB wouldn't be breaking world records. She's doing something groundbreaking, I suppose. Something men haven't done. But whatever, I find it very unpleasant whether men or women do it. It's not something to be celebrated.

Yeah the men maybe didn't reach one thousand girls exactly.

But there's definitey videos of two men with hundreds of girls In gang bang porn videos

Bonnie set out to break the record, to get attention I guess.

I honestly dont really care. If she wants to she wants to

lifebow · 18/01/2025 16:22

I got sent by some idiot a pornhub video of her - I instantly switched off when I realised it was - not without viewing a few seconds. I just felt immensely sorry for her and so sad she's caught up all this mess. This idiot told me there are videos of her everywhere commenting on the 'look' of her private parts- deeply mysogonistic brutal comments.

The world is messed up.

LaLaLaLaLaLaLaLaLaa · 18/01/2025 16:22

iwishihadaname · 18/01/2025 15:51

she Is married her husband is ok with it

Edited

No he isn’t, they’re getting divorced.

IDontHateRainbows · 18/01/2025 17:11

Manchesterbythesea · 18/01/2025 10:43

It’s all just social media again though. If a woman had sex with 1000 men in the 80’s or 90’s we wouldn’t have to know all about it.
I think she’s an attention seeking freak. It’s completely fucked up that it makes the news.

We knew about Annabel Chong

Somethingcloseby · 18/01/2025 17:54

lifebow · 18/01/2025 16:22

I got sent by some idiot a pornhub video of her - I instantly switched off when I realised it was - not without viewing a few seconds. I just felt immensely sorry for her and so sad she's caught up all this mess. This idiot told me there are videos of her everywhere commenting on the 'look' of her private parts- deeply mysogonistic brutal comments.

The world is messed up.

Why do you feel sorry for her? I just watched that Good Morning clip, she's just educating all these poor innocent 18 yr old virgins, imagine if it was the other way around!

GildedRage · 18/01/2025 17:59

mental illness and self harm come to mind
what she is doing is unhealthy whether she admits to it (or others) at this time or not.

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:01

I think what she is doing is fine.
We all have free will. If she wants to do it why not.

No one is forcing her.

She said she enjoys it

GildedRage · 18/01/2025 18:02

@Applecharm25 do you say the same of people with anorexia or trans individuals who go through extreme surgery?

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:04

GildedRage · 18/01/2025 18:02

@Applecharm25 do you say the same of people with anorexia or trans individuals who go through extreme surgery?

Yes of course I support trans individuals if they want to have surgery. It's their choice.

My cousin is trans sexual, and he is much much happier after surgery.

QuickMember · 18/01/2025 18:05

I think in lots of things there tends to be the sensible and moderate middle. B Blue and Lily Phillips are not examples of this. It’s OK to judge them.

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