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Bonnie Blue -sex positivity or old fashioned shame?

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mids2019 · 18/01/2025 05:49

Bonnie Blue.....just why?

I guess we have a woman that has made a lot of money and notoriety out of an act but I really can't see this as being a positive really. I guess it does highlight the age old question whether we should be against at female promiscuity or not be judgemental about how a woman use her body but it does seem rather crass.

Anyway I prefer other world records perosnally.

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SleepyHippy3 · 18/01/2025 18:07

MatriarchalMadness · 18/01/2025 15:41

She's a disgusting, gruesome whore

What about the 1057 men who excitedly turned up to have a go, a lot of them much older men. What would you call them?

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:18

SleepyHippy3 · 18/01/2025 18:07

What about the 1057 men who excitedly turned up to have a go, a lot of them much older men. What would you call them?

Oh the men never get blamed!

SleepyHippy3 · 18/01/2025 18:21

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:39

I haven't looked at the porn sites in depth lately:

but I'm pretty sure there are videos of one man sleeping with a thousand girls in one night.

Bonnie is making the news as it was not previously normal for women to do this. And to brag about it.

The porn industry was all about men controlling women

I feel like she's sticking two fingers up to the porn industry in a way. She's managing herself, doing what she wants and is making money.

I don’t think she is sticking up 2 fingers at the industry, with what she has done. Yes, it was consensual, yes she made good money from it, but it’s not some kind of defiant act against the porn industry. If anything, it’s almost like a salut to it. The1057 men that turned up, knowing that another thousand men will be „”sleeping” with her in the same time frame, probably was a porn fantasty come true. They had an opportunity and they ceased it, without any scruples. Regardless of what anyone says, i truly believe that she didn’t think this through properly. She’s still so young. I think in ten years time she will look back at this in a very different way.

TENSsion · 18/01/2025 18:21

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 15:25

I'm not saying it's empowering exactly

I'm just saying, she is doing what men have done for years.

And people don't like it. It's causing more of a fuss - because it's a woman doing it

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What men have had women lining up to have sex with them for 40 seconds?

GildedRage · 18/01/2025 18:22

Each man had sex with 1 person (and yes paying for sex is wrong) she on the other hand had sex with 1000’s. It’s not really the same.
The shame though is that this level of promiscuity is mentally unhealthy long term goes against social norms to an extreme. It won’t end well.
Men who use prostitutes are equally unwell btw.
Any man who thought being part of a chain of men ejaculating into a hole show extreme poor judgement.
I pity her.

TENSsion · 18/01/2025 18:22

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:18

Oh the men never get blamed!

They do. But in this thread, the topic is “Bonnie Blue -sex positivity or old fashioned shame?”

TENSsion · 18/01/2025 18:25

SallyWD · 18/01/2025 15:52

Ok, well, I still don't believe such videos exist. If they did, BB wouldn't be breaking world records. She's doing something groundbreaking, I suppose. Something men haven't done. But whatever, I find it very unpleasant whether men or women do it. It's not something to be celebrated.

It also wouldn’t be the same because those women are there for money. The men queuing up to put their dick in her for less than a minute are doing it for free.

Women wouldn’t queue up to do this.

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:33

TENSsion · 18/01/2025 18:21

What men have had women lining up to have sex with them for 40 seconds?

Lots of men. Gary beadle (Geordie shore) said that women used to line up outside his hotel room waiting for sex.

People have also said that women used to line up outside harry styles room to wait to have sex with him

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:33

TENSsion · 18/01/2025 18:25

It also wouldn’t be the same because those women are there for money. The men queuing up to put their dick in her for less than a minute are doing it for free.

Women wouldn’t queue up to do this.

Women queue up to have sex with famous men.

TENSsion · 18/01/2025 18:37

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:33

Women queue up to have sex with famous men.

Literally queue up? Stand in a line of a thousand and use their hand to make themselves ready for their turn?

NewYearStillFat · 18/01/2025 19:46

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:18

Oh the men never get blamed!

Have you read the thread? That’s not true at all.

NewYearStillFat · 18/01/2025 19:48

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 18:33

Lots of men. Gary beadle (Geordie shore) said that women used to line up outside his hotel room waiting for sex.

People have also said that women used to line up outside harry styles room to wait to have sex with him

Really 🤮

lavendarwillow · 18/01/2025 21:03

Greed is repulsive but I cannot fathom how anyone would degrade themselves to such depths of depravity for money, no matter how much. Whether she's telling the truth or not, it's disgusting either way.

Applecharm25 · 18/01/2025 21:08

lavendarwillow · 18/01/2025 21:03

Greed is repulsive but I cannot fathom how anyone would degrade themselves to such depths of depravity for money, no matter how much. Whether she's telling the truth or not, it's disgusting either way.

I think some people just don't see sex as that important at all

So to her it's like kissing 1000 guys.

People see sex in very different ways.

I was chatting to a couple of different men about sex recently. We were in different places. They both had very different opinions.

One of them said that sex isn't that important to him. It's like having a sneeze. After it's over he just goes on to the next job

Whereas the second man said to me that he would never have a one night stand. That sex was an important emotional thing to him and he would only have sex with a girlfriend

CheeseQuiche · 18/01/2025 21:16

I agree with PP. Some people view sex as no different to a sneeze or a kiss, so whilst what these women are doing sounds outrageous, its no different to them as shaking hands with 100 people.

That said, I dont believe it's anywhere near 1000 guys in reality, its more a publicity stunt as its so outrageous. Probably 100 which is still going some.

User32459 · 18/01/2025 21:46

I remember when liberalism was associated with JFK or Martin Luther King. Now it's Bonnie Blue. What has happened to liberals? This is where we are in 2025.

This is the last days of Rome. How has this happened?

TaraRhu · 18/01/2025 22:55

NewYearStillFat · 18/01/2025 07:10

I find it so saddening that there’s over 1000 men willing to participate too. Shows the lack of respect for women and sex.

^^ this . Why is Bonnie taking the bullet ? 1000 men wanted to take part in this. They are accountable. Let's get their names in the paper!

CheeseQuiche · 18/01/2025 22:57

TaraRhu · 18/01/2025 22:55

^^ this . Why is Bonnie taking the bullet ? 1000 men wanted to take part in this. They are accountable. Let's get their names in the paper!

Are you unfamiliar with men? The chance to shag a pornstar for free and video it to show all your mates. No wonder they're queueing round the block.

mids2019 · 19/01/2025 06:11

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bonnie_Blue_(actress)

Bonnie is an actress with her own wiki page (which I certainly don't have). When pornstars can gain fame then we are in a strange new world. Bonnie has marketed herself quite well really, maybe she'll be on newsnight next? Maybe politics? She certainly has a greater profile than my local councillors.

Bonnie Blue (actress) - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bonnie_Blue_(actress)

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mids2019 · 19/01/2025 06:23

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lily_Phillips

There does seem to be a lot of debate from commentators in the media and maybe a genuine rise of the relative came of these girls. The lamb Lily seems to be fairly intelligent having attended Sheffield University but presumably seeing easier routes to renumeration.

Lily Phillips - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lily_Phillips

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foxandbee · 19/01/2025 06:36

SkiingIsHeaven · 18/01/2025 07:29

I asked my husband what he thought about her and he said that he thought she was a repugnant cum bucket.

I'm glad that there are still decent men around.

I also can't believe the number of men in that timeframe. It's one every 43 seconds.

She's not doing herself any favours and I think she will regret it in the future.

The previous record breaker was interviewed and she said that she really regretted the stunt.

It makes me feel sick. I don't think it's empowering at all. She is naive and deluded.

What a charmer of a man.

I would hate to be with a man who described a woman in that way. A woman who is so obviously horribly damaged in some way.

Luddite26 · 19/01/2025 06:39

User32459 · 18/01/2025 21:46

I remember when liberalism was associated with JFK or Martin Luther King. Now it's Bonnie Blue. What has happened to liberals? This is where we are in 2025.

This is the last days of Rome. How has this happened?

JFK he treated women well didn't he? Least of all his wife.

MsGoodWife · 19/01/2025 06:48

SkiingIsHeaven · 18/01/2025 07:29

I asked my husband what he thought about her and he said that he thought she was a repugnant cum bucket.

I'm glad that there are still decent men around.

I also can't believe the number of men in that timeframe. It's one every 43 seconds.

She's not doing herself any favours and I think she will regret it in the future.

The previous record breaker was interviewed and she said that she really regretted the stunt.

It makes me feel sick. I don't think it's empowering at all. She is naive and deluded.

Of all the things your husband could have said, you think calling someone a "cum bucket " shows he is decent? Your husband is repugnant to speak like that to you.

mids2019 · 19/01/2025 06:57

Well in a postiv e sense at least Keely Hodgkinson (winner of ports personality of the year) has nearly caught up with Lily Philips in terms of Instagram followers (500K to 800K).

I think the disturbing thing is that there is a kind of game associated with these actresses that is hard to take issue with in the public sphere. Comedians like Jimmy Carr couldn't really make a joke out of this without appearing misogynist and when asked about it didn't use withering wit but avoided saying much really.

Maybe we are in an age where disgust can't be aired in public as we are a lot more liberal as a society?

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mids2019 · 19/01/2025 06:57

Well in a postiv e sense at least Keely Hodgkinson (winner of ports personality of the year) has nearly caught up with Lily Philips in terms of Instagram followers (500K to 800K).

I think the disturbing thing is that there is a kind of game associated with these actresses that is hard to take issue with in the public sphere. Comedians like Jimmy Carr couldn't really make a joke out of this without appearing misogynist and when asked about it didn't use withering wit but avoided saying much really.

Maybe we are in an age where disgust can't be aired in public as we are a lot more liberal as a society?

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