Was the OW now the DW - AMA

[Ivgotasecretcanyoukeepit]

I was the OW now the DW so AMA if you’re interested.

Did you know your now DH was married/had a partner when you became OW?

@MyBreadIsEggy

Yes. He was married.

Why did you do it?

Do you trust your DH?

Are you proud of yourself

Does the idea that he has created a vacancy play on your mind ?

What's so special about you that you think anyone would be interested ?

@honeysucklejasmine

I have never been short of male attention and I had been in love before but the moment my DH and I met I had never felt anything like it before.

I was like a thunderbolt and I was completely smitten. Sounds pathetic but we connected instantly.

My daughter's husband cheated on her and she was heartbroken and divorced him. Why are you proud to have broken someone's heart?

So you knew he was married and just cracked on anyway?

This is going to go well.....

@shaggedthru

Yes I do but can you ever trust someone 100%?

How long have you been together?
How long was the affair and how long have you been together since he left his wife?

So you're not short of male attention and got with a married man anyway. Yeah this is not going to end well.

Who's the new OW?

I have never been short of male attention and I had been in love before but the moment my DH and I met I had never felt anything like it before.

Do you really think that makes it?

If you were so in love, why couldn't you have done it properly?

@MrStark

No. We are completely suited. Even his exDW says that.

I trust my DH 100% because I know he's not a cheat. He's never cheated as he's been cheated on and knows how awful it feels.
Would you ever cheat on your DH? does he trust you to not run off with another married man?

This one pops up to boast on every OW thread, she's fucking delighted with herself.

How old are you? You sound either young or naive

You do know that if he did it with you he will do it to you?
Not having a go but I saw this happen to an old friend, like you she thought it was the romance of the century. Then they got married, had a dd and she wasn't exciting enough and he was onto the next one .....

Hi EW says you're a perfect match? I don't think she's meaning that with sincerity. Probably thinking your both twats and well suited

Are you regretting this thread yet? :)

Seriously though - how did you deal with the social awkwardness after you became the official partner? Were you accepted into his inner circle or did the two of you have to move to a new area and start again?

Did he have children if so what is your relationship like with them?

We are completely suited

Yes, neither of you believe in fidelity or marrriage vows for a start.