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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The 'this is what a feminist looks like' tshirt?

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jenny60 · 19/05/2010 10:45

Have one of these and am a member of the Fawcett Society but feel a little odd wearing it. Very happy to be seen as a feminist - it's no secret . But slightly worried that it looks as though I'm saying either 'look at me: I'm normal looking, I don't wear dungarees, have short hair, cliche, stereotype etc...' or 'Aren't I gorgeous. Bet you dodn't know feminists could be gorgeous?'.
Anyone else got one? What do yout think?

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YunoYurbubson · 23/05/2010 10:30

On the Fawcettsoc site it says click on the slebs to see why they are a feminist. Under Bill Bailey's pic he has put

"Three women walk into a pub and say, `Hooray, we've colonised a male-dominated joke format'"

Blackduck · 23/05/2010 09:19

Why don't they do the Millicent one for adults??

I have a very old t-shirt from the 80's or may be 90's which says
'The future is female, and she's pissed off'. not sure about the former, but the latter is still true....

blackcurrants · 23/05/2010 02:06

Raksha: Love that site! bookmarked in case the wriggling thing turns out to be a girl. Mmn. Kind of want to order the onesie for a girl OR a boy, to be honest. SO fabulous!

Seth: now stoppit, you'll just make me pine.
The hot weather made me want fish and chips and a nice swim in the tees... oh well! Am eating lots of ice lollies and lounging around, that's helping.

PosyPetrovaPauline · 22/05/2010 21:13

ooh seth what moors are they?

sethstarkaddersmum · 22/05/2010 20:12

Come back to Yorkshire Blackcurrants - it's heavenly here today. Have spent the day discovering new swimming holes on the Moors!

Raksha · 22/05/2010 04:04

oooooooooooo. i've just found somewhere i might pick up a few bits from for the dds, including some books - and some rather fetching notecards that say stuff like 'tell me 'you throw like a girl' is a compliment', and 'please tell me 'the glass ceiling' is a fairy tale'...

www.girlsinc.org

i can't wait to see if their books deliver waht it says on the tin.

PosyPetrovaPauline · 21/05/2010 23:21

blackcurrents - its actually warm here too!

blackcurrants · 21/05/2010 18:14

I'm about to buy it, just as soon as I get find it! That's fab!
[waves north]

PS Dear East coast of America: I AM TOO HOT. please turn off this stupid summer or repatriate me to Yorkshire. Thanks.

Raksha · 21/05/2010 17:55

that one's better though - it suggests it's what you want for him, rather than something he's supposed to have worked out himself . i'd buy that one.

sethstarkaddersmum · 21/05/2010 17:29

I've got 'Mommy's little feminist' for my baby, and I don't care who knows it

I very much doubt he is actually a feminist, though I'm sure he will be one day.

Raksha · 21/05/2010 17:26

i was completely speechless. i haven't let her forget it though, poor child. fruit of my loins yapping about 'wimmin's work' indeed. gah.

we're in canada btw

blackcurrants · 21/05/2010 17:21

Raksha, Milicent tendencies IS kind of fantastic - will make less sense over here (USA) but if that means I get to tell more people about Milicent Fawcett, that's fine by me...
As for your DC - hah! Blimey, it's amazing what gets into their brains, isn't it? Bit scary, that.

Raksha · 21/05/2010 17:17

lol blackcurrants - get a 'millicent tendencies' one instead if it's a girl

not keen on 'this is what...' on babies, however keen i am to raise them that way

i also have an 8yo ds who told me he didn't want to get married and have kids because it was too much work and there was too much cooking. dd1 piped up 'but that's the woman's job...' she was in the dog house for a month - dh cooks in this house, and does the ironing, i had no idea that somewhere deep in her subconscious she had been got at by bleeding barbie.

RamblingRosa · 21/05/2010 13:43

I like it. I'd wear it. In fact, I might get one. I've seen that t-shirt on men (can't remember who but some famous men).

jenny60 · 21/05/2010 13:40

Brilliant: wish I had a baby to put one on. We do it all the time anyway, so we may as well begin well. Mine had a republican slogan (as in anti monarchist) bib. I wish could remember what it had on it. It was very cute.

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blackcurrants · 21/05/2010 13:33

sideline tangent: You can get "This is what a feminist looks like" on babygros. DH sent me an email with the link, being all cute and excited. (This defines DH when it comes to talking about the as-yet-unborn baby. He's basically a spaniel puppy about it. I'll let you know how much that damps down after some sleepless nights filled with wailing, poo, sick, etc!)

My immediate reaction was "OMG AWESOME" (because DH isn't the only spaniel-puppy-personality in this relationship) and of course I wanted to get one, thinking "then everyone will know that feminists are just PEOPLE and all thinking people are feminists!" etc. Plus, whether we have a boy or girl, we'll be raising them as feminist as we blardy well can....

THEN I thought: "is it right to attribute a political consciousness to a baby when it's basically just a projection of our beliefs?"
I mean in some ways it's no different to christening a baby, you're saying "I hope you share our values and are welcomed by our community" - but still, what do you think to feminist slogans on babygros? Cute? Appropriate? Too twee?

Also, feel free to tell me I'm overthinking this. Too hot to sleep much, I have plenty of dead time to over think in atm!

elportodelgato · 21/05/2010 10:50

I have one but to my shame only wear it round the house
Mainly because I don't want people to come up to me and say 'oh, so feminists look overweight / drunk / scruffy (delete as appropriate) do they?!' Maybe I would wear it if looking particularly yummy mummy but when that might be, I don't know...

Sammyuni · 21/05/2010 10:45

I have seen some guys wear this just for fun they say they are not feminist's they just think it looks pretty cool

SolidGoldBrass · 21/05/2010 10:10

PPP: Yup. CAT me

PosyPetrovaPauline · 20/05/2010 20:52

SGB ok i get it. I would be in the market for a keyring - do you sell them?

TerritorialMosquito · 20/05/2010 16:02

I am loving the idea of the three women running the PTA cake stall wearing Fawcett Society T-shirts . That has totally made my year - please, please do it and put photos on your profile!! (even for ten minutes, just be sure to let me know when to look!)

and SGM, your 'I prefer my men...' T-shirt made me literally weep with laughter. I'm just not sure whether DH would let me wear it...

StewieGriffinsMom · 20/05/2010 13:17

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Ewe · 20/05/2010 11:42

The Marxist t-shirt is for sale here, although can't work out if they ship to the UK.

jenny60 · 20/05/2010 11:05

sorry, can spell really: have use of only one hand today!

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