I forgot to add,the lad in question comes into my work (retail) and yep,your right
He's a cocky little twat who is banned but that doesn't stop him-he just tries to sneak in (we sling him out and he struts back in)
This young lady is lovely (I know her lovely family) and is very upset (I don't blame her) from what I can gather,he's been chasing her for months and nobody cares
He's always trying to touch up other girls and all they seem to get back is 'he likes you' or 'just ignore him' (im sick of hearing a girl scream and he's standing there,smirking)
That's the same shite I got at school (I left over 30 years ago) and nothing has changed
It's why I get so angry at 'lessons will very learned'
They are never learned but it's a good soundbite to trot out when yet another woman is raped/killed/badly hurt
If they where serious,then they'd clamp down on this behaviour and do something about it
But they won't because its expensive and 'lads will be lads'
I've been touched up 10 times over almost 11 years at work
7 of those times the police didn't bother to come out,twice they didn't even bother to watch the cctv/spoke to me like I was making a fuss over nothing and once walked in with 'what do you want us to do about the man who pinned you against the bin and touched you in your knickers?'
'Do your job and arrest him,you have the cctv as proof' was the wrong answer apparently
Not once where these males spoken to,let alone arrested or charged
Somehow,it's my fault for daring to have a job so that means I'm fair game