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Lack of evidence based information about gender dysphoria, medicalisation and sex rejecting surgery

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simonr07 · 22/09/2026 11:17

Our story is familiar to many families who have navigated the complexities of digital influences on their children. Our 16 year old daughter, who is autistic, has spent countless hours online, especially since the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic. Like many parents, we've watched with concern as she has absorbed unchecked information, leading her to believe she is transgender, primarily influenced by online platforms and peer discussions.

The saturation of social media content and peer pressure can skew perceptions, making it harder for impressionable young people to make informed choices. This is a broader societal issue where misinformation can lead to irreversible life changes made without the necessary understanding or support.

It seems very difficult to find sources we can point our daughter to which give an evidence-based view of medication and surgery available for people diagnosed with gender dysphoria. Evidence increasingly shows there are very far from good outcomes for many who choose to go down the pathway of medication and surgery and all who do it face a life time of drug taking and surgery side effects.

When we visit the NHS website of our local GP they refer our daughter to a local LGBTQ+ group, and when our daughter started college they allowed her to change the name on her card and pronouns to he/him. It seems like we are fighting against the whole world to stop our daughter from medically transitioning.

Please sign and share my petition if you agree , it's about better access to evidence based, science based information rather than the gender affirming information our teens are referred to when they query their gender...

https://c.org/nGgVt2NrsN

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simonr07 · 24/09/2026 09:15

Leafstamp · 22/09/2026 20:54

Sorry that you have had to deal with this. Children and their families have been so badly let down.

Perhaps not entirely the point of your posts but have you come across the following:

https://statsforgender.org

https://www.bayswatersupport.org.uk

Bayswater is a very good support group, it's frightening how many parents are in the same position as ourselves

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simonr07 · 24/09/2026 09:14

Leafstamp · 22/09/2026 20:54

Sorry that you have had to deal with this. Children and their families have been so badly let down.

Perhaps not entirely the point of your posts but have you come across the following:

https://statsforgender.org

https://www.bayswatersupport.org.uk

Thanks @Leafstamp the site is very useful for us and Genspect do have great resources. The difficulty is our daughter sees this as propaganda, she sees the NHS and college referring her to lgbtq+ websites and therefore they are seen as the authority. I think the Genspect info needs to be referenced by the NHS (they need to stick their neck out on the side of science here !) and the same goes the Colleges/ schools.

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Leafstamp · 22/09/2026 20:54

Sorry that you have had to deal with this. Children and their families have been so badly let down.

Perhaps not entirely the point of your posts but have you come across the following:

https://statsforgender.org

https://www.bayswatersupport.org.uk

Stats for Gender

Providing reliable and accessible information on gender and transition.

https://statsforgender.org

FarriersGirl · 22/09/2026 17:30

Signed - I wish you and your family well with this OP. TRA's have a vested interest in not collecting good quality evidence.😠

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 22/09/2026 11:37

Signed, and bumping for more eyes.

Imdunfer · 22/09/2026 11:24

Done but it's an uphill battle as the trans movement actively prevents such research, sadly.

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