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Lib Dem conference big vote on supporting women's rights tomorrow

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fromorbit · 20/09/2026 22:27

Vote tomorrow at the conference with major implications

Lib Dem conference ‘descends into culture wars’ with trans vote
Party wrong to debate pro-trans proposals that will ‘be weaponised against us’, say campaigners

Published 20 September 2026 6:45pm BST
The Liberal Democrats have been accused of “taking a sledgehammer to women’s rights” by debating proposals for more “inclusive” rules on single-sex spaces.
The party will vote on Monday on a proposal to scrap new guidance banning transgender women, who are born male, from female toilets and changing rooms at its annual conference.
The plans are set out in an emergency motion selected by Lib Dem members, which will also force the party to take a firm stance on whether “trans women are women”.
Liberal Voice for Women, a Lib Dem group campaigning for sex-based rights, warned the policy would be pushed through by a conference “stacked with activists” and force the party “back into the culture wars”.
The backlash threatens to embroil the Lib Dem conference in a transgender row for a second year running, despite Sir Ed Davey insisting on Saturday that he led “the most united party in British politics”.
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OneDenimPombear · 23/09/2026 12:54

Awkwardisfunny · 21/09/2026 23:20

Yeah, 'literally'. Do you know what I mean by that?

So, you know at the airport when a woman pats you down but you don't stop to ask if she is gay. It's because you don't actually care that someone might be enjoying touching you. Unless a group of people suddenly make it a huge political issue. So why not allow a man to pat you down? Why does it need to be same sex and not 'either same sex and hetero or different sex and gay'. Because deep down.. we don't give a sh*t.

We claim to care but we don't. It doesn't keep us up at night. I don't care if a genuine transwoman has a (sit-down) wee (please 🙏🏼) in the women's toilets, but I do care that by setting a policy that allows this, no one can question an actual man being in there alone with me (or the transwoman) and that eventually, someone is going to demand cameras in public bathrooms like in the USA. I'm much more concerned about that.

Speak only for yourself . I care being patted down by a man.

PoliticalGamer · 23/09/2026 12:43

MyPearlViper · 23/09/2026 07:06

This is interesting: https://x.com/LibVoice4Women/status/2102631669710942712?s=20

The way votes transfer in Lib Dem elections means that with three slots to fill, the Trans motion got through on first preferences.

But it wasn't a sure thing if they had only had two motions being selected.

The conference papers all said that there were two slots reserved for Emergency Motions, but in the end they actually found room for 3.

I mean, we will probably never know if this was deliberate. But if any senior Lib Dems are out there looking at this car crash, the knowledge that someone might have had a hand in gerrymandering things to advantage the TRAs must be a bit galling

We know that the TRAs worked with Marie Goldman - LDs Women and Equalities spokesperson - on the wording of the motion. They have confirmed this on Reddit and Bluesky.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 23/09/2026 11:46

Pingponghavoc · 23/09/2026 11:33

The point is no PC takes priority over another, when PC conflict, we have to balance rights.

If politicians believe that the PC of GR allows people to be treated as their target sex, its understandable that they will make policies to allow men to use women's spaces. I dont agree, but what is the point of GR if it isnt about being treated as the opposite sex? Gender non conformity could be protected under sex.

When politicians talk about 'safe spaces' and single sex spaces, its their attempt to balance rights. They are making single sex spaces and single gender spaces.

As I said, I dont agree, and it isn't going to work because it imposes gender onto everyone. Also, theres no point to single gender spaces. But I can see how they are getting there from the EqA.

I dont agree, but what is the point of GR if it isnt about being treated as the opposite sex?

In the Equality Act it's about protection from discrimination and so you need a comparator.

Trying to think through your suggestion on being gender non conforming, if somebody didn't give somebody a job because they were trans, and there were no PC of gender reassignment, what would the comparator be? Maybe the PC of belief would work better?

Pingponghavoc · 23/09/2026 11:33

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 23/09/2026 09:11

One of the problems with the EqA is it balances the rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. That may make sense in some situations, but its been used in safeguarding, too.

This mischaracterises the Equality Act. There is no balancing of rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. The PCs are standalone.

The point is no PC takes priority over another, when PC conflict, we have to balance rights.

If politicians believe that the PC of GR allows people to be treated as their target sex, its understandable that they will make policies to allow men to use women's spaces. I dont agree, but what is the point of GR if it isnt about being treated as the opposite sex? Gender non conformity could be protected under sex.

When politicians talk about 'safe spaces' and single sex spaces, its their attempt to balance rights. They are making single sex spaces and single gender spaces.

As I said, I dont agree, and it isn't going to work because it imposes gender onto everyone. Also, theres no point to single gender spaces. But I can see how they are getting there from the EqA.

hholiday · 23/09/2026 11:11

The Times is reporting there was some Lib Aden shindig last night where they were all singing Let us pee to the Beetles tune. In a week where a trans policeman is on trial for raping a little girl in a ladies’ toilet, the disconnect is appalling. Literally partying while little girls have their lives destroyed.

MrPrettyDamnCosmic · 23/09/2026 09:11

Pingponghavoc · 22/09/2026 23:19

To be fair, Suella Braverman talks about repelling the EqA and going back to having stand alone acts to protect sex and other characters.

One of the problems with the EqA is it balances the rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. That may make sense in some situations, but its been used in safeguarding, too.

That's part of the problem with politicians, they look at it like scales and are convinced that women and girls have more rights than men with GR. I think thats what Lammy meant about dinosaurs hoarding rights, its as if we should make concessions in safeguarding for fairness.

If sex discrimination was a separate act, maybe the idea of compromising safeguarding for mens rights would be harder to argue? Although the GRA was written before the EqA, so maybe not!

One of the problems with the EqA is it balances the rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. That may make sense in some situations, but its been used in safeguarding, too.

This mischaracterises the Equality Act. There is no balancing of rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. The PCs are standalone.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 23/09/2026 08:04

MyPearlViper · 23/09/2026 07:06

This is interesting: https://x.com/LibVoice4Women/status/2102631669710942712?s=20

The way votes transfer in Lib Dem elections means that with three slots to fill, the Trans motion got through on first preferences.

But it wasn't a sure thing if they had only had two motions being selected.

The conference papers all said that there were two slots reserved for Emergency Motions, but in the end they actually found room for 3.

I mean, we will probably never know if this was deliberate. But if any senior Lib Dems are out there looking at this car crash, the knowledge that someone might have had a hand in gerrymandering things to advantage the TRAs must be a bit galling

So rigged then. So much for the Democratic part of their party name.

Seriestwo · 23/09/2026 07:57

The scottish leader Alex Cole Hamilton says lies about the law and who advises him.x.com/hightreebud/status/2102397240799313962?s=46

iwishitwouldstartraining · 23/09/2026 07:30

Pingponghavoc · 23/09/2026 00:49

Which party could be trusted?

A party that doesn’t revolve around servicing crypto billionaires.

EasternStandard · 23/09/2026 07:14

ArabellaScott · 22/09/2026 20:41

It's interesting to consider what might be at risk if Reform get in.

Labour or a leftist coalition may try to change the EA to diminish womens rights. Reform may scrap it all together.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9dnjg896zno

I’d go with the woman who thanked someone from another party because she can see how key it is.

ArabellaScott · 23/09/2026 07:10

Pingponghavoc · 22/09/2026 23:19

To be fair, Suella Braverman talks about repelling the EqA and going back to having stand alone acts to protect sex and other characters.

One of the problems with the EqA is it balances the rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. That may make sense in some situations, but its been used in safeguarding, too.

That's part of the problem with politicians, they look at it like scales and are convinced that women and girls have more rights than men with GR. I think thats what Lammy meant about dinosaurs hoarding rights, its as if we should make concessions in safeguarding for fairness.

If sex discrimination was a separate act, maybe the idea of compromising safeguarding for mens rights would be harder to argue? Although the GRA was written before the EqA, so maybe not!

Farage is quoted as wanting to.get rid of all protected characteristics.

MyPearlViper · 23/09/2026 07:06

This is interesting: https://x.com/LibVoice4Women/status/2102631669710942712?s=20

The way votes transfer in Lib Dem elections means that with three slots to fill, the Trans motion got through on first preferences.

But it wasn't a sure thing if they had only had two motions being selected.

The conference papers all said that there were two slots reserved for Emergency Motions, but in the end they actually found room for 3.

I mean, we will probably never know if this was deliberate. But if any senior Lib Dems are out there looking at this car crash, the knowledge that someone might have had a hand in gerrymandering things to advantage the TRAs must be a bit galling

Liberal Voice for Women (@LibVoice4Women) on X

Qns were asked about the emergency motion ballot after conference extra & voting email both said two emergency motions would be chosen for debate. Members were then told 3 had been selected. Rumours abounded - why the change? So the voting data was...

https://x.com/LibVoice4Women/status/2102631669710942712?s=20

IwantToRetire · 23/09/2026 01:42

Pingponghavoc · 22/09/2026 23:19

To be fair, Suella Braverman talks about repelling the EqA and going back to having stand alone acts to protect sex and other characters.

One of the problems with the EqA is it balances the rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. That may make sense in some situations, but its been used in safeguarding, too.

That's part of the problem with politicians, they look at it like scales and are convinced that women and girls have more rights than men with GR. I think thats what Lammy meant about dinosaurs hoarding rights, its as if we should make concessions in safeguarding for fairness.

If sex discrimination was a separate act, maybe the idea of compromising safeguarding for mens rights would be harder to argue? Although the GRA was written before the EqA, so maybe not!

One of the problems with the EqA is it balances the rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. That may make sense in some situations, but its been used in safeguarding, too.

This was directly addressed by the Supreme Court ruling.

It explicitly referred to the fact that Sex was the only protected characteristic infringed on by another. Which was why not only did they rule that sex mean biology, but that in confirming clarifying that, they said the only group disadvantaged by this clarification where those with a GRC. ie the around 10,000 people in the UK.

And at the time some trans people with GRCS did write about that, but it was more useful to the TRAs to whip up the fake hysteria of all those who aren't even covered by the EA or the GRA to say their rights have been taken away.

Whereas you could say, it is more a correction or reminder to the public at large to behave in a decent way. ie not having men use any excuse to intrude into women only spaces.

Forget about good manners and empathy, it is about telling people not to behave like aggressive and in some instances violent louts.

Pingponghavoc · 23/09/2026 00:49

Which party could be trusted?

iwishitwouldstartraining · 22/09/2026 23:29

Pingponghavoc · 22/09/2026 23:19

To be fair, Suella Braverman talks about repelling the EqA and going back to having stand alone acts to protect sex and other characters.

One of the problems with the EqA is it balances the rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. That may make sense in some situations, but its been used in safeguarding, too.

That's part of the problem with politicians, they look at it like scales and are convinced that women and girls have more rights than men with GR. I think thats what Lammy meant about dinosaurs hoarding rights, its as if we should make concessions in safeguarding for fairness.

If sex discrimination was a separate act, maybe the idea of compromising safeguarding for mens rights would be harder to argue? Although the GRA was written before the EqA, so maybe not!

I don’t think Reform can be trusted to draft equality legislation.

Pingponghavoc · 22/09/2026 23:19

ArabellaScott · 22/09/2026 20:41

It's interesting to consider what might be at risk if Reform get in.

Labour or a leftist coalition may try to change the EA to diminish womens rights. Reform may scrap it all together.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9dnjg896zno

To be fair, Suella Braverman talks about repelling the EqA and going back to having stand alone acts to protect sex and other characters.

One of the problems with the EqA is it balances the rights of women and girls with the rights of men with the PC of GR. That may make sense in some situations, but its been used in safeguarding, too.

That's part of the problem with politicians, they look at it like scales and are convinced that women and girls have more rights than men with GR. I think thats what Lammy meant about dinosaurs hoarding rights, its as if we should make concessions in safeguarding for fairness.

If sex discrimination was a separate act, maybe the idea of compromising safeguarding for mens rights would be harder to argue? Although the GRA was written before the EqA, so maybe not!

ArabellaScott · 22/09/2026 20:42

iwishitwouldstartraining · 22/09/2026 20:03

"My feminism was born when I went to university and started to understand the structural inequalities facing women in a society that was run by men and working for men."

Good luck explaining structural inequalities facing women if legislation and policy can't distinguish sex.

I think she means the head tilt.

ArabellaScott · 22/09/2026 20:41

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 18:59

The scary part is the law is the law now. Legislation can change it.

It's interesting to consider what might be at risk if Reform get in.

Labour or a leftist coalition may try to change the EA to diminish womens rights. Reform may scrap it all together.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9dnjg896zno

RedToothBrush · 22/09/2026 20:15

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 22/09/2026 20:09

Thanks, my comment is awaiting moderation, I'm betting it won't pass. 😂

"My feminism was born when I went to university ..."

She done learned it, so she must be a proper 'feminist'.

There's also the arrogant implication that she must know better than other people because she went to university so knows things and is educated and other people aren't.

Lord give me strength against these fuckwits who think they know everything and actually know completely fuck all.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 22/09/2026 20:09

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2026 19:49

What does a Lib Dem “trans activist” look like?
I will not take any lessons on feminism from any organisation which dehumanises, misgenders and creates a false narrative around any marginalised group of people. In fact, I’ve noticed that many of the most unpleasantly noisy men in these organisations have been some of the greatest barriers to anything I’ve wanted to achieve on women’s rights over decades.
https://www.libdemvoice.org/what-does-a-lib-dem-trans-activist-look-like-80500.html

Open for comments if anyone is inclined or bothered.

Thanks, my comment is awaiting moderation, I'm betting it won't pass. 😂

"My feminism was born when I went to university ..."

She done learned it, so she must be a proper 'feminist'.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 22/09/2026 20:03

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2026 19:49

What does a Lib Dem “trans activist” look like?
I will not take any lessons on feminism from any organisation which dehumanises, misgenders and creates a false narrative around any marginalised group of people. In fact, I’ve noticed that many of the most unpleasantly noisy men in these organisations have been some of the greatest barriers to anything I’ve wanted to achieve on women’s rights over decades.
https://www.libdemvoice.org/what-does-a-lib-dem-trans-activist-look-like-80500.html

Open for comments if anyone is inclined or bothered.

"My feminism was born when I went to university and started to understand the structural inequalities facing women in a society that was run by men and working for men."

Good luck explaining structural inequalities facing women if legislation and policy can't distinguish sex.

RedToothBrush · 22/09/2026 19:58

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2026 19:49

What does a Lib Dem “trans activist” look like?
I will not take any lessons on feminism from any organisation which dehumanises, misgenders and creates a false narrative around any marginalised group of people. In fact, I’ve noticed that many of the most unpleasantly noisy men in these organisations have been some of the greatest barriers to anything I’ve wanted to achieve on women’s rights over decades.
https://www.libdemvoice.org/what-does-a-lib-dem-trans-activist-look-like-80500.html

Open for comments if anyone is inclined or bothered.

God she's actually brain dead.

"I support trans people but I haven't got the first fucking clue about legislation and practical application of law. I just am a nice person"

Whoopie. Join the club. Except. Real world application.

Totally and utterly away with the fairies.

It's like watching someone doing English homework and totally missing the point hat you need to read the question very carefully and understand the entire paragraph properly.

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2026 19:49

What does a Lib Dem “trans activist” look like?
I will not take any lessons on feminism from any organisation which dehumanises, misgenders and creates a false narrative around any marginalised group of people. In fact, I’ve noticed that many of the most unpleasantly noisy men in these organisations have been some of the greatest barriers to anything I’ve wanted to achieve on women’s rights over decades.
https://www.libdemvoice.org/what-does-a-lib-dem-trans-activist-look-like-80500.html

Open for comments if anyone is inclined or bothered.

What does a Lib Dem “trans activist” look like?

Yesterday afternoon, Lib Dem Conference passed a motion calling for the EHRC’s Code of Practice to be withdrawn and for work to be done on a cross party basis to work out what changes in the law were necessary to ensure that everyone, women, trans peop...

https://www.libdemvoice.org/what-does-a-lib-dem-trans-activist-look-like-80500.html

EasternStandard · 22/09/2026 18:59

The scary part is the law is the law now. Legislation can change it.

IwantToRetire · 22/09/2026 18:47

Related to both this thread and Green thread

The Law Is the Law. So Why Is Everyone Choosing Which Bits to Obey?
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5581334-the-law-is-the-law-so-why-is-everyone-choosing-which-bits-to-obey